149 episodes

Ever felt like you suck at being an adult? Like there's a secret manual that someone forgot to give you when you turned 18?

Join life & business coach Ebonie Allard, as she & her guests explore with humour & curiosity what it means to be a kickass and kind adult in our modern world. Each week they’ll navigate the complete spectrum of adulting from wildness to responsibility, with compassion rather than expectation.

Expect strong language and viewpoints as no topic is out of bounds, after all we’re all adults here, right?!

The idea is to unpack sovereignty, creativity, privilege, intimacy, love, and rewild into discovering how we can be good humans, AND still have FUN.

Most episodes Ebonie’ll have a guest, sometimes she’ll be live coaching and you’ll get to be a fly on the wall, and occasionally she’ll rock the mic alone and talk directly to you with her thoughts and challenges.

Adulting with Ebonie Ebonie Allard

    • Self Help
    • 4.9 • 43 Ratings

Ever felt like you suck at being an adult? Like there's a secret manual that someone forgot to give you when you turned 18?

Join life & business coach Ebonie Allard, as she & her guests explore with humour & curiosity what it means to be a kickass and kind adult in our modern world. Each week they’ll navigate the complete spectrum of adulting from wildness to responsibility, with compassion rather than expectation.

Expect strong language and viewpoints as no topic is out of bounds, after all we’re all adults here, right?!

The idea is to unpack sovereignty, creativity, privilege, intimacy, love, and rewild into discovering how we can be good humans, AND still have FUN.

Most episodes Ebonie’ll have a guest, sometimes she’ll be live coaching and you’ll get to be a fly on the wall, and occasionally she’ll rock the mic alone and talk directly to you with her thoughts and challenges.

    The One About Looking Back

    The One About Looking Back

    Hope you’re ready for a feature-length treat! Today’s episode is a feature-length special featuring some of the best quotes and moments across all 18 episodes of Adulting with Ebonie Season 3.
    It’s been an amazing season chock full of ‘Ah Hahs’, raw moments and absolutely fantastic guests. What have been your most memorable moments from this season? Let us know on the socials!
    Listen on for:
    Waking Up with Ebonie Allard [Starts at 02:30]
    Fathering with Alain Allard [Starts at 04:14]
    Being Unbound with Nicola Humber [Starts at 06:23]
    Empathic Misfits with Lola Pickett [Starts at 09:24]
    Unboxing Your Brilliance with Jo Gifford [Starts at 12:50]
    Breaking Up With Social Media with Johan Versteegh [Starts at 16:36]
    Community and Confidence with Sensi Graves [Starts at 20:00]
    Wildmen and Wildwomen with Craig Barlow [Starts at 24:00]
    Not Getting Stuck in the Shadow with Harriette Jackson [Starts at 26:22]
    Mothering the F**k Up with Sophie (I Feel Wild) [Starts at 28:24]
    Being Self Sourced with Gail Love-schock [Starts at 30:48]
    The Complexity of Duality with Anthony Eldridge [Starts at 32:49]
    Mbraining and Celebrating Difference with Reb Veale [Starts at 34:41]
    Creating Opportunity for Yourself with Carla Viegas [Starts at 36:14]
    Living A Life That Matters with Jason Allan Scott [Starts at 38:26]
    Finding Freedom Through Choice with Gail Bainbridge [Starts at 39:42]
    Using Mysticism To Get Your S**t Together with Luna Veronica [Starts at 41:14]
    Trusting What You Feel with Nicholle Caldwell [Starts at 43:30]
    Links and resources mentioned in this episode:
    https://www.misfitforlife.com/ (https://www.misfitforlife.com/)
    http://instagram.com/ebonieallard (@ebonieallard)
    http://instagram.com/misfit.forlife (@misfit.forlife)
    Additional goodies:
    https://www.misfitforlife.com/the-chamber (The Chamber) - THE CHAMBER is the secret to unlocking a life where you get to make more money, have more sex, and live forever (well, leave a lasting legacy that lives forever.)
    https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC7VOtM7hH5mW6cR1LBWmS6w (Subscribe to Misfit For Life TV) - join our YouTube community for weekly uploads, thoughts on adulting, and tips on living a value-filtered life! This is where we share all our best free content, so join us today!

