When you’re feeling down, has anyone ever slapped you on the back and said, “C’mon, cheer up—you’ve got everything to live for!” You probably felt like clocking him. Why? Because even though he’s trying to help, he doesn’t feel where you’re at.

Lets help you face your burden.” In other words, be aware and share the pain of others. You can’t cruise through life as if it’s an obstacle course: watch out, here’s a human being, manipulate him, score a point, one upmanship. That’s not the way. You have to share the burden.

When someone is physically hurt, everyone jumps for bandages, water, CPR, w