IVF DADDIES Richard Westoby and Julio Gaggia
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Welcome to the IVF Daddies Podcast, where we discuss all things IVF and Surrogacy, A disclaimer, we are not doctors, nor lawyers. I Richard Westoby, am just a dad who, 12 years ago, went through the surrogacy process to have my miracle twins. Since then, I have discovered my passion, which is helping others to create families, and providing optimism during their road to parenthood. Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/ivfdaddies/support
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29) Understanding IVF and Surrogacy Conferences, Embryos after the Divorce
In this episode, Julio and Richard discuss their experiences at a Men Having Babies conference in Berlin and the importance of educating people about the basics of IVF and surrogacy. They highlight the mix of attendees at the conference, from newbies to those who have done extensive research. They emphasize the need for more education and understanding about fertility and the various paths to building a family. The conversation also touches on personal topics such as divorce and the emotional challenges of deciding what to do with frozen embryos.
Chapters
00:00 Introduction and Setting
00:30 Attending the Men Having Babies Conference in Berlin
07:14 Starting Conversations and Providing Support
12:02 The Emotional Challenges of Divorce and Frozen Embryos
23:19 Legally Owning Embryos and Future Decisions
26:34 The Emotional Impact of Protecting Children
29:29 The Importance of Providing Information and Personal Experiences
34:57 Conclusion and Future Episodes
Keywords
IVF, surrogacy, Men Having Babies, conference, education, fertility, basics, attendees, research, paths to parenthood, divorce, frozen embryos
Takeaways
Men Having Babies conferences provide valuable information and resources for those interested in IVF and surrogacy.
There is a need for more education and understanding about fertility and the different paths to building a family.
The emotional challenges of divorce and deciding what to do with frozen embryos can be difficult to navigate.
Open and honest conversations about these topics can help provide support and guidance for others going through similar experiences.
Sound Bites
"There is a need for people to understand the basics."
"The need for people to understand the basics."
"Starting the conversation, whether it is good comments or bad comments, it allows us to listen."
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28) THE STORY OF BEING A BLACK TRANSGENDER WOMAN THROUGH SURROGACY IN USA
In this episode, the guest shares her experience as a Black transgender woman going through the IVF and surrogacy process in New York City. She discusses the importance of understanding empathy and the challenges faced by minority groups in the United States. She also highlights the disparities in access to healthcare for Black women and the high maternal mortality rates. The guest emphasizes the significance of building relationships and finding a supportive community during the IVF journey. She talks about her criteria for choosing an agency and the obstacles she faced in finding information and support.
Takeaways
Understanding empathy is crucial in supporting minority groups going through the IVF and surrogacy process.
There are disparities in access to healthcare and high maternal mortality rates for Black women.
Building relationships and finding a supportive community is important during the IVF journey.
Choosing an agency that aligns with personal values and provides a sense of affinity can enhance the experience.
Finding information and support can be challenging, but connecting with others who have gone through a similar journey can be invaluable.
Chapters
00:00 Introduction: A Powerful Story of Identity and Activism
03:16 Chapter 1: Empathy and Activism: Understanding the Challenges Faced by Minority Groups
16:14 Chapter 2: Building Relationships and Finding Support in the IVF Process
28:58 Chapter 4: Overcoming Obstacles: Finding Information and Support
Sound Bites
"A powerful story of identity and activism"
"New York City: A welcoming and diverse environment for the IVF journey"
"The importance of love and family beyond genetics"
Sound Bites
"A powerful story of identity and activism"
"New York City: A welcoming and diverse environment for the IVF journey"
"The importance of love and family beyond genetics"
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27) THE IMPORTANCE OF EARLY FERTILITY CARE
Summary
Dr. Amy Kaing discusses the basics of IVF and the process of residency and fellowship in the medical field. She explains that IVF involves taking eggs and sperm and developing embryos in a laboratory before transferring them to the uterus. She also explains the concept of ectopic pregnancy and the importance of the uterus for a successful pregnancy. Dr. Kaing emphasizes the importance of early fertility planning and recommends getting an AMH test to assess ovarian reserve. She also discusses the challenges faced by individuals with low ovarian reserve and the options available for preserving fertility. Dr. Kaing touches on the topic of transgender individuals and their fertility planning, as well as the impact of age on the success of egg and sperm freezing.
