Living with Heart: From Birth to Death Dr. Chip Dodd & Bryan Barley

Episode Summary:
In Episode 25 of "Living with Heart," titled "The Ladder," Bryan Barley and Dr. Chip Dodd discuss the intrinsic nature of healthy shame and the importance of emotional presence from birth. They examine the metaphor of a societal "ladder of success," highlighting its detrimental effects on self-worth and genuine human experience. The discussion emphasizes the crucial role of parents in understanding and meeting their children's emotional needs, and the importance of embracing vulnerability and authenticity. Ultimately, the episode calls for a return to living fully and truthfully, rejecting external validation in favor of inner fulfillment and genuine connection.
 
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Transcript - Episode 25 Transcript
 
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Timestamps:
00:00 Lou Lamour, prolific author of western fiction.
06:07 Our purpose is connection and living authentically.
08:24 Emotions are fundamental to human connection and behavior.
15:16 Identity struggle and parental pursuit of children.
21:32 External validation obstructs genuine self-discovery and connection.
24:40 Pursuit of success leads to unfulfillment and disillusionment.
28:18 Seeking honest feedback for personal growth and success.
32:54 Living authentically and embracing the present moment..
37:23 Small, dedicated groups can overcome overwhelming force.
40:33 Embrace vulnerability, wield it with discernment and strength.
Keywords: Healthy shame, human beings, birth, fulfillment, loss of self, creativity, storytelling, Psalm 8, pure expression, parenting, children's emotions, needs, desires, integrity of children, societal expectations, ladder of success, impulsive decisions, pressure to achieve, addiction, denial, disconnection, identity loss, forsaking humanity, living truthfully, dependence, presence, embracing vulnerability, authentic trust, internal struggles, pursuit of dreams, morning writing routine, living from the inside out, performance vs presence, self-worth, external validation, internal locus of control, Christian Counseling

In this episode of "Living with Heart," Bryan Barley and Chip Dodd delve deeper into the concept of trusting God's process and stepping away from the illusion of controlling the future. They discuss the importance of honesty, openness, and willingness (HOW) combined with faith, emphasizing the significance of everyday moments over seeking epic events. Through personal anecdotes and the analogy of symphony, they highlight embracing one's unique traits and passions, the emotional impact of major life changes, and the need for patience and growth in daily life. The episode encourages listeners to surrender to their God-given path, fostering a genuine and fulfilling life journey.
The "Living with Heart" Podcast is brought to you by Chip Dodd Resources (www.chipdodd.com) & The Voice of the Heart Center (www.vothcenter.com). Healthy people get help, and we would be honored to help you.
Timestamps:
00:00 Introduction
04:15 Trust the promise, embrace the risk ahead.
08:50 Choosing between two terrible options, surrendering to God.
15:29 Honesty, openness, connection, and being Velcro capable.
21:12 Asking questions, seeking guidance, making our choices.
32:01 Embracing your uniqueness invites resistance, risk, hope.
39:15 Parenting requires commitment, love, and anticipation.
45:05 Embracing limitations leads to better outcomes.
51:35 Embrace struggle, find fulfillment in daily life.
56:36 We become portable sanctuaries, giving ourselves away.
Keywords: Fear, Control, Surrender, Trust, Ego, Honesty, Openness, Willingness, God, Process, Symphony, Memories, Emotions, Authenticity, Passion, Fulfillment, Voidition, Parenting, Growth, Creativity, Christian Counseling.

In Episode 23 of "Living with Heart," hosts Chip Dodd and Bryan Barley discuss the tension between societal expectations and personal authenticity, sharing personal stories of their own journeys. They highlight the importance of embracing emotions and vulnerability to achieve true fulfillment. Chip recounts feeling the need to switch career paths and the eventual realization of needing emotional and spiritual healing, while Bryan reflects on the societal pressures surrounding success. Together, they emphasize trusting the process, the role of God's kindness, and the importance of acknowledging inherent worth and emotional needs.
 
Time Stamps:
05:49 Choosing between self-worth and performance-driven life.
08:40 Embrace your true self to find fulfillment.
19:59 Trust the process, value relationships, avoid isolation.
22:50 Winning can lead to addiction, avoid fantasy.
24:18 Life journey of learning, feeling, and becoming.
38:48 Serve the captain and seek righteousness.
42:26 Addiction causes self-mutilation and societal damage.
49:25 Gladness and trust lead to deep sense.
51:11 Feel, tell the truth, trust the process.
 
The "Living with Heart" Podcast is brought to you by Chip Dodd Resources (www.chipdodd.com) & The Voice of the Heart Center (www.vothcenter.com). Healthy people get help, and we would be honored to help you.

Chip and Bryan continue their discussion on the second step of "the process" - telling the truth of what you feel - with a particular focus on talking to others, particularly in the expression of healthy confrontation.
The "Living with Heart" Podcast is brought to you by Chip Dodd Resources (www.chipdodd.com) & The Voice of the Heart Center (www.vothcenter.com). Healthy people get help, and we would be honored to help you.

Chip and Bryan discuss the second step of "the process" - telling the truth of what you feel.
The "Living with Heart" Podcast is brought to you by Chip Dodd Resources (www.chipdodd.com) & The Voice of the Heart Center (www.vothcenter.com). Healthy people get help, and we would be honored to help you.

Chip and Bryan discuss the practicals and specifics of the eight core emotions, and what it looks like to healthily feel your feelings.
The "Living with Heart" Podcast is brought to you by Chip Dodd Resources (www.chipdodd.com) & The Voice of the Heart Center (www.vothcenter.com). Healthy people get help, and we would be honored to help you.