38 episodes

Hi! We’re Lacey & Flynn and we f**cking love having sex together. But it wasn’t always this way. A few years ago, we were barely having sex at all. Lacey didn’t want to anymore and Flynn wasn’t happy about it. Instead of breaking up though, we decided to dig into exactly what was going on.

How was it possible we’d gone from loads of sex in that honeymoon phase to completely cold between the sheets? We began a mission to explore all the reasons sex dries up in longterm relationships and that’s what we’re bringing you in this show.

From resistance to rejection, non-existent sex drives to constant arguments, we’re going to give you the ins and outs of why your sex life isn’t working then show you what to do about it.

After years of healing our own relationship by committing to our sex lives like it was our business, we made helping other people with their sex lives our actual business. Since then, we’ve taught thousands of singles and couples around the world via our online course Sex Elevated, how to talk about sex, how to ask for what they want, how to heal their baggage and ultimately, have epic, soulful and satisfying sex lives.

On this Podcast, we’ll be teaching you (and showing you!) everything we’ve learned through our private lives, our studies and our experience helping thousands of people in the same boat. Sometimes we’ll even have sex and break it down for you so you can actually see (well, hear) the work in action. We’ll also invite special guests into the conversation and even answer your personal questions live on the show to help you transform your relationship and sex life.

Hilarious, emotional, spiritual and 100% real, we’re leaving no stone unturned as we share the intimate workings of our sex life with you. This might make you uncomfortable. It might make you excited. If you tune in and really dig deep, this podcast will totally change not only your sex life, but how you relate to pleasure, healing, and who you are as a person.

Whether you’re in a rut, an epic relationship, looking to spice things up, or wanting to develop a more soulful intimate life, we’re going to show you what it looks like to actually do the work to make your relationship and sex life amazing. Tune in then find all the juicy details from each episode at laceyandflynn.com/podcast

Lacey & Flynn Have Sex Lacey Haynes & Flynn Talbot

    • Health & Fitness
    • 4.9 • 49 Ratings

Hi! We’re Lacey & Flynn and we f**cking love having sex together. But it wasn’t always this way. A few years ago, we were barely having sex at all. Lacey didn’t want to anymore and Flynn wasn’t happy about it. Instead of breaking up though, we decided to dig into exactly what was going on.

How was it possible we’d gone from loads of sex in that honeymoon phase to completely cold between the sheets? We began a mission to explore all the reasons sex dries up in longterm relationships and that’s what we’re bringing you in this show.

From resistance to rejection, non-existent sex drives to constant arguments, we’re going to give you the ins and outs of why your sex life isn’t working then show you what to do about it.

After years of healing our own relationship by committing to our sex lives like it was our business, we made helping other people with their sex lives our actual business. Since then, we’ve taught thousands of singles and couples around the world via our online course Sex Elevated, how to talk about sex, how to ask for what they want, how to heal their baggage and ultimately, have epic, soulful and satisfying sex lives.

On this Podcast, we’ll be teaching you (and showing you!) everything we’ve learned through our private lives, our studies and our experience helping thousands of people in the same boat. Sometimes we’ll even have sex and break it down for you so you can actually see (well, hear) the work in action. We’ll also invite special guests into the conversation and even answer your personal questions live on the show to help you transform your relationship and sex life.

Hilarious, emotional, spiritual and 100% real, we’re leaving no stone unturned as we share the intimate workings of our sex life with you. This might make you uncomfortable. It might make you excited. If you tune in and really dig deep, this podcast will totally change not only your sex life, but how you relate to pleasure, healing, and who you are as a person.

Whether you’re in a rut, an epic relationship, looking to spice things up, or wanting to develop a more soulful intimate life, we’re going to show you what it looks like to actually do the work to make your relationship and sex life amazing. Tune in then find all the juicy details from each episode at laceyandflynn.com/podcast

