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UNDERSTANDABLE Robert Siegers
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► About: Insight through understanding yourself: Our mission is to make topics regarding your personality understandable and relatable. We aim to help you to gain insight into your true personality to feel more inner peace and love.
► Disclaimer: None of the contents are therapeutic recommendations. The contents are not to be understood as therapeutic-medical instructions and are neither intended as professional health advice nor as education. See the content as a starting point for self-advocating.
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E204 - Emotional Dysregulation & Complex Trauma: Why You Feel Shame, Anger, Grief, Anxiety & Panic
Guess how many major triggers there are for emotional dysregulation.
Most of the time - Not more than 4.
BUT often people are not able to re-regulate themselves. They feel like they are at the mercy of their emotions.
This is why we today will explore what emotional dysregulation actually is
You will learn what the 4 big triggers and dysregulated states are
And in the end, I will present a 5-step solution path that you can do long term to not just re-regulate yourself better, but to finally resolve dysregulation and heavy emotional triggers before they even occur.
► Links and Resources:
Emotional Dysregulation: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Emotional_dysregulation
Brain Scan: https://www.nature.com/articles/s41398-021-01666-3
Attachment in Adults: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Attachment_in_adults
PVT: https://counsellinginhamilton.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/10/Polyvagal-Ladder-NICAB.png
HSP & Trauma vs. Autism/ADHD Episode: https://youtu.be/EHj_zYN-U_I?si=FFJZ9uVdqc8rdDs1
PVT-Episode: https://youtu.be/2iT8Msp8Vx0?si=6ywrlrG3K_8h_58F
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► Episode Timestamps:
0:00 Overview
1:33 What is Emotional Dysregulation?
4:00 Emotional Dysregulation & Central Nervous System
5:05 What is the Problem with Emotional Dysregulation?
7:27 What are the Causes for Emotional Dysregulation?
8:00 Two Example-States for Emotional Dysregulation
19:40 Trauma-Metaphor: A House with open Windows & Doors
21:38 The Two Big Wounds of Childhood
23:50 Blind Spots & Triggers, You don't Understand
26:50 The 4 Dysregulated States & their Triggers
34:10 5 Steps to Re-Regulate Acute Dysregulation
38:35 5 Steps to Resolve & Prevent Dysregulation Long term
46:56 Final Thoughts
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E-Mail: info@understandable-podcast.com
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► About: Insight through understanding yourself: Our mission is to make topics regarding your personality understandable and relatable. We aim to help you to gain insight into your true personality to feel more inner peace and love.
► Disclaimer: None of the contents are therapeutic or medical recommendations. The contents are not to be understood as therapeutic-medical instructions and are neither intended as professional health advice nor as education. See the content as a starting point for self-advocating. -
E203 - To Anyone, Who's a Highly Sensitive Person or Neurodivergent...
If you clicked on this video, you most probably belong to the 20% of our population who is highly sensitive or has a neurodivergent condition like autism, ADHD or similar.
Still, most sensitive people have no clue that they are highly sensitive or those who know about it, feel miserable for having these traits.
A lot of HSPs and Neurodivergents seem to feel alienated, misunderstood and left out within a society that increasingly gets sicker.
But instead of taking the role of victim, I want to encourage you with this video. We can’t change being highly sensitive or neurodivergent. That’s correct.
But we can change the perspective and beliefs we have about these conditions.
So today you will see that being sensitive is an absolute gift.
- You will also understand that HSPs and Neurodivergents are just DIFFERENT, not better or worse.
- And you will understand how you can create a great and fulfilled life as a highly sensitive individual within a not so sensitive society.
► Links and Resources:
How I became Self-Employed Episode: https://youtu.be/5TnxoNyhYQo?si=QIRdq5i8PHNoFN3v
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► Episode Timestamps:
0:00 You Belong to the 20% of the Population, that...
