What Fresh Hell: Laughing in the Face of Motherhood | Parenting Tips From Funny Moms Margaret Ables and Amy Wilson
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- Para toda la familia
When you're a parent, every day brings a "fresh hell" to deal with. In other words, there's always something. Think of us as your funny mom friends who are here to remind you: you're not alone, and it won't always be this hard.
We're Amy and Margaret, both busy moms of three kids, but with completely different parenting styles. Margaret is a laid-back to the max; Amy never met a spreadsheet or an organizational system she didn't like.
In each episode of "What Fresh Hell" we offer lots of laughs, but also practical advice, parenting strategies, and tips to empower you in your role as a mom. We explore self-help techniques, as well as ways to prioritize your own needs, combat stress, and despite the invisible workload we all deal with, find joy amidst the chaos of motherhood.
If you've ever wondered "why is my kid..." then one of us has probably been there, and we're here to tell you what we've learned along the way.
We unpack the behaviors and developmental stages of toddlers, tweens, and teenagers, providing insights into their actions and equipping you with effective parenting strategies.
We offer our best parenting tips and skills we've learned. We debate the techniques and studies that are everywhere for parents these days, and get to the bottom of what works best to raise happy, healthy, fairly well-behaved kids, while fostering a positive parent-child relationship.
If you're the default parent in your household, whether you're a busy mom juggling multiple pickups and dropoffs, or a first-time parent seeking guidance, this podcast is your trusted resource. Join our community of supportive mom friends laughing in the face of motherhood!
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Sibling Rivalry
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Most of us have either experienced—or refereed—sibling rivalry. So what do we do when our kids are constantly at each other's throats? Why do they fight constantly, and how do we get them to stop?
In this episode, Margaret and Amy discuss:
How parents consciously and unconsciously contribute to sibling rivalry
How to know what's normal sibling rivalry and what's harmful bullying
When to step in and when to let your kids work it out themselves
Why treating your kids fairly is not the same as treating them equally
Here are links to some of the resources mentioned in the episode:
Rob Quinn for Newser: This Bird Takes Sibling Rivalry to Extremes
Claire McCarthy for Harvard Health Publishing: Sibling rivalry is normal — but is it helpful or harmful?
Anahad O'Connor for the New York Times: When the Bully Is a Sibling
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BEST OF: Would You Rather...? (Mom Edition)
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Parenting is a constant process of choosing the lesser evil. When it's stomach flu or Coxsackie, they're both bad, but when you're playing Would You Rather?, you've still got to pick one.
In this episode, Amy and Margaret discuss:
What their kids' names REALLY are
Rat backpacks
The horror of perma-noisemakers
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Fresh Take: Lucas Mann on Fatherhood
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What does it mean to perform the role of "dad" in today's world? How do the ways the world perceives our children affect the ways we perceive ourselves?
Lucas Mann is the author of ATTACHMENTS: ESSAYS ON FATHERHOOD AND OTHER PERFORMANCES, a collection of essays about parenting that The New Yorker just called "intense, poetic, and almost uncomfortably honest." In this interview, Lucas tells us about his experiences, how and why he writes, and what he's learned along the way.
Here's where you can find Lucas Mann:
www.lucasmann.com
@lucaswmann on IG
@LucasWMann on X
Buy ATTACHMENTS: https://bookshop.org/a/12099/9781609389536
https://www.newyorker.com/books/under-review/should-we-expect-more-from-dads
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Dumb Things We Thought When We Were Kids
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Amy thought The Love Boat was filmed in real time, at sea. Margaret's grandfather had all the kids convinced his dining room light switch controlled the Tappan Zee Bridge. We asked our listeners for all the silliest things they fully believed as children, and in this episode, we highlight all of the absolute dumbest.
We got all of these answers from our Facebook group! You can join in on the fun here: https://www.facebook.com/groups/whatfreshhellcast
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BEST OF: Toxic Positivity
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“God never gives you more than you can handle.” “Look on the bright side.” “It could be worse.” These are examples of toxic positivity. They're platitudes we’ve all heard and we all know are (to say the least) less than helpful.
So why do people feel the need to put a good spin on things when disaster strikes, and how do we break out of that habit? We talk about our own experiences with toxic positivity, what we’ve learned from them, and what we’re still working on.
In this episode, we discuss:
How overvaluing positives functions as a survival mechanism
Why toxic positivity actually makes us less happy
How to counter toxic positivity and how to stay graceful towards people who offer us outlooks we may not want or need
Here are links to some of the articles we discuss in this episode:
Brock Bastian and Ashley Humphrey for The Conversation: “How to avoid ‘toxic positivity’ and take the less direct route to happiness”
Allyson Chiu for The Washington Post : Time to ditch ‘toxic positivity,’ experts say: ‘It’s okay not to be okay’
Elizabeth Bernstein for The Wall Street Journal : Toxic Positivity Is Very Real, and Very Annoying
Links to other episodes that mention toxic positivity:
Fresh Take: Kate Bowler on the Truths We Need To Hear
Fresh Take: Taylor Harris on Motherhood, Genetics, and Facing the Unknown
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Fresh Take: Ruth Whippman on What We Get Wrong About Raising Boys
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How do the stereotypes we harbor about raising boys harm them in the long term? Ruth Whipmann, author of BOYMOM: REIMAGINING BOYHOOD IN THE AGE OF IMPOSSIBLE MASCULINITY, discusses what most modern parenting advice misses when it comes to raising boys.
Ruth, Margaret, and Amy discuss:
why so much parenting advice for boys has historically sidelined the role of mothers
the ways in which the emotional lives of boys are suppressed
how to be "annoying in service of the project" of changing the conversation in your own family
Here's where you can find Ruth:
https://www.ruthwhippman.com
@ruthwhippman on X and IG
Follow Ruth on Substack: https://substack.com/@ruthwhippman
Buy BOYMOM: https://bookshop.org/a/12099/9780593577639
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