50 min
I had sex with a lot of people while I was married – Lisa Good Girls Talk About Sex
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- Sexualidad
Lisa is a 40-year-old cis-gender woman who describes herself as white, currently in a relationship that is heterosexual, monogamous, and long-distance. She has also long been attracted to women and is considering the likelihood that she is bisexual.
Major themes in this episode include body image and eating disorders, sex outside marriage, long distance relationships, and exploring kink.
Here are some of the notable moments she shared with us:
5:20 – Lisa’s discovery of sexual pleasure in the shower 6:45 – Growing up as a gymnast, giving her a heightened sense of body awareness as a kid 8:00 – Developing an eating disorder 9:45 – Lisa’s first experience of dating and sexual exploration 12:40 – “Losing” her virginity 14:00 – Having a partner stop penetration when asked 16:30 – Having bad sex in college 18:45 – Getting married right out of college and meeting her sexual needs outside the marriage 20:00 – Having flings during work travel 21:58 – Lisa’s ability to compartmentalize sex from a relationship 24:30 – Communicating relationship needs/boundaries/parameters over the course of a relationship 27:25 – Lisa’s second marriage and its unhealthy aspects 29:00 – Opening up to kink and anal sex 30:20 – Exploring new fantasies with her current partner 33:33 – The day Lisa’s partner thanked Leah on Instagram for opening new vistas in their relationship! 35:30 – How they keep sex alive in a long distance relationship 39:30 – How Lisa talks to her kids about sex and consent 42:30 – The ramifications of leaving a trail of sexy pics in today’s digital world The Lowdown (44:14):
Do you prefer the orgasm from masturbation or sex with a partner? Are there sexual things you’ve tried that you don’t ever want to do again? Have you ever faked an orgasm? The Patreon extras for this episode are:
At the $1/month level, Lisa and I discuss the confusion we’ve both encountered around bisexuality At the $5/month level, Lisa talks about the prevalence of GHB, a date rape drug, when she was in college At the $7/month level, those conversations plus the extended Q&A At the $10/month level, all that plus a monthly Ask Me Anything! Learn more and become a community supporter at www.patreon.com/goodgirlstalkaboutsex.
If you like this show, please leave a rating and review at https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/good-girls-talk-about-sex/id1436501617?mt=2.
Want to be on the show? Visit www.leahcarey.com/guest and let me know that you’re interested. I’d love to talk with you!
Host – Leah Carey (Facebook, Instagram, YouTube, email)
Editor – Gretchen Kilby
Music by – Nazar Rybak
Lisa is a 40-year-old cis-gender woman who describes herself as white, currently in a relationship that is heterosexual, monogamous, and long-distance. She has also long been attracted to women and is considering the likelihood that she is bisexual.
Major themes in this episode include body image and eating disorders, sex outside marriage, long distance relationships, and exploring kink.
Here are some of the notable moments she shared with us:
5:20 – Lisa’s discovery of sexual pleasure in the shower 6:45 – Growing up as a gymnast, giving her a heightened sense of body awareness as a kid 8:00 – Developing an eating disorder 9:45 – Lisa’s first experience of dating and sexual exploration 12:40 – “Losing” her virginity 14:00 – Having a partner stop penetration when asked 16:30 – Having bad sex in college 18:45 – Getting married right out of college and meeting her sexual needs outside the marriage 20:00 – Having flings during work travel 21:58 – Lisa’s ability to compartmentalize sex from a relationship 24:30 – Communicating relationship needs/boundaries/parameters over the course of a relationship 27:25 – Lisa’s second marriage and its unhealthy aspects 29:00 – Opening up to kink and anal sex 30:20 – Exploring new fantasies with her current partner 33:33 – The day Lisa’s partner thanked Leah on Instagram for opening new vistas in their relationship! 35:30 – How they keep sex alive in a long distance relationship 39:30 – How Lisa talks to her kids about sex and consent 42:30 – The ramifications of leaving a trail of sexy pics in today’s digital world The Lowdown (44:14):
Do you prefer the orgasm from masturbation or sex with a partner? Are there sexual things you’ve tried that you don’t ever want to do again? Have you ever faked an orgasm? The Patreon extras for this episode are:
At the $1/month level, Lisa and I discuss the confusion we’ve both encountered around bisexuality At the $5/month level, Lisa talks about the prevalence of GHB, a date rape drug, when she was in college At the $7/month level, those conversations plus the extended Q&A At the $10/month level, all that plus a monthly Ask Me Anything! Learn more and become a community supporter at www.patreon.com/goodgirlstalkaboutsex.
If you like this show, please leave a rating and review at https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/good-girls-talk-about-sex/id1436501617?mt=2.
Want to be on the show? Visit www.leahcarey.com/guest and let me know that you’re interested. I’d love to talk with you!
Host – Leah Carey (Facebook, Instagram, YouTube, email)
Editor – Gretchen Kilby
Music by – Nazar Rybak
50 min