1:45 Story: Why I always felt like an Alien
4:55 Being Highly Sensitive can be a Burden AND a Gift
7:40 10 Reasons, Why You're a Gift as an HSP/Neurodivergent
16:30 Being HSP/Neurodivergent is a Difference, not Worse/Better
20:30 5 Steps for a Better Life as a Sensitive Person in a not so Sensitive Society
28:45 Final Thoughts
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E-Mail: info@understandable-podcast.com
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- The Highly Sensitive Person - Elaine N. Aron: https://amzn.to/3OQEmhT
► About: Insight through understanding yourself: Our mission is to make topics regarding your personality understandable and relatable. We aim to help you to gain insight into your true personality to feel more inner peace and love.
► Disclaimer: None of the contents are therapeutic or medical recommendations. The contents are not to be understood as therapeutic-medical instructions and are neither intended as professional health advice nor as education. See the content as a starting point for self-advocating. -
E202 - HSP/SPS & CPTSD: The Cycle of Toxic Shame & Guilt (and how to Break it)
Can you guess how much % of people with complex trauma symptoms experience this cycle of toxic shame and guilt?
100 % of them. BUT many of them have no clue that they have a shame based identity.
Therefore, in today’s episode
You will experience the difference between shame and guilt
Will understand the shocking link between shame and complex trauma as a sensitive person
Will discover how guilt nurtures our shame within our relationships
And in the end I will show you at which position you can finally break the cycle to free yourself from toxic shame.
I was honestly really surprised when I found out how much shame there is in trauma and where to actually break the cycle.
► Links and Resources:
Tim Fletcher's Circle of Shame: https://youtu.be/IOQTfqUdypc?si=5P9juq4DH9GuhDaq
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► Episode Timestamps:
0:00 Overview
1:40 Shame - A Hidden Topic & Sensation
3:12 What is Shame?
5:33 What is Guilt?
6:38 Shame vs. Guilt
7:28 Why are Toxic Shame & Guilt Crucial to us?
10:39 How Does Toxic Shame Feel Like?
13:43 The Origin of Toxic Shame
15:23 The Second Source of Shame
16:33 How Shame Manifests Through Our Lives
19:50 The Cycle of Toxic Shame and Guilt
26:46 The Circle of Shame by Tim Fletcher
28:50 How to NOT Heal from Shame
30:19 Where to Break the Cycle of Shame & Guilt?
33:40 The Cycle of an Authentic Self
35:40 Final Thoughts
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E-Mail: info@understandable-podcast.com
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- The Highly Sensitive Person - Elaine N. Aron: https://amzn.to/3OQEmhT
► About: Insight through understanding yourself: Our mission is to make topics regarding your personality understandable and relatable. We aim to help you to gain insight into your true personality to feel more inner peace and love.
► Disclaimer: None of the contents are therapeutic or medical recommendations. The contents are not to be understood as therapeutic-medical instructions and are neither intended as professional health advice nor as education. See the content as a starting point for self-advocating. -
E201 - Codependency & Complex Trauma in HSP/SPS (and the Shocking Link to Narcissism)
Codependent people think, they could solve their emotional problems through love, validation and masking while being in a relationship.
But the truth is, emotional independence actually is achieved through self-love, clear boundaries and expressing emotions and needs.
In today’s episode you will understand:
What codependency actually is
How it is connected with complex trauma
Which shocking role narcissists play in that connection
And why in particular highly sensitive people are affected by it
► Links and Resources:
Codependency definition: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Codependency
Tim Fletcher on codependency: https://youtu.be/yesXC_ibRKE?si=r4JO6JGdscfuJU0c
Infatuation Episode: https://youtu.be/Uk27yW1ZXMA?si=Ht_HBu-4LpN_SAO4
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► Episode Timestamps:
0:00 Overview
1:33 What is Codependency?
4:25 What is Complex Trauma?
