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On this episode of Women of Impact, motivational speaker and dating advice expert Matthew Hussey joins Lisa Bilyeu to discuss such matters and more as they break down the complicated parts of finding love and reveal how dating and relationships can be much simpler than you might think.
They discuss the importance of feeling someone just try in a relationship, how to identify good intentions, why you have to invest in someone, the pitfalls of building up a story in our heads even before the first date, and why you should be willing to ask the difficult questions necessary in developing a strong relationship long-term.
[Original air date: 10/28/20].

SHOW NOTES:
It’s Not That Complicated | Matthew shares the importance of feeling someone just try. [1:53]
Intentions | Matthew discusses the difference between attention and intention. [5:46]
Invest, Then Test | Matthew shares why trying and staying confident is key to finding love. [7:20]
Complicated | Matthew shares why we try to force a fix when it gets complicated. [12:45]
Fantasy | Matthew reveals the pitfalls of writing a story in your head before it’s unfolded. [15:15]
Process | Matthew shares the four stages of importance in developing any relationship. [18:13]
Maintenance | Matthew discusses why the work in a relationship never ends. [23:52]
What They Actually Mean | Matthew reveals the true meaning behind what he says. [27:09]
What You Can Trust | Matthew reveals what you can trust that signals he likes you. [31:45]
Ask | Matthew shares why you shouldn’t shy away from asking the tough questions. [33:56]
Be Ruthless | Matthew reveals why you have to stand firm in your conviction. [39:21]
Love Switches | Matthew discusses the importance of knowing what your partner needs. [40:05]
Difficult Talks | Matthew shares why you shouldn’t steer clear of difficult conversations. [43:12]

FOLLOW LISA BILYEU:
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[Original air date: 4/30/20].

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Aging for men and women can be a drastically different experience. While men are often more highly valued with age for resources, women tend to be valued more for physical beauty that fades with time. How do you reconcile with the inevitability of physical changes from aging and the desire to have your partner always find you attractive? Long-term relationships are so much more than physical beauty, but there is a level of self-confidence and pride you take in how you look and how you feel for yourself and your partner. As looks fade and your confidence shifts, can you look at each other and be just as attracted as when you were 20 something? In this episode Tom and Lisa discuss commitment over attraction and how focusing on a shared experience, enjoying the phases of life is what’s working after 19 years of marriage. [Original air date: 4-25-21].

SHOW NOTES:
Inverse Attraction | Loving each phase of the relationship as physical attraction changes [0:28]
Commitment | Tom on being anchored to a shared experience of life with Lisa [1:32]
Attracted to Others | Why commitment trumps attraction and being an antifragile partner [3:03]
Enjoy Phases | Lisa’s tip to enjoy every phase for what it is and and work on self-esteem [5:48]

QUOTES:
“So we are together because we're sharing a life and I believe to the core of my existence.” Tom Bilyeu [2:35]

“enjoy it for what it is instead of like, always mourning what the last phase, like really enjoy it.” Lisa Bilyeu [6:21]

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[Original air date: 7-3-20].

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American mixed martial artist and UFC competitor, Michelle Waterson, sits with Lisa to discuss strengthening your mind-body connection, using failure to motivate your success, and balancing diverse identities as a mother and a warrior.
[Original air date: 11-28-18].

SHOW NOTES:
Michelle’s story and MMA being taboo for women [2:01]
Defying family expectations and tradition [3:45]
Live the life that you want to live [4:37]
Managing vulnerability inside and outside the octagon [5:34]
Accept that it happened and move on [6:45]
Failing means you’re still climbing [8:57]
Don’t start something without finishing it [10:45]
Embracing the challenge as your roots [12:34]
Exercising your mind [13:33]
Balancing identities between mother and fighter [14:25]
Practice being in the moment [16:45]
Building the mind-body connection [18:41]
Respecting your body as a key pillar of your lifestyle [21:25]
Leaning on family to motivate her passion [24:00]
Separating personal and professional life [28:42]
Being a mother is being a natural warrior [32:13]
Fighting in order to strengthen your inner voice [34:37]
The power of being able to flow [36:17]

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It’s Lisa Bilyeu here with an interesting and unique episode of Women of Impact today about infidelity, taking a deep dive into both sides of a relationship when infidelity and cheating occurs.
From the outside they looked like a perfect couple, but the reality was that behind closed doors, Sam was addicted to porn, cheating on his wife Nia, and lying to her DAILY. 
Now, if you’re not familiar with Sam & Nia, they have a HUGE YouTube following for their Christian family channel, and about 10 years ago, Sam’s name was leaked as a user of the marriage affairs dating website, Ashley Madison. 
Now if you’re scratching your head thinking “that couple can’t POSSIBLY still be together”, think again homie!! Not only are Sam & Nia still together, they agree their relationship is BETTER today than it ever was before Nia found out about Sam’s secrets and lies!! 
But that didn’t come easy, it took hard work, and in this interview Sam & Nia are answering alllll of my questions about how they went from the truth coming out, to where they are now – nearly 10 years later and STILL married – through the eyes of Sam, the cheater, and Nia, the powerful, strong, badass wife and life partner that stayed. 

We also talk about: 

- What went through Sam’s head when he was lying 

- How Nia ignored her gut instincts that something was “off” in their relationship

- The steps they took to process their emotions after Nia found out the truth

- What they EACH had to do to fight for their marriage, forgive, heal, and actually improve their relationship


So if you’ve been in a situation where you have been betrayed, and you’re questioning if you should fight for the relationship or leave, this episode is for you!! 

A betrayal can either break you or make you stronger. Only you know what is right for you, but hopefully listening to this will help you make the decision that you think is best for you and your relationship. 

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Themes: Confidence, Relationships, Business, Mental Health, Self-Improvement

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Get 5 free AG1 Travel Packs and a FREE 1 year supply of Vitamin D with your first purchase
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Go to https://tryviome.com/LISA and use code LISA to get 20% off your first 3 months, and take control of your gut health today!

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