Looking for blessings in the right place Mindsprings Podcast with Alistair Appleton

Alistair remembers his mother saying 'People who ask don't get.' Yet, he says, in Tibetan traditions asking for blessings is an act of devotion. This discussion with students centres on the differences between western attitudes and religion where prayer and asking are supreme spiritual activities.
Can you ask for help or are you afraid of asking?