82 episodes

Welcome to The Evolved Caveman with Dr. John Schinnerer. The goal is success and happiness at work and at home. Short of that, you have neither success nor happiness. Dr. John focuses on the evolution of men in areas such as leadership, health, relationships, purpose, work and self-mastery. He has been a Ph.D. and coach for over 20 years, working with Army Rangers, Navy SEALs, CEOs, elite athletes and high net worth individuals. His passion is the intersection of high performance, success and happiness. So, if you're looking for how to get the most from your relationships, your work and your life, you're in the perfect place.
Please remember to rate, review, share and subscribe! Join the movement to change the world!

TheEvolvedCaveman.com
GuideToSelf.com
TheUltimateRelationship.com

The Evolved Caveman w/ Dr. John Schinnere‪r‬ Dr. John Schinnerer -The Evolved Caveman

    • Health & Fitness

Welcome to The Evolved Caveman with Dr. John Schinnerer. The goal is success and happiness at work and at home. Short of that, you have neither success nor happiness. Dr. John focuses on the evolution of men in areas such as leadership, health, relationships, purpose, work and self-mastery. He has been a Ph.D. and coach for over 20 years, working with Army Rangers, Navy SEALs, CEOs, elite athletes and high net worth individuals. His passion is the intersection of high performance, success and happiness. So, if you're looking for how to get the most from your relationships, your work and your life, you're in the perfect place.
Please remember to rate, review, share and subscribe! Join the movement to change the world!

TheEvolvedCaveman.com
GuideToSelf.com
TheUltimateRelationship.com

    A ‘Recovered Lawyer’ Teaches About Success

    A ‘Recovered Lawyer’ Teaches About Success

    After 17 years of practicing law, Jeff Nischwitz had it all - money, women, status, importance, and all the material trappings of the high life. But what he didn’t have was meaning, fulfillment and happiness. Jeff put in the work to become a “recovered lawyer” radically and courageously choosing another professional path which has now led to far greater happiness and purpose. Discover what he has learned in his journey.

    Topics covered:

    Two weeks into having COVID, Jeff shares about his experience with the virus and how it changed his perception of the world.

    The importance of what we DON’T do and say as compared with what we DO.

    How professional and financial success may corrupt and lead us away from happiness.

    The impact on world view of pessimism vs. optimism in the legal profession. Before law school, only 10% of young legal students are depressed. After law school, that figure soars to 40%.

    How lawyers are trained to be pessimistic and how it hurts their personal relationships.

    The need for thought leaders to split their audience 50/50 where half love them and half hate them.

    About Our Guest — Jeff Nischwitz is known as a Snow Globe Shaker (shaking things up) who’s on a mission to help people shift how they lead and thereby shift their leadership impact. He's an international speaker and personal transformation coach known for his unique perspectives, challenging traditional thinking, and delivering tangible shifts for leaders. Jeff's the Founder of The Nischwitz Group, a speaking, consulting and coaching company and the Co-Founder of Cardivera.com, a leadership development ecosystem that grows leaders and their impact. He also co-hosts the Impact Leadership Podcast. He’s also actively involved in leadership and mentoring within the Mankind Project International and regularly speaks to and works with men on emotional awareness and allowance and walking a healing journey in life. Jeff has published four leadership and business books, including his most recent – Just One Step: Walking Backwards to the Present on the Camino Trail (Eagle Heart Press 2020).

    If you like what you've heard, support us by subscribing, leaving reviews on Apple podcasts. Every review helps to get the message out! Please share the podcast with friends and colleagues.

    Follow Dr. John Schinnerer on
    | Instagram | Instagram.com/@TheEvolvedCaveman
    | Facebook | Facebook.com/Anger.Management.Expert
    | Twitter | Twitter.com/@JohnSchin
    | LinkedIn | Linkedin.com/in/DrJohnSchinnerer

    Or join the email list by visiting: GuideToSelf.com

    Please visit our YouTube channel and remember to Like & Subscribe!

    https://www.youtube.com/user/jschinnerer

    Editing/Mixing/Mastering by: Brian Donat of B/Line Studios www.BLineStudios.com
    Music by: Zak Gay http://otonamimusic.com/

    • 58 min
    The Hidden Issue Of Parental Alienation In Divorce

    The Hidden Issue Of Parental Alienation In Divorce

    One of the most painful parts of divorce is when your child cuts off communication following your divorce. Fathers are at a much greater risk of alienation than mothers (nearly twice as much) for a variety of reasons - bias in the family court systems, verbal attacks by the ex-spouse, and others.

    Both Dr. John and Dr. Coleman have experienced alienation personally. Make use of their experiences to ensure this does not happen to you.

    In this episode, discover…

    - What the signs of parental alienation are.
    - How alienation begins.
    - How to tell if the other parent is ‘poisoning’ the mind of your child during divorce.
    - How to prevent the loss of relationship with your child during divorce.
    - How to handle lies coming from the other parent.
    - How to move on if the relationship with our child is severed and that is out of our hands.
    - Best ways to heal the relationship with the alienated individual.
    - How to make amends with your adult child.

