Welcome to the Master/slave lifestyle podcast. Here we will interview real people living the real Master/slave lifestyle - all consensual and all in different ways. Now with over 10,000 listeners!
How embracing pain and the constraints of your health can move you to new BDSM possibilities
in this episode, we speak to both slave conrad and Alexander about their experiences with pain - how significant health issues stopped them from embracing their desires and how they moved through this to embrace and enjoy BDSM pain.
About the guests
slave conrad is an owned slave, nurse, hypnotherapist, classical singer, a voice coach for singers and transmen and women, and is a writer of erotic fiction.
You can contact him on NLleatherman on twitter and recon
Alexander Hahne is a gay trans man, sex educator (gsp), somatic counsellor, sexological bodyworker (ISB), dancer and pleasure activist. He leads workshops and individual counselling on the topics of body awareness, intimacy and sexuality and is a speaker for trans-specific topics in the field of sexual health.
Check out www.alexanderhahne.com for more information.
The Joy of controlling someone and consensual objectification
In this episode, we speak to Master Ghee - a Gay Leather Master who also won Mr. SF Eagle Leather 2022. In this episode, we speak of his journey to discover his identity as a Master, the joy he has in controlling a slave through its own pleasure and the fun of objectification.
Check out this course:
Find a Master/slave in 7 Steps - from writing a profile to collaring: https://masterslavelifestyle.com/find
Recon - https://www.recon.com/mastersirg
Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/MrSFEagleLeather
When did you first release you were a Master?
The misconceptions you can have over Mastery when starting out
What have the major learnings on his journey been to really understand what he wanted as a Master
The three comings out
How joining a support group really helped him identify as a Master
How the slave is not just the slave - but also a well-rounded being
The fun of consensual objectification and calling the slave “it”
About punishment of the slave
What was he hoping to achieve when he competed for the MR SF Eagle leather award
What makes a Good Master/slave
What would he like to see more in the community
BDSM and Mental Health
In this episode, I speak with Dr Richard Sprott and Dr Anna Randall from TASHRA - The Alternative Sexualities Health Research Alliance. In this episode, we discover how they merged the personal and business to focus on kink and BDSM.
We talk about how therapy has changed its view on BDSM and Master/slave relationships, and what to do if you are looking for a therapist. But also how we can use the skills we have learnt in BDSM and Master/slave to find the right therapist for us.
And they also talk about the Kink Health Study - which will be one of the most extensive studies on Kink people and communities ever done.
TASHRA - https://www.tashra.org
Kink Health Study - https://www.kinkhealth.org
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Why are they so passionate about kink and mental health
How was BDSM first seen by mental health professionals
If someone needs to see a therapist, what would you recommend?
What should someone do if a therapist shames you for your Masterslave or kink/BDSM fantasies
Is there more therapy happening online
If you have been shamed before and you are frightened to talk about it with your current therapy, what can you do to open up
Why has kink turned into a hot topic?
In their previous research - what have they found out - especially in Master/slave power dynamics
About the kink health survey
How focussing on the flow allows total power exchange to really work
In this episode, Sir Tyger Yoshi and his slave speak about their 3-year relationship. They detail how they found each other, and how by focussing on flow and building up things slowly, they found their way to a total power exchange relationship.
Important note: This episode contains a brief mention of suicide; please be aware if this subject triggers you.
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More info on Tyger Yoshi and slave
Tyger Yoshi: Twitter/IG/recon: tygeryoshi
slave: Twitter/IG: tygersslave
Information on suicide
In the US, the [National Suicide Prevention Lifeline](https://suicidepreventionlifeline.org/) is at 800-273-8255 and [online chat is also available](https://suicidepreventionlifeline.org/chat/) . You can also text HOME to 741741 to connect with a crisis text line counselor.
In the UK and Ireland, [Samaritans](https://www.samaritans.org/) can be contacted on 116 123 or by email [firstname.lastname@example.org](mailto:email@example.com) or [firstname.lastname@example.org](mailto:email@example.com) .
In Australia, the crisis support service [Lifeline](https://www.lifeline.org.au/) is 13 11 14.
Other international helplines can be found at [befrienders.org](http://www.befrienders.org/)
The journey of a black submissive to find his true self
Find out about Boi David’s story to embrace his authentic self as a submissive and Black Man/African American Man. Boi David is the Vice President of the International Level Association (ILA) and was the 2019 winner for Mr Atlanta Eagle. He defines himself as a submissive looking for a dominant to serve.
Check out the new Master/slave community here: http://masterslavelifestyle.com/community/
More information on boi David:
National Leather Association: firstname.lastname@example.org
4:00 - How did he realise he was a submissive?
8:18 - About his additional struggle coming out as a submissive because he is an African American/Black man
11:08 - Some of the thoughts and feelings he felt as he was having is coming out as a submissive
16:09 - Boy David shares some of the steps he had on his pathway to power and finding his authentic self
20;05 - Pathway to a submissive
26:01 - How would you define yourself
26:29 - Who do you want to become
39:58- Have you been collared before, and what does collaring mean for you
47:30 - What does the title submissive mean to you?
50:48 - what advice would you give to someone who is black and thinks they might be a submissive
56:37 - What would you like to see in the Master/slave or Dominant/submissive community
59:29 - What makes a good Master and slave
Find Out About An Authentic Kinky Family
In this episode, we have Dominant Dan back on the show talking about his kinky, polyamorous family. Find out what makes it a family, how it works, Dan's role as the dominant in caring for and looking after the family, and how blood is thicker than water when it comes to family.
Recon link: As Master
Recon link: Pit of despair (for Bondage)
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