Relationship Malinda Vaughn

Why guys think it’s ok to hit there women or choke them and spit on them and that the women have to do what they say or they will say you better not talk back to me or you will see what’s going to happen to you it should be 50/50 not 50/20 cause that is not love at all and why would you wanna be with someone that thinking that the relationship is all about them and not about the both of you guys