136 episodes

Lalalaletmeexplain is here to answer all YOUR questions around love, dating, sex, and relationships. Her unfiltered advice is not only candid and insightful, but she delivers you tough love when needed. Having swam the depths of the dating pool herself, Lala’s advice comes from a place of experience and expertise.

On Mondays Lala will be addressing a hot topic of the week, whether it’s a discussion around female misogyny blowing up your timeline or the arguments around Sex Education in schools that’s splashed across the headlines. Wednesdays she’s tackling your issues and conundrums around love, sex and relationships and on Fridays Lala will be diving into your dating dilemmas, red flag alerts, instant ick reactions and sharing her weekend reminders. And twice a month she’ll be joined by a guest to deliberate your questions.

Lala is the author of the best-selling dating guide Block, Delete, Move On, OK Mag’s resident agony aunt, a sexual health and relationship educator and she’s a social worker with over a decade of experience in child safeguarding and child protection. It's Not You, It's Them...But it Might Be You is the trustworthy, down to earth advice that you've been waiting for!

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To get in touch please DM Lala in instagram @asklalalaletmeexplain.

And if you would like to read more from Lala follow the link for her weekly OK Mag column. https://www.ok.co.uk/authors/Lalalaletmeexplain/

It's Not You, It's Them...But It Might Be You with LalalaLetMeExplain Sony Music Entertainment

    • Society & Culture
    • 4.9 • 307 Ratings

Lalalaletmeexplain is here to answer all YOUR questions around love, dating, sex, and relationships. Her unfiltered advice is not only candid and insightful, but she delivers you tough love when needed. Having swam the depths of the dating pool herself, Lala’s advice comes from a place of experience and expertise.

On Mondays Lala will be addressing a hot topic of the week, whether it’s a discussion around female misogyny blowing up your timeline or the arguments around Sex Education in schools that’s splashed across the headlines. Wednesdays she’s tackling your issues and conundrums around love, sex and relationships and on Fridays Lala will be diving into your dating dilemmas, red flag alerts, instant ick reactions and sharing her weekend reminders. And twice a month she’ll be joined by a guest to deliberate your questions.

Lala is the author of the best-selling dating guide Block, Delete, Move On, OK Mag’s resident agony aunt, a sexual health and relationship educator and she’s a social worker with over a decade of experience in child safeguarding and child protection. It's Not You, It's Them...But it Might Be You is the trustworthy, down to earth advice that you've been waiting for!

A Sony Music Entertainment production.

Find more great podcasts from Sony Music Entertainment at sonymusic.com/podcasts and follow us at @sonypodcasts

To bring your brand to life in this podcast, email podcastadsales@sonymusic.com

To get in touch please DM Lala in instagram @asklalalaletmeexplain.

And if you would like to read more from Lala follow the link for her weekly OK Mag column. https://www.ok.co.uk/authors/Lalalaletmeexplain/

    Ask A Bloke Part 2

    Ask A Bloke Part 2

    Lala puts more of your 'Ask a Bloke' questions to Kae Kurd and Marcus Bronzy from the Haven't Got a Clue podcast. You asked, do guys show thier friends nudes you've sent them? Where are the single, emotionally available men hanging out these days? And do you care what a vulva looks like? And listen, it doesn't matter what the opposite sex thinks, but sometimes it's nice to know. 



    If you'd like to ask Lala a question, get in touch @asklalalaletmeexplain on Instagram and let's navigate this romantic landscape together! 



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    • 21 min
    Ask a Bloke Part 1

    Ask a Bloke Part 1

    Lala chats to Kae Kurd and Marcus Bronzy, hosts of Ain't Got A Clue podcast. She gives them the 'bear or man' in a forest scenario and puts your 'ask a bloke' questions to them. From 'what is it about sex that makes men cheat and lie for it ?' to 'when your naked are you thinking about her body or yours?'.  

    Join us on Monday for part 2! 



    If you'd like to ask Lala a question, get in touch @asklalalaletmeexplain on Instagram and let's navigate this romantic landscape together! 