    About Dr. John’s Guest:

    Joshua Coleman, PhD, is a psychologist in private practice and Senior Fellow with the Council on Contemporary Families. A frequent guest on NPR and Today, his advice has also appeared in The New York Times, The Atlantic, the Wall Street Journal, CNN, Chicago Tribune and other publications.

    His latest book is entitled RULES OF ESTRANGEMENT: WHY ADULT CHILDREN CUT TIES AND HOW TO HEAL THE CONFLICT and will be available on Amazon.com as of March 2, 2021. You can also get a free gift by preordering the book at drjoshuacoleman.com.

    It is a guide for parents whose adult children have cut off contact that reveals the hidden logic of estrangement, explores its cultural causes, and offers practical advice for parents trying to reestablish contact with their adult children.

    Labeled a silent epidemic by a growing number of therapists and researchers, estrangement is one of the most disorienting and painful experiences of a parent’s life. Popular opinion typically tells a one-sided story of parents who got what they deserved or overly entitled adult children who wrongly blame their parents. However, the reasons for estrangement are far more complex and varied. As a result of rising rates of individualism, an increasing cultural emphasis on happiness, growing economic insecurity, and a recent perception that parents are obstacles to personal growth, many parents find themselves forever shut out of the lives of their adult children and grandchildren.

    As a trusted psychologist whose own daughter cut off contact for several years and eventually reconciled, Dr. Joshua Coleman is uniquely qualified to guide parents in navigating these fraught interactions.

    Important Free Resource: Dr. Coleman does a free Q&A session online every Monday at 11:30 am pst. You can find out more at his site drjoshuacoleman.com.

    If you like what you've heard, support us by subscribing, leaving reviews on Apple podcasts. Every review helps to get the message out! Please share the podcast with friends and colleagues.

    Follow Dr. John Schinnerer on
    | Instagram | Instagram.com/@TheEvolvedCaveman
    | Facebook | Facebook.com/Anger.Management.Expert
    | Twitter | Twitter.com/@JohnSchin
    | LinkedIn | Linkedin.com/in/DrJohnSchinnerer

    Or join the email list by visiting: GuideToSelf.com

    Please visit our YouTube channel and remember to Like & Subscribe!

    https://www.youtube.com/user/jschinnerer

    Editing/Mixing/Mastering by: Brian Donat of B/Line Studios www.BLineStudios.com
    Music by: Zak Gay http://otonamimusic.com/

    • 46 min
    The Absolute Importance of Fathers

    The Absolute Importance of Fathers

    Society has long understood the importance of mothers in parenting. It seems only recently that fathers are starting to be valued as well. Fathers and mothers serve different purposes in parenting and both are needed and important.

    Topics covered:
    The most important lessons we learn from dad.

    How men tend to look for external validation and how it messes us up. The importance of learning be internally validated and why.

    The negative impact of self-limiting beliefs. How we acquire self-limiting beliefs. And how do we let go of them.

    The need for clear boundaries in relationships - what they are and how to speak up for yours.

    Perfectionism and how it hamstrings your development.

    About Chris Salem:

    Chris Salem is happily married man to the love of his life with one son. Family is important to him and he believes every parent must be a role model or the example for their children.  Besides spending quality time with them, He is the CEO of Empowered Fathers in Action, NPO organization dedicated to helping families cultivate a stronger interdependent family structure free from limited beliefs. This leads to their children developing into adults with higher level of self-esteem and confidence to be future leaders in their homes, communities, and businesses. He is also an accomplished executive coach, award-winning author, radio show host, & media personality. Chris has worked with organizations such as JP Morgan – Chase, Ralph Lauren, Anthem, Raytheon, GE Research, and the NYPD Forensics Department.

    chris@christophersalem.com
    christophersalem.com
    FathersInAction.org

    If you like what you've heard, support us by subscribing, leaving reviews on Apple podcasts. Every review helps to get the message out! Please share the podcast with friends and colleagues.

    Follow Dr. John Schinnerer on
    | Instagram | Instagram.com/@TheEvolvedCaveman
    | Facebook | Facebook.com/Anger.Management.Expert
    | Twitter | Twitter.com/@JohnSchin
    | LinkedIn | Linkedin.com/in/DrJohnSchinnerer

    Or join the email list by visiting: GuideToSelf.com

    Please visit our YouTube channel and remember to Like & Subscribe!

    https://www.youtube.com/user/jschinnerer

    Editing/Mixing/Mastering by: Brian Donat of B/Line Studios www.BLineStudios.com
    Music by: Zak Gay http://otonamimusic.com/

    • 54 min
    Embracing Pain To Avoid Suffering

    Embracing Pain To Avoid Suffering

    A tremendous story of resiliency in which a terrible accident gradually imparts wisdom, knowledge and optimism to my esteemed guest Brian Bogert.

    How do you become aware of your own story to use it to your benefit? How do you become more aware and intentional of who you already are to create more joy and happiness in your life?

    How do you keep from getting stuck in the pain, hurt and resentment of your own old, stale anger?

    How can we embrace pain to avoid suffering?

    Why me? Why this? Why now? How do we get out of the f*cking victim mentality?

    Why is it so important to focus on the journey over the destination?

