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It’s Lisa Bilyeu here with another AMAAAAAZING episode of Women of Impact to help you stop wasting time with wrong guys (or gals) and break the cycle that has you stuck in the same broken patterns every single time!
In today’s episode I’m joined again by dating & relationship expert (and my long-time homie), Matthew Hussey. 
And today Matt is here to call out the bad relationship tips out there and instead give you a blueprint to ACTUALLY find love in your life and STOP doing the destructive things that are sending the WRONG message and keeping you in unhappy, and even toxic, relationships! 

In this episode, we’re diving into:

- The toxic dating advice out there that’s doing you more harm than good

- How your fear of being alone is keeping you trapped in unhealthy relationships

- Why what attracts a partner doesn’t always attract the RIGHT partner 

- Why you constantly invite bad people into your life & how you can break out of the cycle

- How your mind plays tricks on you when it comes to relationships & safety

- How to distinguish between expectations in a partner that will make you happy & those that just feed your ego


And that’s just in part 1 of this 2 part episode!

So listen closely guys, this conversion with Matt is filled with SOOOOO many dating insights that you can use right away TODAY to make the small changes in your life that will actually make a big difference in your love life and help you find the right partner for you! 

Follow Matthew Hussey:
Website: https://matthewhussey.com/
YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/user/gettheguyteam
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/CoachMatthewHussey/
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Themes: Confidence, Relationships, Business, Mental Health, Self-Improvement

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Introducing How to be a Peaceful (Step) Parent from The Parent Coaching Show.
Follow the show: The Parent Coaching Show
How can a step-parent transform challenges into opportunities for deep connection and understanding?
In this episode, you'll encounter John, a stepfather whose profound commitment to his stepchildren illuminates the path for all of us. His story is a testament to the power of love, patience, and understanding in the complex dynamics of step-parenting. 
Tune in to discover how embracing the role of a step-parent with grace, empathy, and a deep sense of collective responsibility supports the well-being of our children.  
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About The Jai Institute for Parenting:
At The Jai Institute for Parenting, we're deeply committed to reshaping the parenting landscape by educating parents on how to nurture emotionally healthy children, without sacrificing the integrity of limits, boundaries, and values. Our mission is to pave the way for a future where children evolve into emotionally resilient, confident, and empowered adults, fundamentally changing the societal fabric for generations to come.
Our Jai Certified Parenting Coaches play a pivotal role in this transformative process, assisting parents in healing generational patterns of authoritarian or permissive parenting. By advocating for methods devoid of punishments, threats, or manipulative tactics, we aim to foster parenting techniques that promote emotional well-being and developmental growth, ensuring a lasting impact not only on individual families but on the broader world.
 
Connect with us:
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Kiva Schuler’s Bio:
Kiva Schuler stands at the forefront of revolutionizing parenting strategies as the Founder and CEO of The Jai Institute for Parenting, and the visionary author behind The Peaceful Parenting (R) Evolution: Changing the World by Changing How We Parent. This influential work challenges traditional parenting paradigms by advocating for approaches rooted in emotional intelligence, values-led leadership, and impactful communication. Her journey into the realm of parenting innovation was sparked by her own childhood experiences marked by neglect and trauma.
Embarking on a mission to transform the cultural landscape of parenting, Kiva is dedicated to fostering environments where children can thrive, unburdened by trauma, shame, or emotional wounds. As a mother herself, she has not only realized her commitment but has also cultivated a thriving enterprise in The Jai Institute, touching tens of thousands of lives. Through her work, Kiva empowers others who share her vision, aiming to elevate children to their highest potential and nurture a generation that lives life to the fullest.
 
