Jai's Love Notes Jai Joy

I think only love is the single most thing not validated by a market place and competition..I feel like all the other things are just a play out in the market scenario, whoever market it well he wins ; your democracy is just another side of catering to the majority sentiments and fear, Your Religion just another form of competing with other stories in changing times, Your social media is another form of marketing your biased conditioning, Your Relationships are just a balance sheet of debt and credit and competing for supremacy, your job is a market place of your abilities..the only way to disconnect from all the hate filled in a market place is to understand that market has the final say in all of it as per their demand at that time, how extreme we try to sell ourselves or our ideologies or how powerful or capable you are, you will fail if the market does not absorb you..I think only love we cannot market and only love not bought on our marketing skills, it is the only thing thrives not based on a balance sheet..

- Jai Joy

To believe in love, to act soft towards every one and everything , to accept everyone equally without judgement even if you are killed by the same people to whom you were showing compassion and love ; the smart world will view all of these as weakness and failure , but I will still believe that it is the strength of a person or an ideology to remain rooted in love..As I always say, I will ever remain inclined to my natural nature of love and smile, than fearing anyone seated next to me in a bus who may be carrying a bomb or a sword to kill me and others..I always remember this story of a mother of 2 kids who used to call and smile and feed a troubled youngster in her neighborhood but one day she and her son was killed by a burglar, and the burglar turned out to be the same troubled youngster and the only reason he killed her is that she identified him when he broke into her house that night..we can never blame her or consider her weak for how she lived and what she believed in, I will always say that she was the beautiful strongest human..When we shred all our egos and insecurities, we are just that love we all are in real..

- Jai Joy

Be self aware of where we belong, what is our strength and even about our mediocrities in things we do..Never compare ourself to any influencers or brilliant talent successful people whom we consume more in media, everyone of us is not exceptionally good in putting that exceptional hard work to make it exceptional out there in life..we become successful or people follow us depending upon how much value we bring to the people in any field and I don't think we all are that much capable to deliver something to others when most of us are not even full and content ourselves to feel value for ourself..it is always the overflow from inside us to the outside ; whether it is our love or hate or help or happiness..if it is not naturally happening , you cannot force it..we all are much wired to our mediocrities with lethargies and comfortness , so in real we don't have anything to conquer but to accept our ordinaryness and enjoy the moments in our hands..One beautiful thing about existence is that it does not care about your ordinaryness as long as you lived this day happily..Learning to be ordinary is the only way to feel extraordinary about us..

- Jai Joy

Now it's new trend in social media to abuse whoever does not take any side on political issues !! .wtf bro, if you are ruled by your own fears, insecurities and preferences, that is none of my problem..if you don't have any fear in living in a Christian US or Ireland or Europe contries or Muslim constitutioned UAE or Saudi Arabia, I also don't have any fear in a Hindu India, why I should judge..?!! ..same way, if I don't like a Hindu India is because of a Islam Pakistan or Afganistan or a Buddhist Myanmar or Sri Lanka where absolute power in the name of religion always kills..so why you should accuse me if I don't take a side.?!! bro, it is just our fears and prejudices and preferences of a religion or a political party inside us boiling up, thats all..Moreover, I don't have a fear being killed by a Hindu or a Muslim or a Christian because that probability is same as being hit by a bus when I step into the street next moment, or killed in a plane crash in my travel, or just slip and hit my head and getting killed or paralysed for life..if my chances of getting a life was 1/ 400 trillions of a sperm finding an egg in the womb, my chances of getting killed is more than 400 trillion same way..so chill bro, I am just concerned about the moment and life and work in my hand, just concerned if I lived this day full that I don't fear dying tomorrow, only concerned about holding people without any fear and prejudices and having a smile and happiness with everyone..that is life for me..I don't think a Manmohan or a Deve Gowda or a Modi really made any difference in my life, or the convenience or internet or computer or a Facebook happened because of a Richard Nixon or Bush or Obama, it is always the humans with their struggles and quest and persistence and hard work made a difference in their life..I would have lived and worked and fed my family even under a Saddam or a Gaddafi...we are not more than fools whenever we follow and take sides and live our fears and ego, and if at all you want to follow someone, follow Greta Thunberg as all you Hindus and Muslims and Communists will not exist if this planet get boiled and water become vapour and disappear from this Earth..so chill guys, death is real whatever way, live life fully today with unprejudiced love..
I love being this #nishku enjoying life&love..

- Jai Joy

It is almost time to retrospect 2019 for me..it was nothing better I think, my shit got bigger and bigger in my relationships and reached another tipping point this year as usual, the messy things got more messier, struggle to fix myself by breaking others continued, my quest to find myself at the expense of deserting others continued, lost more love and gave very little love, and at the end still remained this confused lonely soul figuring out what I am in real at the end..The good things were to keep myself away from the hate brought by politics and religions and to keep hating them more and more, to practice and to learn the use of a DSLR Camera, to be fascinated by Gary Vaynerchuck that I can talk confidently of love-empathy-motivation and all now freely, even in a business and management environment and got more and more love in the work place, tried creating voice notes to shed some more shyness..and the last happiest thing at the end of this year was to see my partner and the people shattered by me gathering their broken parts themselves and standing strong and happy, holding their own love and happiness close to their heart than ever before, I am really grateful and happy for them..Good bye for another year and expecting the journey more calmer and silent the coming year..Love and Prayers to All My Friends and Loved Ones for the New Year 2020..#HappyNewYear2020

- Jai Joy

I see only ego when I see people talks about their enemies and ditractors who trying to tarnish and defeat them..The strange thing is that , I wonder why there were no enemies ever in my whole life..If anyone ever talked bad about me, it was because I am sure I hurt them or their sentiments some way or other, even if I was right in my truth, a hurt felt in someone else's heart is a hurt in real..If I am going against something in this existence, If I opposed anything in this existence, I will get the ripples back to me, that is the truth...if I got defeated by someone else, I was not good enough in that particular thing, that is the truth..so if we still complain and see enemies and devils, we are still is a childish belief, still we are not yet mature enough to see the truth and to take responsibility that anything and everything happening in our life is our fault only ,no else is responsible for that..

- Jai Joy