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How to Be a Girl is an audio podcast I produce about life with my six-year-old transgender daughter. It stars the two of us -- a single mom and a six-year-old "girl with a penis" -- as we attempt together to sort out just what it means to be a girl.

How to Be a Girl Marlo Mack

    • Kids & Family
    • 4.8 • 114 Ratings

How to Be a Girl is an audio podcast I produce about life with my six-year-old transgender daughter. It stars the two of us -- a single mom and a six-year-old "girl with a penis" -- as we attempt together to sort out just what it means to be a girl.

    Episode XXXIII: How We Are Now

    Episode XXXIII: How We Are Now

    It's been over two years. I wanted to let you know how we are doing.
    Thank you for your patience.
    (Spoiler: My daughter is still amazing.)





























































































































    MUSIC CREDITS:
    Tides (instrumental) by Benjamin Mullins (Courtesy of Audiosocket)
    Lost in the Dark (instrumental) by Forest Sun (Courtesy of Audiosocket)

    The Medical Stuff

    The Medical Stuff

    For years, people have asked me what I would do when my daughter hit puberty. Was I going to let her do... the "medical stuff?" Well, right after the pandemic struck, so did puberty. And this is what my daughter (and her mother) decided to do.

    • 42 min
    Episode XXXI: M is for Middle School, Take Two

    Episode XXXI: M is for Middle School, Take Two

    This episode is different from any of our previous episodes. It’s also a do-over, because the first version of this episode overlooked the fact that my daughter is growing up, fast. She’s almost a teenager, and we both agree that it’s time she took charge. So that’s what she did. (Here’s a little more about how this episode came to be.)























































































































    Listen to the book! How to Be a Girl on Audible Originals
    Find us on Twitter: @girlpodcast
    Support HTBAG on Patreon
    MUSIC CREDITS:
    “Edge of the World” (Instrumental) by Dot Dot Dot (Courtesy of Audiosocket)
    Filesharer's Lament by Podington Bear

    Episode XXX: Emma at last

    Episode XXX: Emma at last

    I want you to meet my good friend, Emma. When she was a little girl, she was just like my daughter. But no one knew her for 60 years. I'm so glad she's here now.

    Episode XXIX: Eleven

    Episode XXIX: Eleven

    I sit down for a talk with my (almost) 11-year-old: Cliques, gossip, fashion, puberty, and how it feels to be a transgender tween.
    MUSIC CREDIT: “Little Girl” by Jetty Rae (Courtesy of Audiosocket)

    Episode XXVIII: The Tell

    Episode XXVIII: The Tell

    A new friend at school. A poker lesson. A 10-year-old hatches a plan.
    MUSIC CREDITS:
    “Ganef” by Vagabond Opera and “Moonlight Love Affair” by Steve Rice (Courtesy of Audiosocket)
    “Chill Wave” by Kevin MacLeod
    “The Reckoning” by Podington Bear
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Customer Reviews

4.8 out of 5
114 Ratings

114 Ratings

Before beth ,

Lots of good people

DO NOT MAKE THIS POINT MAN said the sister but the mother says make me feel better about myself because she knows how much you mean the whole situation has changed since she left LOVE xxxxx only you know that she has the same problem and I am so glad you have a good life ☺️🥹🥰🥺xxxxx❤️💕😚❤️‍🔥🥹😔

🌸StitchandLilolover🌸 ,

SMASHING IT💯

Really help me understand how the daily struggles of a transgender person can go through many times. love seeing a mother daughter bond, I have a transgender freind and I respect them to my fullest, They are a lot And if like to learn as much as I can!! I think it’s fascinating how children can realise their potential and how they need to be themself to feel good and not get setback pushed back and left out feeling good your daughters going strong, so happy no kids are teasing her, as they are doing what’s right respecting how ones life works and how they feel, really really recommend this podcast absolutely loving it at the minute right now!! During life some people are going to be total buzzkills and try put you and your daughter down, By trying to tease you, bad mouth you, and disrespect you and your child’s boundaries and respect they are not of your worth. Stay strong absolutely smashing this podcast💯👌

tataxyxx ,

Grateful for finding this

After a long search, finally a podcast I can relate to as a mother of a child going through similar struggles. Great to know we are not alone

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