Talk Your Way Up Vikas and Harith

Every now and then we catch ourselves wanting to say something to a friend or a colleague that can potentially hurt them. So more often than not, we just end up keeping quite.
Is there a way in which we can provide constructive feedback to others in a way that's helpful but not hurtful? Of course. And it's a very small change in the way we convey it that makes all the difference. 

Listen on while the hosts Vikas and Harith decrypt the art of giving constructive feedbacks and enhancing your overall assertive score. If you haven't heard the previous episodes in the assertive series, check them out first. 

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Most of us grow up fearing and avoiding conflict with others. Sometimes the perception of others becomes much more essential than our own perception of ourselves. That mindset can truly be kryptonite for effective communication. It can hinder us from expressing our wants and needs and often leaves us agitated and depressed. 

But at the same time, we should be wary and considerate of other people's wants and needs while expressing our own. That's where being assertive comes in. It's a communication style and a skill that can be mastered so we can lead a liberating life without worrying much about expressing our opinions while not hurting those around us. It's truly a life-changing gift for those who have ingrained it. 

In part 2, we explore the nuances of receiving and giving complements. We talk about how uncomfortable it can get and simple ways to handle such situations in an assertive manner.

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Most of us grow up fearing and avoiding conflict with others. Sometimes the perception of others becomes much more essential than our own perception of ourselves. That mindset can truly be kryptonite for effective communication. It can hinder us from expressing our wants and needs and often leaves us agitated and depressed. 

But at the same time, we should be wary and considerate of other people's wants and needs while expressing our own. That's where being assertive comes in. It's a communication style and a skill that can be mastered so we can lead a liberating life without worrying much about expressing our opinions while not hurting those around us. It's truly a life-changing gift for those who have ingrained it.  

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We've all admired those people who can just walk into a room and initiate a conversation with just about anyone. And what's even more endearing is how comfortable they are in their own skin while doing so. We can safely say that they're just a social person. 

But what if you're not social. And what if you want to be able to initiate conversations with just about anyone? Then try these progressive step-by-step exercises and watch how comfortable you can become. We always believe that any skills that have to do with communication, can be learned and honed with practice and technique. And being a social person is no exception. 

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Group discussions are always intimidating. You need to captivate more people, be louder and be more energetic.

 Have you ever felt that you were the silent one in a group discussion? Have you felt that you want to speak up but something just stops you? What is it? What could it be?


In this 2-part series, we answer a question on a Reddit thread at r/socialskills about the fear of being "boring". The original post on the thread had posted the following question:

The main reason I don't talk much with other people isn't because I don't want to, but because I don't' know what to say. When I start to talk with someone, I realize that my life is pretty boring. I have nothing interesting to say to the other person and my brain just freezes. My friends are out there doing stuff and all I can say is that I read books and play video games. I really want to be more talkative but I don't know what to say to people. When other people say something, it comes out so naturally. I'm not able to make any deep friendships because of this. Everyone else is more funny and interesting than I am. I don't know what to do.

Tune in and let's address this fear of being "boring"! 

Topics Discussed:

- Involving yourself in a group discussion 
- Reacting to the 'quite one' in the group 

Tune in and soak in your conversation nuggets! 

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What if I'm a boring person and have nothing interesting to say? How do I become an interesting conversationalist?

In this episode, we answer a question on a Reddit thread at r/socialskills about the fear of being "boring". The original post on the thread had posted the following question:

The main reason I don't talk much with other people isn't because I don't want to, but because I don't' know what to say. When I start to talk with someone, I realize that my life is pretty boring. I have nothing interesting to say to the other person and my brain just freezes. My friends are out there doing stuff and all I can say is that I read books and play video games. I really want to be more talkative but I don't know what to say to people. When other people say something, it comes out so naturally. I'm not able to make any deep friendships because of this. Everyone else is more funny and interesting than I am. I don't know what to do.

Tune in and let's address this fear of being "boring"!

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