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For any life-long learners, curious skeptics, and therapy-junkies who want a little science with their fluff. Psychotherapists from Austin Texas speaking freely on life, love, sex, and the things that matter. Candid unscripted conversations rooted in attachment and relational science will unpack how to improve your relationships with others and more deeply understand what makes you and those you love emotionally tick. So whether you just want to peek behind the therapist notepad, deepen your EQ, or just have fun, dive in with co-hosts Dr. Ann Kelley and Sue Marriott and their guest experts.



Find us at http://www.www.therapistuncensored.com

Therapist Uncensored Podcast Ann Kelley PhD & Sue Marriott LCSW, CGP

    • Social Sciences
    • 4.3, 6 Ratings

For any life-long learners, curious skeptics, and therapy-junkies who want a little science with their fluff. Psychotherapists from Austin Texas speaking freely on life, love, sex, and the things that matter. Candid unscripted conversations rooted in attachment and relational science will unpack how to improve your relationships with others and more deeply understand what makes you and those you love emotionally tick. So whether you just want to peek behind the therapist notepad, deepen your EQ, or just have fun, dive in with co-hosts Dr. Ann Kelley and Sue Marriott and their guest experts.



Find us at http://www.www.therapistuncensored.com

    TU122: Loving & Living with Adult Attention Deficit Disorder (ADD) with Ari Tuckman

    TU122: Loving & Living with Adult Attention Deficit Disorder (ADD) with Ari Tuckman

    When we think of ADHD, we often imagine a restless & figity child who loses focus rather than the grown up parent or partner these kids eventually become. It is a legit neurological condition - yet adults with ADHD or ADD often believe that they are forgetful, lazy, selfish & disorganized. Unfortunately sometimes so do their partners. This episode will help you apprecitate your unique gifts or value your distractable partner.

    • 57 min
    TU121: The Purpose of Relationships (Redefined During Quarantine) with Stan Tatkin

    TU121: The Purpose of Relationships (Redefined During Quarantine) with Stan Tatkin

    Learn to more effectively communicate in your quarantine bubble- (if you still have one). Stan Tatkin and Sue Marriott role-play effective and non-effective communication strategies and discuss defining the true purpose of having relationships at all.

    • 52 min
    TU120: Finding Security During Coronavirus Isolation with Dr. David Elliott

    TU120: Finding Security During Coronavirus Isolation with Dr. David Elliott

    Is this pandemic making your nervous system crunchy?   Find out how to use one of the Elliot and Brown's 3 pillars of healing attachment to cope during this society-wide emotional hotbox.  Using one of the three pillars of healing attachment, leveraging the power of mental imagery to gain security,  David explains how this practice can be beneficial during a time where we're looking for connection to regulate and heal.

    • 47 min
    TU119: For the Love of Men, Rethinking Masculinity with Liz Plank

    TU119: For the Love of Men, Rethinking Masculinity with Liz Plank

    It isn't a war between the genders, it's a war between those interested in freedom of individual expression and equality, and those wedded to and defending the patriarchal script.“I measure activism based on impact... .” - Liz PlankIn this episode, co-host Sue Marriott speaks with Liz Plank, one of the worlds most powerful and influential voices for gender and policy.


    Who is Liz Plank?Liz Plank is an award-winning journalist and senior producer at Vox Media. Her TedxTalk, How to Be a Man: A Woman's Guide inspired her first book, (https://amzn.to/3acOB8l) where she “offers a smart, insightful, and deeply-researched guide for what we're all going to do about toxic masculinity. For both women looking to guide the men in their lives and men who want to do better and just don’t know how.”


    Mediaite's Most Influential in New Media


    50 Most Influential Women by Marie Claire


    Forbes' 30 Under 30 in Media


    Episode 119 Show Notes:Why do we need more storytelling around men?More progress regarding issues around domestic & sexual violence if men were more involved in the conversation.


    Human rights are not a finite resource and when there is more equality, the better it is for everyone.


    Open the conversation for men to talk about masculinity and what it means to be a man because they do not feel safe doing so.


    Having an empathic conversation about feminism that includes all genders, a movement that benefits the whole society.


    Rewriting Gender RolesThe lack of conversations regarding masculinity between men.


    Following gender roles based on societal pressures and family development.


    Exploring historical and cultural examples of how gender roles change and vary to give men permission to explore their identity.


    A shift in the younger generation being accepting of gender fluidity.


    What It Means To Be A ManIdentifying as a provider when many jobs traditionally done by men are disappearing or moving overseas.


    Starting to have the opportunity to have an identity outside of their career.


    Have both genders shoulder the emotional burden and do the work to heal.


    Narcissism & Toxic MasculinityThere is a higher percentage of narcissism in men.


    Have more female leadership represented in entertainment & media to provide an understanding of female complexity.


    EducationEncouraging curriculum that teaches anti-violence, anti-sexual assault, verbal consent, emotional intelligence, and interpersonal relationships.


    A universal understanding that we all experience similar emotions and social anxiety so we can all advocate for each other.


    Liz's Influence:Wanting to measure her activism based on impact.


    Wanting everyone to feel welcome to this conversation on masculinity and help men go through their emotional labor.


    Continue to open the conversation for men of influence to discuss masculinity openly.


    Masculinity Influence:Brad Pitt speaking openly about masculinity to give others permission to do the same.


    Tim Ferriss expressing that external performance is not where "success" is and inner work is the harder challenge but more important.


    Liz’s Recommendations:


    The Will to Change: Men, Masculinity, and Love by Bell Hooks (https://www.amazon.com/Will-Change-Men-Masculinity-Love/dp/0743456084)


    Thomas Page McBee (https://www.amazon.com/Thomas-Page-McBee/e/B00NDEXD5Y%3Fref=dbs_a_mng_rwt_scns_share)


    Wade Davis (https://wadeadavis.com/)


    Learn about and connect with Liz:


    (https://amzn.to/3acOB8l)


    TED Talk How to Be a Man, A Woman's Guide (https://youtu.be/9tNsNkzEzbw)


    Twitter (https://twitter.com/feministabulous)


    Instagram (https://www.instagram.com/lizplankofficial/)


    Web Series (http://www.elizabethplank.com/flipthescript)


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    Our course on Attachment and Neuroscience (https://courses.therapistuncensored.com/p/attachmentexplained) - It's Not Me It's My Amygdala, is now avail

    • 49 min
    TU118: Mental Health Support During this Damn Coronavirus Pandemic

    TU118: Mental Health Support During this Damn Coronavirus Pandemic

    Throw out getting through this one on you own - autoregulation is for the birds right now. We need each others nervous system for mutual support through this sucker, here is how....

    • 40 min
    TU117: Resilience Trauma and the Brain W/ Guest Bruce Perry MD, PhD

    TU117: Resilience Trauma and the Brain W/ Guest Bruce Perry MD, PhD

    Get the latest from one of the worlds most renowned neuropsychiatrists working with interventions to heal trauma. Dr. Bruce Perry joins co-host Sue Marriott to discuss staging understanding and treatment intervention based on brain develop in a technique called the Neurosequential Model. Also, see our dense show notes for more!
    If you are interested in ACES, child advocacy, trauma, or therapy in general this is one you don't want to miss.

    • 57 min

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