Make Him Wonder Coach Paula Grooms
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Dating and Relationship Coach Paula Grooms, LMSW invites real women to talk about their romantic lives. In these intimate, one-on-one conversations, Paula helps each guest get-real, get focused, and get moving on what works with men for connected and committed love.
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S3E23: THINKING HE CAN’T OR THINKING HE CAN, HE’S RIGHT
56-yr-old Maddy and 44-yr-old Andrew have had 4 breakups in 3.5 years of their relationship. Successful, happy with her life, and accommodating, Maddy is confused as to why Andrew is so confused about her. Despite saying he loves her Andrew will go for a certain amount of time before telling Maddy he “can’t.” On this episode, Paula explains why Andrew feels as he does, and what Maddy can do for the best chance of Andrew knowing, feeling, and deciding that he “can!”
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S3E22: PUTTING $$ BEFORE CONNECTION LEAVES A RULES GAL EMPTY
44-yr-old Emily is seeking a hypergamous relationship from online dating. As a Rules Girl, Emily states that she expects a man to see her as his “dream girl” and start wining and dining her without texting between dates. Confused as to why telling her prospective wealthy men what it is that she expects of them isn’t leading her to the relationship she desires, Emily comes on this episode to get Paula’s coaching advice.
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S3E21: HOW YOU SET-SAIL DETERMINES IF HE SEES YOU AS A FIRST-MATE
35-yr-old Shana set out wanting 47-yr-old Paul to see her as more than just for fun. But a casual boat trip and a late-night invite steered things off-course, and Paul drifted off. On this episode of Make Him Wonder, hear what Shana can text to allow Paul to see her as potential wife/mother material so that this prospective relationship doesn’t get dry-docked before it has a chance to launch.
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S3E20: DISCOVERING THE SOURCE IGNITES A NEW JOURNEY
Despite 43-yr-old Terri knowing that casual relationships don’t work for her, she finds herself going on hook-up sites and predominately dating much younger men. They eventually leave, then Terri becomes obsessed, wondering why they didn’t like her enough. On this episode, Terri discovers the source of the dissonance between what she intellectually knows is her value and the feelings of unworthiness that drive her behavior.
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S3E19: EMOTIONS RUNNING HIGH HAD HIM MOVING OUT
28-yr-old Loni wasn’t particularly interested in 28-yr-old James when they first met. But upon showing her the kind of care and attention Loni hadn’t ever before received from a man, James won her heart. The couple now have a newborn together, but all is not blissful. Loni admits that she allowed her insecurities and jealousy to take over, and James moved out. Now in regret, Loni comes on Make Him Wonder to hear what Paula has to say about the possibility of rebuilding trust and James coming home to stay for good.
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S3E18: SEASON-BY-SEASON SHE’LL REACH HER GOAL LINE
54-yr-old Kit found committed love for the first time in her late 40s. It was tragically taken away in only 4 years when her husband died unexpectedly. A few years later, a former HS classmate came back into her life and gave Kit hope of having love once again. But due to his football coaching career, 53-yr-old Shaun doesn’t have the best track record of giving time to a relationship. On this episode of Make Him Wonder, Paula helps Kit reframe her personal game-plan and see ahead to winning in romance and reaching her goal.