Chapters
00:00 Introduction and Background
06:06 Importance of Early Fertility Planning
14:58 Challenges and Options for Low Ovarian Reserve
23:23 Fertility Planning for Transgender Individuals
Takeaways
IVF involves taking eggs and sperm and developing embryos in a laboratory before transferring them to the uterus.
An ectopic pregnancy occurs when the fertilized egg implants outside the uterus, usually in the fallopian tube.
Early fertility planning is important, and an AMH test can assess ovarian reserve.
Individuals with low ovarian reserve may face challenges in conceiving and may need to consider options like egg donation.
Transgender individuals may need to plan for fertility preservation before starting hormone therapy.
Age is a factor in the success of egg and sperm freezing.
Keywords
IVF, residency, fellowship, basics, ectopic pregnancy, uterus, AMH test, ovarian reserve, fertility planning, low ovarian reserve, preserving fertility, transgender, age, egg freezing, sperm freezing
Sound Bites
"IVF is basically a process of taking eggs and putting it together with sperm in a laboratory setting and developing embryos that we can then grow to a certain stage before we put it back into a uterus."
"Ectopics in general are just pregnancies outside of the uterus where they're meant to grow."
"I'm seeing people in their late 20s, early 30s that are just thinking about their fertility. They aren't actively trying, they're not technically infertile, but they're trying to plan ahead."
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26)SURROGACY CONTRACTS A BETTER UNDERSTANDING
In this episode, Richard Westoby interviews Molly O'Brien, a legal expert in surrogacy. They discuss the legal aspects of surrogacy contracts, including the importance of having a contract to establish parental rights, the timing of obtaining a court order, and the potential challenges that may arise. They also touch on the importance of trust and communication between intended parents and surrogates, as well as the financial and emotional aspects of the contract. The conversation concludes with a discussion on termination of pregnancy and the role of compensation in surrogacy.
Keywords
surrogacy, legal aspects, surrogacy contract, parental rights, court order, trust, communication, termination of pregnancy, compensation
Takeaways
Surrogacy contracts are more complex than egg donation contracts because they involve parental rights.
A court order is necessary to establish the intended parents as legal parents and remove the surrogate's legal rights.
Trust and communication are crucial in the relationship between intended parents and surrogates.
Compensation in surrogacy should be fair and not coercive.
Termination of pregnancy should be discussed and agreed upon by both parties in the contract.
Sound Bites
"Surrogacy is a lot more complicated. The legal contract is much longer, more detailed, because we are dealing with parental rights when it comes to surrogacy."
"Everything isn't really completed and secured until after the birth. So in some states there is a little bit of a timeline where the surrogate is technically the legal parent until that paperwork is completed."
"Communication is key. As with everything in life, communication is key."
Chapters
00:00 Introduction and Background
04:17 Financial Aspects of Surrogacy Contracts
09:55 Addressing the Sensitive Topic of Termination
16:22 Psychological Assessment and Compensation
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25) THE ROLE OF MENTAL HEALTH PROVIDERS IN THE SURROGACY PROCESS
Summary
Joey Guzman, a licensed therapist specializing in fertility, IVF, and surrogacy counseling, shares his personal journey of building a family through surrogacy and egg donation. He discusses the importance of open communication, setting expectations, and navigating the emotional complexities of the process. Joey emphasizes the need for informed decision-making, including considerations for donor selection, single vs. double embryo transfer, and the relational dynamics with surrogates. He also highlights the role of mental health providers in providing education, support, and empathy to intended parents and surrogates throughout their journey.
Takeaways
Open communication and setting expectations are crucial when involving family members in the surrogacy and egg donation process.
Informed decision-making is essential, including considerations for donor selection, single vs. double embryo transfer, and the relational dynamics with surrogates.