    Flynn's "premature" ejaculation situation

    Flynn's "premature" ejaculation situation

    Premature. Ejaculation. You’ve heard it. Maybe you’ve experienced it. You may have even ended a relationship because of it. But we’re here to flip the script on this stigma. Is it really ‘premature’ ejaculation or is it simply cumming earlier than expected?
    There are tons and tons of stories, expectations, and stigmas we bring into our daily lives and especially into sex. So, in this sex ‘sode, we’re exploring how these show up in our lives (such as Lacey’s experience of the kids moving into their own room or her journey to acceptance of her differently sized breasts), what we do to reconnect with our true selves and the present moment, and you’ll get to experience Flynn’s fast track orgasm during our fully present and fulfilling sex session as we discuss why there’s even shame around men cumming quickly. 
    If you’re ready to break down the fucking walls of stereotypes, tune in and get ready to let the truth of who you are outweigh the facade of expectations, stories, and stigmas.
    P.S. We were recently featured in The Guardian and you should check out our article! To all our new followers, welcome and be sure to subscribe and follow the show where you love to listen to podcasts.
    Get all the juicy episode notes at laceyandflynn.com/podcast/37-premature 
    If you’re ready for some hot tips on how to truly connect with your partner, then grab a seat at our FREE class: 5 Steps to Connected Sex where you’ll dig deeper into some of our best teachings like sex beyond the mood and pleasure over orgasm. Join us today at laceyandflynn.com/freeclass!
    Ready to work with us to elevate your relationship? Email us at hi@laceyandflynn.com or head to laceyandflynn.com/coaching to get started.
    Learn more about Sex Elevated, our online course to amplify your intimacy, supercharge your sex, and slingshot you into a new dimension of pleasure, connection, and love in your relationship.
    Chat with us on Instagram. Send us a DM and tell us your experience in sex and listening to the episode.

    • 1 hr 21 min
    11 reasons why they don't want to have sex with you

    11 reasons why they don't want to have sex with you

    Has your partner constantly been rejecting you? Have you just not been “in the mood” lately? Or do you believe you’re just not interested in sex? Well, this is the episode for you.
    Listen, we have been there before. After more than 10 years together plus coaching students and clients, we’ve compiled 11 reasons why you or your partner just… don’t want to have sex. And we want you to know, you’re not alone.
    In this episode, we’re walking you through each reason and giving you tips on what to do to really experience the kind of sex we’re talking about - the kind that will blow your whole fucking life wide open.
    Grab your headset, tune in, and get ready to kick each of these reasons right to the curb. 
    Get all the juicy episode notes at laceyandflynn.com/podcast/36-11reasons 
    If you’re ready for some hot tips on how to truly connect with your partner, then grab a seat at our FREE class: 5 Steps to Connected Sex where you’ll dig deeper into some of our best teachings like sex beyond the mood and pleasure over orgasm. Join us today at laceyandflynn.com/freeclass!
    Ready to work with us to elevate your relationship? Email us at hi@laceyandflynn.com or head to laceyandflynn.com/coaching to get started.
    Learn more about Sex Elevated, our online course to amplify your intimacy, supercharge your sex, and slingshot you into a new dimension of pleasure, connection, and love in your relationship.
    Interested in Flynn’s coaching program for men? Send him a personal message on Instagram (@flynntalbot) or at hi@laceyandflynn.com to learn more about The Elevated Man. 
    Chat with us on Instagram. Send us a DM and tell us your experience in sex and listening to the episode.

    • 1 hr 3 min
    2022: Age of the power couple

    2022: Age of the power couple

    What can happen when you move deeper into your relationship? What is waiting for you when you purposefully choose to work with your partner?
    Welcome to 2022: the year, the era, the age of the power couple. We’re ready to support you in stepping beyond the common view of relationships and into electrified unions that are deeply connected on a soul level.
    In this episode, we explore the common misconceptions around relationships as the “ball and chain” and something you “have to do” in the cycle of life and completely flip it. In actuality, relationships can be exciting, exhilarating, sexy, and alive! They can radicalize you, pull you up, and liberate you throughout your entire lives. This is what we know your relationship can do and we want to show you how.
    Grab your headset, tune in, and get ready to choose your path: to continue simply moving through life or to stand out and align powerfully with your partner creating change in yourself, your space, your relationships, and everything around you.
    Get all the juicy episode notes at laceyandflynn.com/podcast/35-2022 
    If you’re ready for some hot tips on how to truly connect with your partner, then grab a seat at our FREE class: 5 Steps to Connected Sex where you’ll dig deeper into some of our best teachings like sex beyond the mood and pleasure over orgasm. Join us today at laceyandflynn.com/freeclass!
    Learn more about Sex Elevated, our online course to amplify your intimacy, supercharge your sex, and slingshot you into a new dimension of pleasure, connection, and love in your relationship.
    Ready to work with us to elevate your relationship? Email us at hi@laceyandflynn.com or head to laceyandflynn.com/coaching to get started.
    Chat with us on Instagram. Send us a DM and tell us your experience in sex and listening to the episode.

