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What Are You Feeling Possessive Of‪?‬ Journal Gently: Helping Introverted Women Find Healing After Grief, Hurt, and Trauma

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“Mom, I need a tank top!” 
“Okay, borrow one of mine.”
“Mom, I’m out of body wash.”
“You can use my soap until we get you some more.”
“Mom, I can’t find my brush.”
“Go ahead and use mine.”
My daughter is now at the age where she is starting to share and borrow some of my things. And most of the time, it’s completely okay.
But I will admit that there are some things she asks to use that I am a lot more reluctant to say “yes” to.
Like some of my art supplies.
Or my favorite chocolate.
Or my seat on the couch.
Why is it that I hold these things more closely than the others?
It’s a question I’ve been thinking about a lot lately. And I’ve been paying more attention to other places where I might be feeling possessive, too.
So I thought I might explore this idea together with you today. What are you feeling possessive of—and why? And what might God be inviting us to do with it?
 Kari
 
RELATED EPISODES + RESOURCES:
·      Episode 130: Is Your Hurt Preventing You From Loving Others Well?
·      Episode 135: Identifying Signs You're Not Doing Well (And What You Can Do About It)
·      Episode 98: Grief Has A Way Of… Well, Getting In The Way: A Personal Letter From Me To You
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>> Free Journaling Workshop: 3 ways to encounter God on the pages of your journal
http://lovedoesthat.org/journalingworkshop
>> Journal Gently: An 8-week program designed to help you process grief and trauma with God
http://lovedoesthat.org/journalgently
 >> Grab your copy of my Courageous Care book
http://lovedoesthat.org/care
 
Music by DappyTKeys

“Mom, I need a tank top!” 
“Okay, borrow one of mine.”
“Mom, I’m out of body wash.”
“You can use my soap until we get you some more.”
“Mom, I can’t find my brush.”
“Go ahead and use mine.”
My daughter is now at the age where she is starting to share and borrow some of my things. And most of the time, it’s completely okay.
But I will admit that there are some things she asks to use that I am a lot more reluctant to say “yes” to.
Like some of my art supplies.
Or my favorite chocolate.
Or my seat on the couch.
Why is it that I hold these things more closely than the others?
It’s a question I’ve been thinking about a lot lately. And I’ve been paying more attention to other places where I might be feeling possessive, too.
So I thought I might explore this idea together with you today. What are you feeling possessive of—and why? And what might God be inviting us to do with it?
 Kari
 
RELATED EPISODES + RESOURCES:
·      Episode 130: Is Your Hurt Preventing You From Loving Others Well?
·      Episode 135: Identifying Signs You're Not Doing Well (And What You Can Do About It)
·      Episode 98: Grief Has A Way Of… Well, Getting In The Way: A Personal Letter From Me To You
______
>> Free Journaling Workshop: 3 ways to encounter God on the pages of your journal
http://lovedoesthat.org/journalingworkshop
>> Journal Gently: An 8-week program designed to help you process grief and trauma with God
http://lovedoesthat.org/journalgently
 >> Grab your copy of my Courageous Care book
http://lovedoesthat.org/care
 
Music by DappyTKeys

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