Sarah R. Moore’s Bio:
Sarah R. Moore is not just an acclaimed author known for her transformative book, "Peaceful Discipline: Story Teaching, Brain Science & Better Behavior," but also the visionary behind Dandelion Seeds Positive Parenting. Her expertise extends beyond the written word as a certified Master Trainer in conscious parenting and the esteemed Chairperson of the Board for the American Society for the Positive Care of Children. Sarah's multifaceted approach to parenting combines her roles as a public speaker, parent coach, and an enthusiast of brain science, all underpinned by her foundational role as a devoted mother.
Her unique blend of professional training in child development, trauma recovery, and interpersonal neurobiology, coupled with her talents in improv comedy and play, enables Sarah to offer a holistic and innovative approach to parenting challenges. To dive into Sarah R. Moore's wealth of knowledge and

Hello fears! Whether it’s spiders, open water or public speaking, everyone has something that frightens them, whether it’s rational or not. Keynote speaker Michelle Poler invented the “100 days without fear” challenge because she believes it’s important for everyone to face even their fears that seem trivial or easily avoidable.
On this episode of Women of Impact with Lisa Bilyeu, Michelle Poler explains why she visited the concentration camps her grandparents endured, why comfort, not failure, is the enemy of success, and why this year you should make a New Year’s resolution to fail.
[Original air date: 7/8/20].

SHOW NOTES:
Why is it important to face even “trivial” fears like spiders and roller coasters? [2:05]
Michelle explains why she believes she really only has seven core fears [4:35]
Michelle says that her top three fears are pain, loneliness, and lack of control [7:15]
Michelle explains how her relationship pushed her to become brave and independent [10:58]
Michelle shares the story of visiting the concentration camps her grandparents endured [14:46]
Why you should create a New Year’s resolution to fail [16:17]
The enemy of success is not failure. The enemy is comfort. [19:12]
Are the relationships in your life based on “me” or fear, or is the basis love? [20:54]
Why are people so afraid of disappointing others? [23:51]
Trying to check of society’s boxes leads to comfort, not happiness [27:07]
Michelle and Lisa talk about why sometimes you really should listen to your fears [28:24]
Michelle explains why she approaches fears with “x-ray vision” [32:12]
Michelle started her journey because she wants to impact her future kids [33:55]
Michelle describes the six stages of facing your fears [34:50]
Michelle finally felt proud of herself once she finally pursued her own goals[39:00]
Michelle wrote a letter to herself about gratitude and pride [40:43]
Success is never guaranteed, so you are better off loving the journey [42:56]
Michelle describes a surprising superpower [44:17]

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In any healthy and lasting relationship, effective communication is necessary. Unfortunately, in a relationship you don’t always agree on how to arrive at the outcome, even when you both agree on the end result. Tom and Lisa break down strategies that have worked for them when they don’t see eye to eye. How they communicate and get to the root of what is actually going on is one of the most important strategies that have helped. Finding common ground over the things that are mutually beneficial and that ultimately, bring you together is a powerful technique to getting past the small things. If you need to find better ways to communicate this will help you learn how to peel back the layers that are blocking your progress and happiness, and get to the center of what will move your relationship forward to the next level together. [Original air date: 8-15-21].

Relationship Theory with Tom and Lisa Bilyeu encourages healthy, loving, life long relationships. Whether you are fresh out of your last relationship, on a break, taking time to heal from a breakup, or looking for ways to strengthen the romance and bond in your current relationship, Tom and Lisa are sharing their 20 years of experience. They’re taking questions and giving relationship advice that will enhance all of your relationships.

SHOW NOTES:
Don’t Judge | Tom explains why the #1 rule is to not be judgemental of each other [0:57]
Golden Ticket | Able to communicate, insecurities and pettiness to get pass the major shit [2:40]
Vulnerability | Why it feels good and validates you even when your perception differ [4:57]
Different strategies | Why it’s better to align over the goal not on how you get it [5:38]

QUOTES:
“The only baseline element that is needed for our belief system to make sense as a growth mindset.” [2:10]
“If I had to put my finger on and say this is where we've really won, it's that we're able to communicate our insecurities, our pettiness, to get beyond the tea as we call it.” [2:47]
“Whatever your like thing is, even if it's petty, even if it's insecurity, even if it's jealousy, strip the emotion away and just say what it is” [4:17]
“If you do want to get this result out of me, this is actually a tweak to strategy that I think you need because otherwise I'm not going to be able to get there” [6:52]