    • 58 min
    Sex Guinea Pig [Listener Favourites]

    Sex Guinea Pig [Listener Favourites]

    With the holidays fast upon us, we’re rewinding and giving you one of our listener favourites to revisit: Sex Guinea Pig. 
    This episode received a ton of love and responses from you, our listeners. It’s a raw and genuine expression of vulnerability, emotion, and realness which also led to us being nominated for the Skylark Collective’s International Women’s Podcast Awards in Raw Emotion. 
    We hope that this episode helps to illuminate your own emotional experiences and where you feel vulnerable or blocked in your life. 
    Grab your headset, tune in, and get ready to revisit one of our most vulnerable episodes.
    Get all the juicy episode notes at laceyandflynn.com/podcast/34-sexguineapig 
    If you’re ready for some hot tips on how to truly connect with your partner, then grab a seat at our FREE class: 5 Steps to Connected Sex where you’ll dig deeper into some of our best teachings like sex beyond the mood and pleasure over orgasm. Join us today at laceyandflynn.com/freeclass!
    Learn more about Sex Elevated, our online course to amplify your intimacy, supercharge your sex, and slingshot you into a new dimension of pleasure, connection, and love in your relationship.
    Chat with us on Instagram. Send us a DM and tell us your experience in sex and listening to the episode.
    Want your questions answered on the show? Submit them here.

    • 56 min
    Why we have sex on a podcast

    Why we have sex on a podcast

    When this year started, we had no idea we would find ourselves having sex on a chart-topping podcast for the world to hear. Yet, here we are, 7+ months in continuing to spread our work of progressive sex education. 
    In this episode, we’re sharing the story behind our journey of creating this podcast, how we chose to have sex for all of you to hear, and some of our biggest fears stepping into this concept. 
    Grab your headset, tune in, and get ready to hear our story through censorship and creating a podcast about sex that’s both innovative and far from pornographic. 
    Get all the juicy episode notes at laceyandflynn.com/podcast/33-sexonapodcast
    Explore our podcasting journey even deeper by listening to episode 01. We just had sex and episode 28. The joy of simple sex. 
    If you’re ready for some hot tips on how to truly connect with your partner, then grab a seat at our FREE class: 5 Steps to Connected Sex where you’ll dig deeper into some of our best teachings like sex beyond the mood and pleasure over orgasm. Join us today at laceyandflynn.com/freeclass!
    Learn more about Sex Elevated, our online course to amplify your intimacy, supercharge your sex, and slingshot you into a new dimension of pleasure, connection, and love in your relationship.
    Chat with us on Instagram. Send us a DM and tell us your experience in sex and listening to the episode.
    Want your questions answered on the show? Submit them here.

    • 48 min
    Expectations, guilt, & holidays

    Expectations, guilt, & holidays

    It’s the holiday season! A time for fun, festivities, checking out, expectations, and blowups, if we’re being honest (which you know we are). This is a time where you may want to simply check out now that you have time away from work, but instead, it’s the best time to truly check in with yourself, your partner, and your relationship. 
    In this episode, we explore the realities of the holidays and the people we spend them with, how expectations lead to most holiday disappointments and blowups, and how to use this time of year to jumpstart your sexual energy. We’re even giving you a live role play example of responding vs reacting when Aunt Esmerelda makes snarky comments about your sex coaching career (you know, as an example). 
    Grab your headset, tune in, and get ready to intentionally choose your partner and turn into the love that you share this holiday season.
    Get all the juicy episode notes at laceyandflynn.com/podcast/32-holidays 
    PLUS: Tune in to episode 24. Communicating with clarity and truth for more tips on communicating in the full expression of yourself
    If you’re ready for some hot tips on how to truly connect with your partner, then grab a seat at our FREE class: 5 Steps to Connected Sex where you’ll dig deeper into some of our best teachings like sex beyond the mood and pleasure over orgasm. Join us today at laceyandflynn.com/freeclass!
    Learn more about Sex Elevated, our online course to amplify your intimacy, supercharge your sex, and slingshot you into a new dimension of pleasure, connection, and love in your relationship.
    Chat with us on Instagram. Send us a DM and tell us your experience in sex and listening to the episode.
    Want your questions answered on the show? Submit them here.

    • 58 min

Customer Reviews

4.9 out of 5
49 Ratings

49 Ratings

Emstkase ,

Honest open and refreshing

So many things resonated with me in this podcast. It made me aware of things I experience myself for the first time! Love their energy and authenticity. Can’t wait to listen to the rest!

lucylu072 ,

Listen to this

Lacey and Flynn’s totally *unique* podcast is so inspiring. Funny, sweet and very, very important.

Maudie Maude ,

Awesome!

A totally heartfelt, honest podcast. Funny and endearing, but with profound healing at its core. I can’t wait to hear more. Lacey and Flynn are offering so much. With warmest appreciation.

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