    • 47 min
    The One About Trusting What You Feel

    The One About Trusting What You Feel

    In this episode you will hear all about what it takes to be a HEART CENTERED WOMAN and ENTREPRENEUR. Nicholle supports other women to become the leaders and entrepreneurs that they were born to be.
    Through her work she passionately helps others develop their intuition and rediscover their magic. If you want inner peace, confidence, freedom, and a stronger connection to spirit, Nicholle will guide you on how you can create these elements in your life.
    Listen on for:Spirituality, mindset, and being practical
    Intuitive Energy Healing.
    The relationships that we form with our Mentors and Coaches.
    How to be a successful entrepreneur.
    Investing in yourself.
    Learning from your mistakes and repeated patterns.
    Changing your life and the circumstances of past generations.
    Understanding our strongest abilities and developing them in order for us to succeed.
    Links and resources mentioned in this episode:
    https://www.instagram.com/nichollecaldwell888/ (https://www.instagram.com/nichollecaldwell888/)
    https://linktr.ee/NicholleCaldwell (https://linktr.ee/NicholleCaldwell)


    Additional goodies:
    https://www.misfitforlife.com/the-chamber (The Chamber) - THE CHAMBER is the secret to unlocking a life where you get to make more money, have more sex, and live forever (well, leave a lasting legacy that lives forever.)
    Subscribe to Misfit For Life TV - join our YouTube community for weekly uploads, thoughts on adulting, and tips on living a value-filtered life! This is where we share all our best free content, so join us today!

    • 26 min
    The One About Using Mysticsm to Get Your Sh*t Together

    The One About Using Mysticsm to Get Your Sh*t Together

    In this episode you will hear all about what it takes to RECLAIM YOUR CONFIDENCE and live your full potential. It is Luna's divine mission and life purpose to assist us in uncovering the secrets and mystery of our lives here on earth.
    Luna explains how she investigates your souls higher guidance through astrology, tarot, dream work and intuition to help you actively fulfil the life you're meant for.
    Listen on for:The language of Astrology.
    How Astrology can guide you on your journey in life.
    Being repressed by those around you.
    Feeling confused about who you are.
    Following the path that you were destined for.
    Identifying old wounds, current strengths and blockages.
    Living an alternative life.
    How to live a mystical lifestyle and learn witchcraft practices.

    About LunaLuna is a witchy women's empowerment coach for those who are curious about the unseen, the taboo and their own greatest potential.
    She uses astrology, tarot, ritual and shadow work to help those on the mystical path a space to create a greater remembrance of themselves and their purpose here on earth.
    Links and resources mentioned in this episode:https://www.instagram.com/luna.veronica.mystic/ (@luna.veronica.mystic)
    http://www.lunaveronica.com (www.lunaveronica.com)

    Additional goodies:https://www.misfitforlife.com/the-chamber (The Chamber) - THE CHAMBER is the secret to unlocking a life where you get to make more money, have more sex, and live forever (well, leave a lasting legacy that lives forever.)
    https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC7VOtM7hH5mW6cR1LBWmS6w (Subscribe to Misfit For Life TV) - join our YouTube community for weekly uploads, thoughts on adulting, and tips on living a value-filtered life! This is where we share all our best free content, so join us today!

    • 21 min
    The One About Finding Freedom Through Choice

    The One About Finding Freedom Through Choice

    In this episode you will hear all about what it takes to live a CREATED and FREE LIFE. If you feel there are too many things holding you back, and you can’t find the path to lead you to the life that you crave, then this is the podcast episode for you.
    Gail talks passionately about how you can find more freedom, and how to take the bold steps to create a life that you love. Her advice, tips and her own personal experiences will truly inspire you to boldly create the life you really want.
    Listen on for:Understanding your needs.
    Taking the steps to live a life that you love.
    Freedom in your everyday life.
    Choosing to do things for you.
    Allowing yourself space to understand who you are.
    Not comparing yourself to everyone else.
    Challenging yourself.
    Thinking outside the box, daring to be different.

    About GailOnce a successful Chartered Accountant, Gail sold it all to live in a Motorhome! Setting off in search of freedom and belonging she travelled the length and breadth of the UK for 18 months before settling on the coast of Pembrokeshire.
    Having developed a love of sea swimming she helps run The Bluetits Chill Swimmers as well as helping others have the courage to find their freedom.
    Links and resources mentioned in this episode:https://www.instagram.com/gail_bainbridge/ (@gail_bainbridge)
    http://www.gailbainbridge.co.uk (www.gailbainbridge.co.uk)
    http://www.facebook.com/gail.a.bainbridge (www.facebook.com/gail.a.bainbridge)

    Additional goodies:https://www.misfitforlife.com/the-chamber (The Chamber) - THE CHAMBER is the secret to unlocking a life where you get to make more money, have more sex, and live forever (well, leave a lasting legacy that lives forever.)
    https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC7VOtM7hH5mW6cR1LBWmS6w (Subscribe to Misfit For Life TV) - join our YouTube community for weekly uploads, thoughts on adulting, and tips on living a value-filtered life! This is where we share all our best free content, so join us today!

    • 33 min
    The One About Living a Life That Matters

    The One About Living a Life That Matters

    In this episode you will hear all about what it takes to be a SERIAL ENTREPRENEUR. Despite overcoming many personal challenges including nearly dying from a gunshot wound as a child, Jason has achieved so much in his life.
    In his charming and captivating manner, Jason details his life journey as he tells of the ordeals and struggles as a child, and the life lessons he learnt from his role models, that have all led him to be the successful and happy person that he is today.
    Listen on for:Feminine energy and how it can benefit us as adults.
    Living a life that matters
    Who our role models are and the valuable lessons they taught us.
    Understanding the way that we see the world, and where we allow our vision to take us.
    Turning bad experiences into your fuel to succeed.
    Making friends with fear so that you are no longer being afraid of it.
    Changing your mindset to allow yourself to achieve all that you are capable of.
    Being kinder to yourself.

