A Tender Space with Heather & Krista Centre for Holding Space

On today’s episode, we are talking about the complexities of divorce. What happens when a relationship you chose to be in no longer feels like the right fit? How do you make the choice to end it? And what support do you need to help you get through such a major disruption and then heal after it’s happened?

Our guest today is Kate Anthony. Kate Anthony is the author of The D Word: Making the Ultimate Decision About Your Marriage, host of the critically acclaimed and New York Times recommended podcast The Divorce Survival Guide Podcast and the creator of the online coaching program, Should I Stay or Should I Go? which has helped hundreds of women make the most difficult decision of their lives using coaching tools, relationship education, geeky neuroscience, community support, and deep self-work.

Kate empowers women to find their strength, passion, and confidence even in the most disempowering of circumstances and helps them move forward with concrete plans set on a solid foundation, putting their children at the center (not in the middle) of all their decisions.

Kate is trained in various coaching modalities with two of the top coach training organizations in the world. Additionally, Kate is certified as a Domestic Violence Victim’s Advocate by the state of California, as a Co-Parenting Specialist by the Mosten Guthrie Academy, and as a High Conflict Divorce Coach by Tina Swithin’s High Conflict Divorce Coaching Certification Program.

In addition to her online programs, Kate works privately with clients all over the world. 

Kate lives in Los Angeles with her teenage son, whom she lovingly co-parents with her ex-husband.

You can find Kate at www.kateanthony.com and on Facebook and Instagram.

On today’s episode, we’re talking about healing the trauma that’s been passed down through our lineages and disrupting the social conditioning that we inherited from the systems we are part of. More specifically, we’re exploring the mother wound and how it was shaped by patriarchy. 


Our guest today is Bethany Webster.

Bethany Webster is considered a global expert on healing the Mother Wound. She is a writer, international speaker and transformational coach. Bethany started blogging in 2013 about the Mother Wound and quickly experienced worldwide demand for her work. Through blending research on intergenerational trauma, feminist theory, and psychology with her own personal story, Bethany's work is the result of decades of research and her own journey of healing. Bethany speaks, consults and mentors around the world sharing her growing body of work that is raising the standard of women’s leadership and personal development. Learn more at www.bethanywebster.com

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2. Tokyo Cafe by TVARI (Mid-Credit). 

On today’s episode, we’re talking about body liberation. More specifically, we’re exploring what it means to navigate a fat-phobic world while living in a fat body AND how we can find pleasure and joy while doing so. We’ll also talk about how people who don’t live in fat bodies can educate themselves and become better allies.

Our guest today is Dawn Serra. Dawn Serra is a white, cis, queer, fat, disabled therapist specializing in relationships, pleasure, and body trust. She is the co-founder of Tend and Cultivate Counselling, Canada's first mental health group practice providing trauma-informed, weight-neutral, radical mental health care for people in bigger bodies. The nexus of her work is tending to the places where we are most tender and cultivating the things that contribute to our aliveness - joy, pleasure, connection, satisfaction, and wonder.

Below are the authors, activists and works named in our conversation:


https://www.penguinrandomhouse.com/books/670607/belly-of-the-beast-by-dashaun-harrison/
https://nyupress.org/9781479886753/fearing-the-black-body/
Gloria Lucas of Nalgona Positivity Pride: https://www.nalgonapositivitypride.com/
Scholar Lauren Munro of Toronto Metropolitan University (accidentally said Tara in the interview) writes, "Fat bodies do not simply move through hostile spaces, they are marked by them (bruises, scrapes, scars). Spatial injustice is the intentional exclusion of fat bodies in public spaces. These issues create access barriers to joy, happiness, belonging."


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A Small Miracle by Romarecord1973 (Beginning and Ending Credit).
Tokyo Cafe by TVARI (Mid-Credit).

Today we’re talking about healing with friends.



Heather has just recently launched her book, Where Tenderness Lives, and during the writing of that book, she spent a lot of time in conversation with her friend Saleha Alsheri, a Saudi Arabia-born psychotherapist who is now based in Winnipeg, Canada.

One of the best places Heather has found to root her deep healing work is in relationships that can hold it - specifically friendships.

In this conversation, Heather and Saleha will talk about the history of their friendship and how it became a place where they could both heal and grow.



The following sound is loyalty-free and generously provided by the community of artists on Pixabay:

1. A Small Miracle by Romarecord1973 (Beginning and Ending Credit).

2. Tokyo Cafe by TVARI (Mid-Credit).