    And how does the bullshit story (i.e., go to school, get good grades, get to the best college, get a high paying job, make $, get married, get promoted, make more $ and then we will retire happy) we are all force-fed as naive youth negatively impact us as men?

    Tune in now. This is one interview you do not want to miss. Your FOMO will never forgive you!

    Brian Bogert is a brilliant and passionate human behavior and performance coach, speaker, business strategist, top sales professional and philanthropic leader who believes in helping growth-minded individuals achieve the best version of themselves: their most authentic selves. He teaches not just to accept change, but to embrace pain in order to avoid suffering. Brian learned the wisdom of resiliency through his own early experiences with pain at the age of 7.

    Brian teaches how to leverage radical authenticity and awareness to create the intentional life of which you’ve been dreaming, but have struggled to create. His revolutionary strategy—embrace pain to avoid suffering—has helped individuals and companies break beyond their normal to achieve the success in life and business that they’ve always wanted. If you want to create a life of no limits and gain freedom, Brian and his team will get you there.

    Email: taylor@brianbogert.com
    Web: https://brianbogert.com
    If you like what you've heard, support us by subscribing, leaving reviews on Apple podcasts. Every review helps to get the message out! Please share the podcast with friends and colleagues.

    Follow Dr. John Schinnerer on
    | Instagram | Instagram.com/@TheEvolvedCaveman
    | Facebook | Facebook.com/Anger.Management.Expert
    | Twitter | Twitter.com/@JohnSchin
    | LinkedIn | Linkedin.com/in/DrJohnSchinnerer

    Or join the email list by visiting: GuideToSelf.com

    Please visit our YouTube channel and remember to Like & Subscribe!

    https://www.youtube.com/user/jschinnerer

    Editing/Mixing/Mastering by: Brian Donat of B/Line Studios www.BLineStudios.com
    Music by: Zak Gay http://otonamimusic.com/

    • 52 min
    Choose To Win with Tom Ziglar

    Choose To Win with Tom Ziglar

    The world is hungry for inspiration, motivation, and hope. Join Tom and Dr. John to find yours now! Tom Ziglar took over the family business from his father Zig Ziglar. Zig was one of the world’s top speakers and truth-tellers. Find out what lessons Tom learned along the way.

    Discover the idea of consilience - using different fields of study to converge on one truth

    Hear about the top ways to motivate your employees based on Tom’s book, Motivating and Leading the Remote Workforce: The Greatest Business Challenge in 100 Years.

    One of Zig’s famous quotes is “You can have everything in life you want, if you will just help enough other people get what they want.” How does this quote play out today against the Man Box ideals of self-reliance and independence?

    Dig into a discussion on values as the most important guardrails for your behaviors and success.


    About Tom Ziglar:

    Tom Ziglar has had the rare privilege of spending his entire life surrounded by world-class leaders, innovators, and motivators. Family dinner included the presence of the world’s top motivator, his father, Zig Ziglar.

    As CEO of Ziglar, Inc., Tom Ziglar carries on the Ziglar philosophy: “You can have everything in life you want if you will just help enough other people get what they want.”

    Tom Ziglar was a key collaborator with his father on Zig Ziglar’s 30 book, Born to Win.

    His first solo title, Choose to Win, published and released in March 2019, expands the Ziglar branding and philosophy to include the secret to winning at life is one good choice at a time.
    Tom speaks around the world to billion-dollar companies, small business owners, and prestigious academic institutions, including Cambridge and Harvard. Leadership, business, and performance are among Tom’s favored topics.

    • 1 hr 3 min
    There Is No Failure. Only Learning.

    There Is No Failure. Only Learning.

    An in-depth interview with Frederik Sandvall - Former Swedish Special Forces.

    Frederik is an investor, entrepreneur, dealmaker, author, and former special forces soldier in Sweden.

    Topics covered include:

    The critical need to reframe “failure” as “a learning opportunity” - the why and the how.
    Best mindset for success in extreme, stressful circumstances.
    The importance of servant leadership in the military and in corporations.
    Why Frederik was know as “The Smiling Lieutenant” to his men.
    Why self-care is the most important first step in any successful and meaningful life.
    How to stay calm under fire (literally, gunfire!).

    The Evolved Caveman is committed to helping men evolve beyond caveman status.

    If you like what you've heard, support us by subscribing, leaving reviews on Apple podcasts. Every review helps to get the message out! Please share the podcast with friends and colleagues.

    Follow Dr. John Schinnerer on
    | Instagram | Instagram.com/@TheEvolvedCaveman
    | Facebook | Facebook.com/Anger.Management.Expert
    | Twitter | Twitter.com/@JohnSchin
    | LinkedIn | Linkedin.com/in/DrJohnSchinnerer

    Or join the email list by visiting: GuideToSelf.com

    Please visit our YouTube channel and remember to Like & Subscribe!

    https://www.youtube.com/user/jschinnerer

    Editing/Mixing/Mastering by: Brian Donat of B/Line Studios www.BLineStudios.com
    Music by: Zak Gay http://otonamimusic.com/

    • 47 min

Top Podcasts In Health & Fitness

Listeners Also Subscribed To