28 episodes

Boundaries | People Pleasing | Authenticity

I specialise in helping women just like you to understand and embrace who they are now, and to set boundaries to stop you being taken advantage of by the people making demands on your time and energy. I can help you learn to kindly say 'no' to what you no longer want to do (even if there is no 'good' reason for not doing it).

I can help you feel comfortable in your own skin, and confident when you say 'no' that you are honouring yourself, and not someone else's idea of what you should be doing.

It's time to let everyone know who you really are.

The Self Belief School Podcast Melanie Flower

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Boundaries | People Pleasing | Authenticity

I specialise in helping women just like you to understand and embrace who they are now, and to set boundaries to stop you being taken advantage of by the people making demands on your time and energy. I can help you learn to kindly say 'no' to what you no longer want to do (even if there is no 'good' reason for not doing it).

I can help you feel comfortable in your own skin, and confident when you say 'no' that you are honouring yourself, and not someone else's idea of what you should be doing.

It's time to let everyone know who you really are.

    Homeopathy for Self Belief

    Homeopathy for Self Belief

    In this episode I chat to Neela Prabhu from Homeopathic Harmony. We talk about how homeopathy (and Bach Flower Remedies) can be used to help improve assertiveness and confidence.
    I had wanted to do this podcast for a long time, because there are many ways we can improve our self belief, and homeopathy is one of them.
    Neela tells us about some of the clients she's helped and the amazing (and interesting) results they've had.
    She often hears her clients say that they feel 'like themselves again' after homeopathic treatment - their authenticity is being expressed. How cool is that?
    Neela's website is a treasure trove of information, and she's very active on Instagram - well worth a follow.
    We mentioned the homeopathic first aid kit that Neela offers, and you can have a look at that here.

    Links
    Transformative, 1:1 six month coaching
    Self Belief House, the free, private community on Telegram for my podcast listeners
    FREE course: 'How to Set Boundaries'
    I run monthly drop-in masterclasses to help you build your Self Belief

    • 34 min
    This will help you fill your cup

    This will help you fill your cup

    This is not an episode about self care, because frankly, that topic can be a bit yawn can't it.
    This IS an episode about realising what's essential for you to thrive. And how you might be neglecting some really important activities, because you feel they aren't productive, sensible or important.
    There might be a lot of conditioning to undo there.
    I invite you to be aware of what it is that is nourishing, important and essential for you to thrive as a giving, patient, generous human. And then do it.
    If you can't imagine putting yourself first, and the guilt of 'filling your own cup' is still too much, then maybe I can help. I take my 1:1 clients on a journey of setting boundaries, working out what they need in their lives and stepping out of people pleasing behaviours.
    If you think you could do with some of that, have a look at my 1:1 programme 'Liberate' and contact me to find out if you'd be a good fit for it.

    Links
    Self Belief House, the free, private community on Telegram for my podcast listeners
    FREE course: 'How to Set Boundaries'
    I run monthly drop-in masterclasses to help you build your Self Belief

    • 8 min
    Three paradoxes in the self development world

    Three paradoxes in the self development world

    There is some conflicting advice out there in the self development world. What are we meant to do when we are told:
    'rest is paramount and is not lazy' and also 'rest is procrastination'
    or what about
    'trust your intuition' and also 'if you feel afraid, push through your fear'
    and
    'you can't expect someone else to meet your needs' and also 'it's so important to ask for your needs to be met in your relationships'
    In this episode I give you my take on these three paradoxes.
    I'd love to know what you think; have a listen and let me know in Self Belief House.

    Links
    Self Belief House, the free, private community on Telegram for my podcast listeners
    FREE course: 'How to Say No to Your Friends'
    I run monthly drop-in masterclasses to help you build your Self Belief

    • 17 min
    How I deal with feeling unworthy

    How I deal with feeling unworthy

    Have you ever had the thought 'who am I to be doing xyz'?
    Or maybe you've been put off doing something, because in your mind you think those around you will be thinking 'who does she think she is'?
    You don't feel good enough to get out there and do what you want to do, or be who you want to be. You keep yourself small, because you think it's only other people that deserve the fun and success that you're hoping for. You don't feel worthy.
    In this episode I share a great way to deal with feeling unworthy.
    I'd love to know what you think; have a listen and let me know in Self Belief House.


    Links
    Self Belief House, the free, private community on Telegram for my podcast listeners
    FREE course: 'How to Say No to Your Friends'
    I run monthly drop-in masterclasses to help you build your Self Belief

    • 11 min
    When your life is a performance

    When your life is a performance

    A short episode today, and I cover a lot in it 👊🏼💥.
    I start off by talking about going on holiday with your parents, and finish talking about how your life can end up being a performance.
    Have a listen and let me know what you think in Self Belief House.


    Links
    Self Belief House, the free, private community on Telegram for my podcast listeners
    FREE course: 'How to Say No to Your Friends'
    I run monthly drop-in masterclasses to help you build your Self Belief

    • 7 min
    How to Forgive Yourself

    How to Forgive Yourself

    ✨Come on over to Self Belief House, a free, private community on Telegram for my podcast listeners.✨
    Been feeling bad about something you did or said?
    We have all been hurt, let down and disappointed by others, and sometimes, we hurt and disappoint others ourselves. It's hard and uncomfortable.
    But whatever the circumstances, you will be better off once you've let it go.
    In this episode I talk about some mindset shifts you can adopt to help you feel differently about what happened.

    Links
    Self Belief House, the free, private community on Telegram for my podcast listeners
    FREE course: 'How to Say No to Your Friends'
    I run monthly drop-in masterclasses to help you build your Self Belief

    • 20 min

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