Mental health providers play a vital role in providing education, support, and empathy to intended parents and surrogates throughout their journey.
The surrogacy process can be emotionally challenging, and having a strong support system is important for both intended parents and surrogates.
Empathy and understanding are key in navigating the complexities and emotions involved in building a family through surrogacy and egg donation.
Chapters
00:00 Introduction and Personal Journey
03:21 Donor Selection and Embryo Creation
07:22 Navigating Surrogate Selection
10:43 The Role of Mental Health Providers
23:07 Supporting Surrogates and Donors
25:26 Understanding Double Embryo Transfer
29:21 Personal Experience and Emotional Challenges
35:28 Importance of Support and Empathy
Sound Bites
"It is important to have a support system. It is important for you to be able to express yourself and to have your people there because you need people to help you with this."
"There's more to think about than just the thought of we wanna be parents and I wanna have a baby and I wanna transfer two embryos."
"You nearly made me cry. That must've been so tough. I'm really sorry that you went through that."
Keywords
fertility, IVF, surrogacy, counseling, donor selection, embryo transfer, mental health, support, empathy
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24) TRANSGENDER AND NON-BINARY FERTILITY CARE WITH DR. ROTHENBERG
Dr. Rothenberg discusses transgender and non-binary fertility, including the rise in patients identifying as trans or non-binary. She explains gender affirming treatment and how it can affect fertility. Dr. Rothenberg emphasizes the importance of creating a safe and inclusive space for patients and normalizing the fertility process for all individuals. She also discusses the hormone process for transgender individuals with ovaries and the options for fertility preservation. Additionally, she addresses the challenges and experimental options for fertility preservation in transgender children who have not yet gone through puberty. Dr. Stephanie Rothenberg discusses fertility options for transgender and non-binary individuals. She explains the process of fertility preservation, including egg and sperm freezing, and the challenges faced by young people who are transitioning. Dr. Rothenberg also addresses the psychological and emotional aspects of fertility for transgender individuals, as well as the importance of having a supportive family and access to insurance coverage. She emphasizes that there is never a wrong time to talk to a fertility doctor and encourages individuals to make their own choices about starting a family.
More people are identifying as trans or non-binary, but not all pursue gender affirming treatment.
Fertility preservation options depend on the individual's gender identity, hormone therapy, and desired family-building methods.
Creating a safe and inclusive space for transgender and non-binary individuals is crucial in fertility care.
Fertility preservation in transgender children who have not yet gone through puberty is still experimental, but may become a viable option in the future. Fertility preservation options, such as egg and sperm freezing, are available for transgender and non-binary individuals.
Young people who are transitioning may face challenges in accessing fertility care, including the need for a supportive family and insurance coverage.
Coming off hormone therapy can have physical and psychological effects, and it is important to consider fertility preservation options before starting hormone therapy.
Transgender individuals can pursue various paths to parenthood, including IVF, surrogacy, and adoption.
It is important to find a fertility clinic that is knowledgeable and affirming of transgender and non-binary individuals.
Reproductive autonomy is crucial, and individuals should feel empowered to make their own choices about starting a family.
Titles
Creating a Safe and Inclusive Fertility Space
Understanding Transgender and Non-Binary Fertility Finding a Knowledgeable and Affirming Fertility Clinic
Embracing Reproductive Autonomy: Making Your Own Choices
Chapters
00:00 Introduction and Background of Dr. Stephanie Rothenberg
01:15 Understanding Transgender and Non-Binary Fertility
12:21 Navigating Hormone Therapy and Fertility Preservation
25:46 Fertility Options for Transgender and Non-Binary Individuals
30:44 Challenges and Considerations for Young People Transitioning
36:20 The Importance of Supportive Families and Insurance Coverage
39:21 Navigating the Psychological and Emotional Aspects of Fertility
41:05 Exploring Paths to Parenthood for Transgender Individuals
42:41 Finding a Knowledgeable and Affirming Fertility Clinic
45:02 Embracing Reproductive Autonomy: Making Your Own Choices
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