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When Your Mind Comes Up With A Justification, That Means You Don’t Want It Wise Juander Motivation

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"Most people think the things that are temporary are the permanent things. Right? The temporary passing. I'm going through a breakup. You don’t understand that in a month, you're gonna be okay. You think when you're in a low, when you're feeling bad, you think that thing you're feeling is how you're gonna feel forever which is what makes it feel worse. You know what I mean when you're in a low you're like “This is my life now, this is it” or when you're in a high you also get extra high because you think this is my life now. I’ve fallen in love with this person. So where together forever and I’m always going to feel like this. They're the one then a month later you’re like “Is this my life forever?” And then it goes back and forth and you don’t get all your emotions are temporary. They’re passing things. But there is this thing in this moment right now that I feel is permanent. This thing that you can feel just this silence. This space. I've had so many things that I have shown up and left that I once thought my reality. That it feels like parts of me continue to die and I allow them to die. Right. So, most of our pain comes from believing. I believe that we should keep holding on to these things that really heavy in our lives.   And I believe when your mind comes up with a justification, that means you don’t want it. I don’t justify with anybody why I do this for a living. I don’t justify who my family is. I don’t justify who my best friends are to anybody. "  

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"Most people think the things that are temporary are the permanent things. Right? The temporary passing. I'm going through a breakup. You don’t understand that in a month, you're gonna be okay. You think when you're in a low, when you're feeling bad, you think that thing you're feeling is how you're gonna feel forever which is what makes it feel worse. You know what I mean when you're in a low you're like “This is my life now, this is it” or when you're in a high you also get extra high because you think this is my life now. I’ve fallen in love with this person. So where together forever and I’m always going to feel like this. They're the one then a month later you’re like “Is this my life forever?” And then it goes back and forth and you don’t get all your emotions are temporary. They’re passing things. But there is this thing in this moment right now that I feel is permanent. This thing that you can feel just this silence. This space. I've had so many things that I have shown up and left that I once thought my reality. That it feels like parts of me continue to die and I allow them to die. Right. So, most of our pain comes from believing. I believe that we should keep holding on to these things that really heavy in our lives.   And I believe when your mind comes up with a justification, that means you don’t want it. I don’t justify with anybody why I do this for a living. I don’t justify who my family is. I don’t justify who my best friends are to anybody. "  

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Twitter: ​https://twitter.com/WiseJuander 

Website: https://www.wisejuander.com/​​ 



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