Hear the child v. Spoil the child Kids And Teens.

For many years , people and parents have hidden under the phrase, "spare the rod and spoil the child" to constantly hit a child when all  the child is ever seeking is attention. 
It's okay to get angry at a kid or your teenage sibling, but it is not right for your anger to get in the way of how you show them that you care.
We shouldn't hit our loved ones simply because we are bigger or stronger or older than them because in the long run , we all need some correcting.