    About JasonJason Allan Scott is a successful Serial Entrepreneur, Professional Keynote Speaker, Best Selling Author, Award-winning Event professional, Mentor, Podcaster and a part of Tim Ferris's NR set who travels the world educating and empowering people. Jason shows ordinary people how they too can build a solid living, with passion and purpose, on their own terms.
    Links and resources mentioned in this episode:http://www.jasonallanscott.uk (www.jasonallanscott.uk)
    https://www.instagram.com/jasonallanscott/ (https://www.instagram.com/jasonallanscott/)
    jason@jsjvs.com

    Additional goodies:https://www.misfitforlife.com/the-chamber (The Chamber) - THE CHAMBER is the secret to unlocking a life where you get to make more money, have more sex, and live forever (well, leave a lasting legacy that lives forever.)
    https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC7VOtM7hH5mW6cR1LBWmS6w (Subscribe to Misfit For Life TV) - join our YouTube community for weekly uploads, thoughts on adulting, and tips on living a value-filtered life! This is where we share all our best free content, so join us today!

    • 29 min
    The One About Creating Opportunity for Yourself

    The One About Creating Opportunity for Yourself

    In this episode, you will hear all about what it takes to be a real ALL ROUNDER, multilingual and multicultural human, with a real passion and drive to succeed. Carla is a creative yet practical “doer”, dynamic and out-of-the-box thinker.
    She is driven, but warm-hearted, with a passion for solving problems and making ideas into reality. In this very open and telling conversation, we hear how one child with big dreams turned those dreams into reality and more.
    Listen on for:Dealing with adult responsibilities from an early age.
    How we view our younger self.
    Parenting, and how our own own parents managed.
    Drive, ambition, and succeeding no matter what obstacles are in your way.
    Illness and fatigue brought on by not being in control of your self care.
    Seeing opportunities in daily life, and turning them into a successful business.
    Reclaiming lost childhood/teen years.
    Allowing the carefree child in us to still surface and have fun.

    About CarlaCarla Viegas is Founder and CEO of nimbld, a new startup disrupting the office and coworking industry, think airbnb for hotdesks. Carla has a wide ranging background, spanning many sectors and countries, and describes herself as a "warm-hearted ENTJ" with a passion for solving problems and bringing ideas into reality.
    Links and resources mentioned in this episode:http://www.nimbld.com (www.nimbld.com)
    https://www.instagram.com/getnimbld/ (https://www.instagram.com/getnimbld/)
    https://www.instagram.com/carlasviegas/ (https://www.instagram.com/carlasviegas/)
    https://www.linkedin.com/company/nimbld (https://www.linkedin.com/company/nimbld)
    https://www.twitter.com/getnimbld (https://www.twitter.com/getnimbld)
    https://www.twitter.com/carlanimbld (https://www.twitter.com/carlanimbld)

    Additional goodies:https://www.misfitforlife.com/the-chamber (The Chamber) - THE CHAMBER is the secret to unlocking a life where you get to make more money, have more sex, and live forever (well, leave a lasting legacy that lives forever.)
    https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC7VOtM7hH5mW6cR1LBWmS6w (Subscribe to Misfit For Life TV) - join our YouTube community for weekly uploads, thoughts on adulting, and tips on living a value-filtered life! This is where we share all our best free content, so join us today!

    • 31 min

Customer Reviews

4.9 out of 5
43 Ratings

43 Ratings

Mary_Baldwin ,

Beautiful deep dive on what it means to be human

I was introduced to this podcast this week and have already inhaled 10 episodes... Connection, boundaries, beliefs, living audaciously.... Listening makes me think, empowers me and encourages me to live the life I want.

Garden B x ,

I am normal after all!

It’s awesome to hear that other people struggle with a morning routine, compare themselfs to others, give themselves a hard time for taking time out & have fear and worry BUT there are so many ways we can self sooth, learn to trust ourselves, give ourself a break, get joy from others successes, run our own guilt free schedule, give ourselves permission to have as much fun as possible and so much more. Thank you for your work and introducing me to all these wonderful humans. Now to start my journey to kinder & more compassionate adulting xxxx

Soma 2019 ,

Not for the faint hearted

I honestly feel this podcast is like a massive chocolate cake that peps me up every time listen to it. Especially because it highlights areas I need to get going on.

It's one that stands out for me because of Ebonie. I love the realness of the conversations its raw and I feel she gets her guests to open up in a way that many podcast hosts just can't. I also feel you can tell that this is a podcast about helping you get going and not staying stuck.

Top Podcasts In Self Help

Listeners Also Subscribed To