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Today, we're diving deep into Lisa's incredible story, her transformative experiences with toxic relationships, and the powerful lessons she's sharing in her must-read book, "Radical Confidence."
As a special treat, we've got some groundbreaking news for our listeners—we're thrilled to announce Lisa's Radical Confidence book is relaunching with a new pink cover, a subtitle that packs a punch, and a bonus chapter that promises to change lives. And let me tell you, the preorder bonuses are impressive: with relationship coaching worth $119 included, our total value skyrockets to $171!
Lisa, who courageously chose herself over an unhealthy relationship, will share how that pivotal moment allowed her to follow her dreams and, serendipitously, meet yours truly. We'll also get into the profound impact that relationships have on self-assurance, the natural protective instincts of motherhood, and the importance of aligning with your partner on key life decisions, such as having children—a path we've chosen to forgo to focus on our global mission.
But Lisa's generosity doesn't end there. She's giving away truly life-changing resources to our listeners, including a signed paperback, personal coaching sessions, and even the ""Ultimate Radical Confidence Guide"" to set you on the path to a bolder, braver you.

PRE-ORDER YOUR COPY OF 'RADICAL CONFIDENCE' TODAY at RADICALCONFIDENCE.COM

TIMESTAMPS
00:00 Book ""Radical Confidence"" helps women overcome struggles.
03:55 Random giveaways, book excerpt, personal reflections, choices.
08:10 Pre-order now for free bonus worth $171.
12:19 Regained confidence, set strong boundaries, overcame fears.
15:43 Toxic relationships can erode confidence. Bonus giveaway.
19:06 Fascinating mix of open and firm boundaries.
20:59 Desiring loving, trusting relationship with vulnerability.
25:25 Valuing trust and pursuing beautiful relationships.
26:34 Pre-order book to get free valuable bonuses.
30:41 Same value system crucial for success post-sale.
36:11 Hunger affects emotions, failure is inevitable.
39:26 Motherhood is beautiful, necessary, and brings joy
40:37 Overcoming self-doubt, questioning happiness, embracing new choices.
45:37 Choosing to not have kids is valid.
49:18 Discussing prioritizing children and maintaining relationships postparenthood.
53:42 Book intended to help, share with others.
56:47 Impressive journey from unhappiness to confidence.
57:40 Escaped destructive relationship, found true harmony."

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It’s Lisa Bilyeu here with another DEEP, impactful episode of Women of Impact where we’re talking about preparing for death and how that helps you to live a life you love, WITHOUT regrets!!
I know, death is a topic we ALL would like to avoid talking about because it can be sad and heartbreaking to think about. But literally we will ALL die, so let’s stop avoiding the inevitable and just talk about it so that we don’t end up dying with regrets!!! 
Here to help us think about death as a way to make sure we LIVE our best lives is America’s #1 death doula, Alua Arthur.  Alua has held the hands of thousands of people as they finally face the pain and complexities of life in their death, and she’s learnt A LOT about the power of making the most out of the life that you get. 
Death is something we ignore as a society and unfortunately the reality is that the fear and denial we have towards dying can actually lead to a lot of regret when our time does come. 

In this powerful episode, we’re talking about: 

- How to live more in the next 30 days than you have in the past 10 years

- The 1 question Alua thinks you should ask yourself before you make a decision

- How to live in the NOW & why doing so is such an important part of a peaceful death

- Why we fear dying so much & steps we can take to overcome that fear

- The power of using your fears around death & loss to add more fuel to your life RIGHT NOW

- How to use the lens of your death to HELP you live life for yourself & not others

- Why procrastination is actually death denial 

- The tiny steps you need to take to live presently & die gracefully

- Why getting older is actually a GIFT that gets you closer to living a happy life

- What “get busy living” ACTUALLY means – and it’s not “hustle more” 


Follow Alua Arthur:
Website: https://goingwithgrace.com/
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/going_with_grace/
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If you want to dive deeper into my content, search through every episode, find specific topics I've covered, and ask me questions. Go to my Dexa page: https://dexa.ai/lisabilyeu 

Themes: Confidence, Relationships, Business, Mental Health, Self-Improvement

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Visit http://betterhelp.com/WOMEN today to get 10% off your first month.
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Go to https://tryviome.com/LISA and use code LISA to get 20% off your first 3 months, and take control of your gut health today!

PRE-ORDER YOUR COPY OF LISA'S BOOK "RADICAL CONFIDENCE" (NOW IN PAPERBACK & WITH A NEW CHAPTER!) & GET YOUR FREE BADASS BONUSES: www.radicalconfidence.com

***CALLING ALL BADASSES!***
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