    A Sony Music Entertainment production 



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    To bring your brand to life in this podcast, email podcastadsales@sonymusic.com 



    And if you would like to read more from Lala follow the link for her weekly OK Mag column https://www.ok.co.uk/authors/Lalalaletmeexplain/ 


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    • 25 min
    Rate My D**k!

    Rate My D**k!

    Turning 30 and suddenly being seen as wife material, your partner paying for someone to rate his d**k on Only Fans. Plus, dumped by your boyfriend ,via text, after unprotected sex, when trying for a baby AND given no explanation! Wow! Lala tries to make sense of your latest sex and relationship dilemmas. 



    If you'd like to ask Lala a question, get in touch @asklalalaletmeexplain on Instagram and let's navigate this romantic landscape together! 



    A Sony Music Entertainment production 



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    And if you would like to read more from Lala follow the link for her weekly OK Mag column https://www.ok.co.uk/authors/Lalalaletmeexplain/ 


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    • 20 min
    Danny Dyer's Toxic Masculinity Documentary

    Danny Dyer's Toxic Masculinity Documentary

    After Danny Dyer's documentary 'Where Toxic Masculinity Comes From', Lala received masses of dm's from you wanting to know her opinion on it. So here it is. Lala breaks down the documentary, she discusses why it was important that it was made but also where it totally missed out on challenging problematic issues and opinions. Unlike Danny's conclusion that there is a war on men and that everyone sees masculinity as a bad thing, Lala observes that toxic masculinity is alive and kicking and a result of not understanding or addressing what it actually is to be a man. 



    If you'd like to ask Lala a question, get in touch @asklalalaletmeexplain on Instagram and let's navigate this romantic landscape together! 



    A Sony Music Entertainment production 



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    And if you would like to read more from Lala follow the link for her weekly OK Mag column https://www.ok.co.uk/authors/Lalalaletmeexplain/ 


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    • 26 min
    Sleeping With Two Brothers

    Sleeping With Two Brothers

    It's Friday and that means it's time to get all your secrets and sins off your chest. From sleeping with two brothers at the same time to sleeping with someone you just don't fancy. Lala gets into all your latest confessions. Plus, he loves a strip club and he wants to reconnect with a female friend - is it a red flag? And head into your weekend right with your Friday night reminder. 



    If you'd like to ask Lala a question, get in touch @asklalalaletmeexplain on Instagram and let's navigate this romantic landscape together! 



    A Sony Music Entertainment production 



    Find more great podcasts from Sony Music Entertainment at sonymusic.com/podcasts and follow us at @sonypodcasts 



    To bring your brand to life in this podcast, email podcastadsales@sonymusic.com 



    And if you would like to read more from Lala follow the link for her weekly OK Mag column https://www.ok.co.uk/authors/Lalalaletmeexplain/ 


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    • 23 min
    Frightened of Forty

    Frightened of Forty

    Lala has got all your sex, relationship, dating and life dilemmas and she's ready to answer them. From anxiety about letting go and trusting in a new relationship to feeling insecure about his erectile dysfunction and worrying about being a failure when turning 40. This agony aunt tells it to you straight. 



    If you'd like to ask Lala a question get in touch @asklalalaletmeexplain on Instagram and let's navigate this romantic landscape together! 



    A Sony Music Entertainment production 



    Find more great podcasts from Sony Music Entertainment at sonymusic.com/podcasts and follow us at @sonypodcasts 



    To bring your brand to life in this podcast, email podcastadsales@sonymusic.com 



    And if you would like to read more from Lala follow the link for her weekly OK Mag column https://www.ok.co.uk/authors/Lalalaletmeexplain/
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    • 19 min

Customer Reviews

4.9 out of 5
307 Ratings

307 Ratings

wdgyv ,

Interesting, informative and entertaining.

I love Lala and the work she does. The podcast is great, huge range of subjects.

Plant mama 76 ,

Obsessed

It’s the only Podcast that I can listen to and be engrossed and actually wait for the next episode to come out. I’ve recommended to others who also love it. Absolutely amazing.

Nicki_f88 ,

THE best

So glad I came across this podcast. It’s my absolute favourite!! Every needs to listen! So informative, so funny, so current and so real! There’s so much to take from it and Lala is amazing! Please don’t ever stop! Literally THE best!

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