5:16 Codependency in Relationships
9:29 Narcissism in Complex Trauma
11:02 High Sensitivity/Neurodivergence and Narcissism
14:20 What Happens, if You Don't Break the Codependent Cycle?
20:01 Masking, Hiding & Overadapting in Codependent Relationships
21:50 Alert Radar: Hypervigilance
23:22 Complex Trauma and Toxic Shame & Guilt
28:20 Solutions
30:00 Emotional Independence in Relationships
33:57 Final Thoughts
► Reach Out To Me :)
E-Mail: info@understandable-podcast.com
► Book List *Ad-Links
- The Highly Sensitive Person - Elaine N. Aron: https://amzn.to/3OQEmhT
► About: Insight through understanding yourself: Our mission is to make topics regarding your personality understandable and relatable. We aim to help you to gain insight into your true personality to feel more inner peace and love.
► Disclaimer: None of the contents are therapeutic or medical recommendations. The contents are not to be understood as therapeutic-medical instructions and are neither intended as professional health advice nor as education. See the content as a starting point for self-advocating. -
E200 - HSP/ASD/ADHD & CPTSD: Is Almost Every Neurodivergent Person Traumatized?
Almost 70 % of children experience at least 1 traumatic event before reaching age 16.
Parallel to that, highly sensitive children and children with autism or ADHD tend to experience traumatic events more often and as more severe.
BUT does that automatically mean, that they’re also more likely to develop symptoms of a post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD)?
Today, we will shed some light on the question: “Is almost every neurodivergent person also traumatized?”
We will therefore discuss
- Why neurodivergents might be at higher risk to develop trauma wounds
- And also what maybe makes neurodivergent children and adults more resistant to traumatic events?
► Links and Resources:
Traumatic Events and CPTSD in Childhood: https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/17485609/
Trauma and ASD Review: https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC6901292/
Trauma and ADHD: https://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/abs/pii/S0006322322015219
Trauma and SPS: https://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/abs/pii/S0191886921006577
Syrian Children and Trauma: https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/30630553/
Dr. Elaine Aron's Comment: https://hsperson.com/are-highly-sensitive-people-more-prone-to-illness/
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► Episode Timestamps:
0:00 Overview
1:58 About Diagnoses Like ASD/ADHD/CPTSD
5:19 Is Almost Every Neurodivergent Person also Traumatized?
7:40 The Gap in Science
9:18 Autism (ASD) and Trauma
15:45 ADHD and Trauma
16:13 SPS (HSP) and Trauma
20:42 Conclusion: Let's Create More Data Together!
24:15 Final Thoughts
► Reach Out To Me :)
E-Mail: info@understandable-podcast.com
► Book List *Ad-Links
- The Highly Sensitive Person - Elaine N. Aron: https://amzn.to/3OQEmhT
► About: Insight through understanding yourself: Our mission is to make topics regarding your personality understandable and relatable. We aim to help you to gain insight into your true personality to feel more inner peace and love.
► Disclaimer: None of the contents are therapeutic or medical recommendations. The contents are not to be understood as therapeutic-medical instructions and are neither intended as professional health advice nor as education. See the content as a starting point for self-advocating. -
E199 - HSP vs. CPTSD: The Highly Sensitive Person, Childhood Trauma & the Cycle of Shame
1 in 3 people experiences symptoms from a traumatic childhood.
Highly Sensitive People in particular are more prone to experiencing trauma, than neurotypical people.
BUT the majority of them doesn't have a clue that they carry these wounds. Most of them believe their childhood was great.
But many of them wonder about various symptoms and challenges showing up in their life.
Today we will bring light to the dark by exposing the relation between the highly sensitive person and complex trauma (CPTSD).
