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You found my T SPOT.

Formerly known as Sex with Topher. This ‘Apple Podcast Top 5’ charting podcast is all about judgement-free INTIMACY & unapologetic SEX talk from award-winning sex educator, writer, & adult toy expert, Topher Taylor.

This no-holes-barred (literally) podcast addresses sexuality for all adults of all genders and sexualities – and features special guests from all walks of life. Alongside dedicated sex education episodes.

Honest and relatable chats about confidence, relationships, and sexual health. For. Every. Body. Don't be shy.

Get involved: topher@tophertaylor.co.uk

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    • Health & Fitness
    • 4.9 • 49 Ratings

You found my T SPOT.

Formerly known as Sex with Topher. This ‘Apple Podcast Top 5’ charting podcast is all about judgement-free INTIMACY & unapologetic SEX talk from award-winning sex educator, writer, & adult toy expert, Topher Taylor.

This no-holes-barred (literally) podcast addresses sexuality for all adults of all genders and sexualities – and features special guests from all walks of life. Alongside dedicated sex education episodes.

Honest and relatable chats about confidence, relationships, and sexual health. For. Every. Body. Don't be shy.

Get involved: topher@tophertaylor.co.uk

    5: Psychosexual Psychotherapist, Silva Neves, interviews ME on Sex Positivity

    5: Psychosexual Psychotherapist, Silva Neves, interviews ME on Sex Positivity

    What the f*ck does 'Sex Positivity' even mean?!
    For this special 2022 episode of THE T SPOT, the microphone is turned on ME by Psychosexual & Relationship psychotherapist, Silva Neves. Silva interviews me on my definition of my sexuality and my idea of sex-positivity - something I am passionately vocal about. 
    We discuss enjoying giving blowjobs, fuck buddies, monogamy, and my relationships with men who don't publicly identify as queer, bisexual, or gay. We also talk about my fascination with intimacy, trust, and the importance of consent - alongside censorship in social media. And, as usual, I talk about how much I love men. 
    Please note: This interview was recorded months ago before I got into a relationship and moved into my own apartment. 
    Silva is the author of 'Compulsive Sexual Behaviours. A Psycho-Sexual Treatment Guide for Clinicians'. Which is available from RouteLedge.com.
    You can find out more about Silva here: www.silvaneves.co.uk

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    • 48 min
    4: Religion, Sexuality, and Queerness with Reverend Jarel Robinson-Brown

    4: Religion, Sexuality, and Queerness with Reverend Jarel Robinson-Brown

    Episode 4 is all about religion, sexuality, and queerness as I am joined by Reverend Jarel Robinson-Brown - my friend and openly queer priest in London. He is also the author of the incredibly written ‘Black, Gay, British, Christian, Queer’ which is available to purchase now.

    We discuss religion and queerness - and the complexities and confusion of their overlapping. The church has a long history persecuting the LGBTQ+ community - so how can one be both religious and queer? Is God love?

    Jarel was also the target of a right-wing social media pile-on during the COVID-19 which spilled into the mainstream media press. We discuss how he handled the intense pressure of this period.

    About Jarel: Jarel Robinson-Brown is a priest in the Church of England currently serving in the City of London. He is the Vice-Chair of the Christian LGBT Charity OneBodyOneFaith and the author of 'Black, Gay, British, Christian, Queer' published by SCM Press in July 2021.

    JarelRobinsonBrown.com

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    • 1 hr 12 min
    3: Blowjob Talk with Char: How to give great Oral Sex: Tips, Techniques, & Tales

    3: Blowjob Talk with Char: How to give great Oral Sex: Tips, Techniques, & Tales

    For episode 3 of The T SPOT, I am joined by my friend: sex educator and speaker, Char (@CharTheeGreat) at my flat to discuss giving oral sex to a penis with comfort, confidence — all ultimately leading to YOU (the giver) enjoying the experience. A blowjob doesn’t have to be a job. Enjoy it.

    This no holes-barred conversation with Char covers tricks, oral positioning, personal anecdotes… and more. Come and join us.

    Want to get involved? Don’t be shy. topher@tophertaylor.co.uk

    Music: Girls of The Internet - ‘I Don’t Wanna Lose You’

    Episode inspired by ‘Getting into Oral: For Beginners’ from TopherTaylor.co.uk

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    • 44 min
    2: Gay Porn, Sex, Success, Religion, and HIV Advocacy with John Thomas

    2: Gay Porn, Sex, Success, Religion, and HIV Advocacy with John Thomas

    For episode 2, I’m joined in my flat by hugely successful, multi-award-winning gay porn star, John Thomas. John's name blew up in the adult industry after winning ‘Best Newcomer' at the European Gay Porn awards in 2019 - and he has since gone on to win 2 more awards (even during COVID-19). We talk about John’s journey with queerness, his relationship with sex, pleasure, and religion. John also discusses his HIV diagnosis 10-years-ago, his advocacy work, and what he has learned from it. What can you learn about orgasmic sex from an iconic POWER BOTTOM? What’s better: porn studio work or OnlyFans? Tune in to find out.
    Follow John on social media: @JohnThomasXXX on Twitter and @JohnEast87on Insta.
    Want to get involved? Don’t be shy. topher@tophertaylor.co.uk
    Music: Girls of The Internet - ‘I Don’t Wanna Lose You’
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    • 1 hr 25 min
    1: Kink, Fetish & Sex Talk with Matt Spike • Plus Sex Q&A

    1: Kink, Fetish & Sex Talk with Matt Spike • Plus Sex Q&A

    Where have I been? Episode 1 of THE T SPOT begins with a catch-up, discussing my new life, relationship, home, and podcast. Then a very frank, fun, and extremely honest conversation with famous Fetish photographer and videographer, Matt Spike. Talking sex, fetish, leather, romance, being a young escort, and getting into sex as a queer boy from the outskirts of Essex. 

    Also ‘Ask Topher’ a frank and honest sex, relationships, and sexuality Q&A with me. 

    To see the full photoshoot with Matt Spike and me, head to tophertaylor.co.uk or alternatively, my Instagram @tophertaylor / Twitter @helloiamtopher 

    Want to get involved? Don’t be shy. topher@tophertaylor.co.uk 

    Music: Girls of The Internet - ‘I Don’t Wanna Lose You’ 

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    • 1 hr 20 min
    Episode 8: The XXXmas Gift Guide! Adult Toy brands & Sexperts recommend gifts for Xmas [Sex with Topher]

    Episode 8: The XXXmas Gift Guide! Adult Toy brands & