The Human Revolution with Dylan Bain Dylan Bain

In this episode, we're joined by Joshua Laycock, a Coach and Registered Psychotherapist (Qualifying) focusing on men and men’s issues. He has been working in the realm of men’s work for close to a decade, leading and consulting with various men’s groups, as well as providing one-on-one coaching to men looking to improve in a variety of aspects of their lives, most notably in their relationships, careers, parenting, and in learning to live more in alignment with their purpose and priorities. He recently launched an online coaching program called the Lifestyle Evolution Project.
Joshua and Dylan Bain explore various themes related to work, fulfillment, and personal growth, including the concept of working hard for the benefit of others, the disillusionment that can come from sacrificing personal well-being for corporate success, and the importance of aligning expectations with reality.
Joshua shares personal anecdotes from his own career experiences and emphasizes the need for individuals to question societal norms around work and success, and to challenge the idea that suffering is a necessary component of achievement.
Tune in today for a thought-provoking exploration of work, purpose, and community!
Show Highlights
[00:29] Introduction to guest [01:44] Joshua Laycock’s backstory [09:14] The concept of wearing masks, and learning to take them off [19:42] Integrating the word “and” more into our lives [21:56] The bus analogy and how to tackle resistance [28:11] Busy vs having a full schedule [35:18] Discussion on capitalism and its ethical implications [41:20] Reflections on morality, individualism, and community Links and Resources
🟢 Lifestyle Evolution Project → https://lifestyle-evolution-project.mn.co/share/kJssd7ZX-1I12aKJ?utm_source=manual
🟢 Joshua’s Podcast → https://open.spotify.com/show/7LOyp25iqgN0h4whtxMIrT?si=71c8402279b24721
🟢 Joshua’s Instagram → Instagram.com/Joshua.Laycock
🟢 Intuitive Finance with Dylan Bain → DylanBain.com
🟢 Intuitive Finance with Dylan Bain → DylanBain.com
🟢 Intuitive Finance Toolkit → DylanBain.com/Toolkit
🟢 Instagram → Instagram.com/TheDylanBain
🟢 Threads → Threads.net/@TheDylanBain
🟢 Facebook → Facebook.com/FiscallySavage
🟢 Twitter → Twitter.com/TheDylanBain

In this episode, host Dylan Bain takes us on a personal journey that began in March 2020. Dylan and his wife were searching for a home, a significant milestone after ten years of marriage. Amidst his analytical approach—considering taxes, school districts, and crime rates—Dylan’s wife offered a poignant reminder: they weren't buying a house; they were buying a home. This insight set the stage for a deeper exploration into the essence of human experience versus societal expectations, and how we can re-evaluate personal finances and lifestyle choices to align more closely with human needs rather than societal expectations.
Tune in now to learn more!












Show Highlights
[00:27] Anecdote from Dylan about house hunting
[01:45] How society incentivizes logical over emotional decisions
[03:24] Capitalism, and how modern life commodifies human aspects
[12:18] The costs and processes of living authentically  
Links and Resources
🟢 Anya Shakh's episode → https://traffic.libsyn.com/fiscallysavage/EP123.mp3
🟢 The Human Revolution with Dylan Bain → DylanBain.com
🟢 Intuitive Finance Toolkit → DylanBain.com/Toolkit
🟢 Instagram → Instagram.com/TheDylanBain
🟢 Threads → Threads.net/@TheDylanBain
🟢 Twitter → Twitter.com/TheDylanBain

In this episode, we had the pleasure of talking with Anya Shakh, a relationship coach and advocate for understanding the dynamics between men and women. She offers insights into the challenges faced by both genders in today's dating scene and relationships, from birth control and its impact on society today to conflicting messages from feminism and the misconceptions surrounding incels and the stereotypes perpetuated by mainstream media.
Anya advocates for a deeper understanding of the responsibilities that come with empowerment, and the necessity of honesty and clear communication in relationships, highlighting the importance of partnership and mutual respect. 
Catch the latest episode today for a more nuanced understanding of empowerment and relationships!
 
Show Highlights
[00:55] The growing gap between men and women
[10:08] The birth control pill and how it commodified sex
[14:28] On why sex become just an act
[17:57] What drives the gap between men and women today
[24:11] Anya’s thoughts on the male birth control pill
[27:10] On empowerment and redefining it
[33:27] The responsibilities that come with power and autonomy
 
Links and Resources
🟢 Anya Shakh’s Instagram → Instagram.com/AnyaShakh
🟢 Anya Shakh'’s Podcast → Podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/ancient-intelligence/id1617883752
🟢 The Human Revolution with Dylan Bain → DylanBain.com
🟢 Intuitive Finance Toolkit → DylanBain.com/Toolkit
🟢 Instagram → Instagram.com/TheDylanBain
🟢 Threads → Threads.net/@TheDylanBain
🟢 Facebook → Facebook.com/FiscallySavage
🟢 Twitter → Twitter.com/TheDylanBain

In this inaugural episode of "The Human Revolution," host Dylan Bain shares a deeply personal story that marked a turning point in his life. Reflecting on a moment when he faced the end of his teaching career and the daunting prospect of supporting his family without a job, Dylan recounts the pivotal question posed by his principal: "What kind of man does your daughter need you to be?" This question sparks a journey of self-discovery and a realization that traditional notions of success and financial stability are overshadowed by the fundamental human needs of connection, authenticity, and belonging.
Dylan emphasizes the human element in personal finance and the importance of creating environments that foster genuine human connection and well-being. Learn more about the four pillars of human experience: food, relationship, heart, and lifestyle, as Dylan examines how industrialized food production, transactional relationships, suppressed emotional expression, and isolating lifestyles contribute to widespread suffering and disconnection.
Tune in now and find out how we can reclaim our humanity!
 













Show Highlights
[00:27] Dylan's turning point
[02:40] The four pillars of human experience
[13:19] On how we can reclaim our humanity
[16:00] Personal finances and its connection to the human experience  
Links and Resources
🟢 Dylan's Episode → https://fiscallysavage.libsyn.com/rivers-of-change-leading-the-charge-for-a-more-authentic-life
🟢 The Human Revolution with Dylan Bain → DylanBain.com
🟢 Intuitive Finance Toolkit → DylanBain.com/Toolkit
🟢 Instagram → Instagram.com/TheDylanBain
🟢 Threads → Threads.net/@TheDylanBain
🟢 Twitter → Twitter.com/TheDylanBain

We’re shifting the focus from finance to a broader exploration of creating a more human-centered world–drawing inspiration from a story by Desmond Tutu. He reflects on his experience in financial coaching, highlighting the realization that financial issues often stem from deeper emotional and systemic problems.
With society losing touch with its humanity in various aspects, including relationships, emotions, and lifestyle choices, there’s a need to reevaluate our approach to food, relationships, expressing emotions, and lifestyle to build a more fulfilling and human-centered life.
Join us on a transformative journey in this new episode!
 
Show Highlights
[00:36] Reflections on a powerful story heard from Desmond Tutu
[02:44] Observations about people's finances
[05:46] The systemic issues within the current societal structure
[08:58] The shift in the food industry
[15:46] Challenges in expressing emotions, and the lost human elements in relationships
[19:40] Shift in the podcast's focus
[21:15] Introduction to Ascendant Legion
 
Links and Resources
🟢 Traver Boehm Episode → fiscallysavage.libsyn.com/farewell-nice-guy-welcome-the-uncivilized-man-with-traver-boehm
🟢 Jordan Gray Episode → fiscallysavage.libsyn.com/relationships-and-moving-forward-with-jordan-gray
🟢 Intuitive Finance with Dylan Bain → DylanBain.com
🟢 Intuitive Finance Toolkit → DylanBain.com/Toolkit
🟢 Instagram → Instagram.com/TheDylanBain
🟢 Threads → Threads.net/@TheDylanBain
🟢 Facebook → Facebook.com/FiscallySavage
🟢 Twitter → Twitter.com/TheDylanBain

Today’s guest, Amy McAllaster, is a counselor and coach with a practice in Littleton. We explore various aspects of relationships, mental health, and societal challenges. Amy shares insights into the obstacles couples face, the impact of societal expectations on men, and the need for authentic and intentional communities. 
Join us in this insightful episode as we cover various topics such as building meaningful connections, addressing attachment wounds, and cultivating a healthier, more connected society!
 
Show Highlights
[00:36] Introduction of the guest, Amy McAllaster
[02:42] The concept of the conscious relationship
[11:02] On creating authentic spaces to be vulnerable
[14:36] Two key pieces on how to make a relationship work
[16:44] What most men feel objectified about
[20:25] The importance of strong connected relationships
[22:22] Erasure of men's experiences
[24:11] Obstacles couples face
[26:21] On men feeling lonely but not recognizing it as such
[28:48] Impact of systemic issues in communities
[29:58] The importance of both healthy family systems and broader communities
[41:33] Free-range parenting
 
Links and Resources
🟢 Amy McAllaster’s Instagram → Instagram.com/AmyMcallaster
🟢 Amy McAllaster’s Facebook → Facebook.com/Amy.Mcallasterschmitz
🟢 Amy McAllaster’s LinkedIn → Linkedin.com/in/amy-mcallaster-ma-ma-lpc-ba2959145
🟢 Amy McAllaster’s Website → AmyMcallaster.com
🟢 Amy McAllaster’s Counseling Website → AmysCounseling.com
🟢 Intuitive Finance with Dylan Bain → DylanBain.com
🟢 Intuitive Finance Toolkit → DylanBain.com/Toolkit
🟢 Instagram → Instagram.com/TheDylanBain
🟢 Threads → Threads.net/@TheDylanBain
🟢 Facebook → Facebook.com/FiscallySavage
🟢 Twitter → Twitter.com/TheDylanBain

 
Books Mentioned
🟢 How We Love by Kay Yerkovich, Milan Yerkovich → howwelove.com/shop/how-we-love-book
🟢 Attached by Amir Levine, Rachel S. F. Heller → attachedthebook.com
🟢 The Feminine Mystique by Betty Friedan → amazon.com/Feminine-Mystique-50th-Anniversary/dp/0393346781