Secure Dating Behavior - Part 2 – It’s Just A Date - Want Love Series Episode 6
First of all I have to say: If you are extremely needy you shouldn’t try and date just yet. Focus and improve on you first, then you can go out on a date.
Do you know how to date? If you are needy you’ll need to restrain yourself on a date.
Ladies, you set the relationship pace so even if you are unbelievably attracted to a guy you are on a date with, you’ll need to chill out and slow things down.
Focus on just this one date not marriage, children, future plans (not to be confused with not communicating about personal future plans).
Secure people only focus on enjoying themselves and getting to know the other person.
As a needy person you’ll need to change your perspective to that of how a secure person would see things and behave.
Know that there is no commitment between either of you for another date or even another phone call or text message. It’s “just” a date.
You don’t need to have an expectation of someone contacting you again.
You don’t need to try and set another date while on the first or even at the end. Just agree maybe you’ll go out again sometime (if you did enjoy it) but no need to set another yet.
All of these behaviors are for men and women.
Did you know that most of the people you date are not compatible?
Try not to be too available. This is a needy thing.
After your date get busy again with your life, your work, skills, friends, hobbies, dating someone else, and other activities.
Brush up on your social skills so you can be more inclined to have others in your life to talk to and do things with.
Dating safely. In today’s world it’s imperative to know some about who you are going to date, know someone that knows your date, and meet somewhere there are lots of people for the first date or two.
It’s not important to share addresses in the beginning.
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