You will understand how childhood experiences influence the adult life as a highly sensitive personWe will uncover which role the central nervous system plays in traumaDiscuss the most common symptoms of CPTSD including the toxic cycle of shame
And in the end we will resolve how we can break free from trauma
► Links and Resources:
EMDR Video: https://youtu.be/DALbwI7m1vM?si=bdX_g-eCZxOq8sid
HSP: https://hsperson.com/faq/evidence-for-does/
Adult Survivors of Childhood Trauma: https://www1.racgp.org.au/getattachment/79710ca4-e98e-46aa-8f8f-d5f763ea8ef4/Adult-survivors-of-childhood-trauma.aspx
Genogram: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GEtygF6LHkk
PVT Episode: https://open.spotify.com/episode/6XtNyXaEC56DKKzEkQ5s2B?si=b0tQ_MwBRziCNaVmsmRDKg
CPTSD Episode: https://open.spotify.com/episode/69sjP0KS1t1eUhZiQgQPRs?si=gu-95wPXQRyOMYBQN_j1Xg
CPTSD + HSP vs. ASD/ADHD Episode: https://open.spotify.com/episode/3cCkfEvj3mkKrgv37sndRK?si=M1CAb_PqTNCo47Ku8FEu6Q
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► Episode Timestamps:
0:00 Overview HSP vs. CPTSD
1:53 What is a Highly Sensitive Person?
5:05 What is Trauma?
6:14 Capital T-Trauma vs. tiny t-Trauma
8:30 Overlap: HSP and CPTSD
10:50 Highly Sensitive Children (HSC) in Abusive Family Systems
12:00 Traits of a Toxic Family System
14:00 Emotional Abusive Caretakers
15:00 Emotional Tension in HSC
16:20 What Happens to Traumatized HSC?
17:20 The Healthy "Non-Traumatized" Pathway
19:45 The Wounded "Traumatized" Pathway
24:15 Stimuli and Trigger
25:50 Unsafety & Dysregulation in the Central Nervous System
29:31 Emotional Reactivity & Suppressed Emotions
32:58 Toxic Cycle of Shame & Guilt
36:44 Sense of Self
37:42 Disconnect & CPTSD-Symptoms
45:30 Solutions, Therapy & Treatment
46:00 Reclaiming Identity
49:45 Build Resources & Mastery
52:25 Re-Regulation of the Nervous System
56:20 Final Thoughts
► Reach Out To Me :)
E-Mail: info@understandable-podcast.com
► Book List *Ad-Links
- The Highly Sensitive Person - Elaine N. Aron: https://amzn.to/3OQEmhT
► About: Insight through understanding yourself: Our mission is to make topics regarding your personality understandable and relatable. We aim to help you to gain insight into your true personality to feel more inner peace and love.
► Disclaimer: None of the contents are therapeutic or medical recommendations. The contents are not to be understood as therapeutic-medical instructions and are neither intended as professional health advice nor as education. See the content as a starting point for self-advocating.
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This podcast will add value to your life
Robert offers a lot of insight for people who often feel like their brains (and hearts) just work differently from the rest of the world.
He takes complex research and explains it in ways that are relatable and easy to follow. If you want to truly learn about how a highly sensitive person tends to perceive and move through the world - you‘ve come to the right place!
(And In case these are familiar feelings to you - you will feel less alone and alienated once you’ve listened to how Robert explains the fundamentals as well as the nuances of being an HSP).
Ein Podcast mit Mehrwert !
Ich bin froh diesen Podcast gefunden zu haben - die Themen Ernährung, Gesundheit und Mindset sind mir selbst sehr wichtig und werden hier voll und ganz mit fundiertem Wissen aufgegriffen! Super!
Wissenreichs, sehr verständlich und schöne Stimme
Robert bringt durch seine Art wie er Dinge/ Sachverhalte erklärt, einem Fachfremden, wissen bei die sofort verstanden und angewendet werden können.
Ich selbst habe schon vieles über Gesundheit, training und Life Style von ihm lernen können. Viele Themen sprechen und beantworten mir viele "Kleinigkeiten" aus der Seele.
Super Podcast, sehr sympathische Stimme, faszinierender Typ.
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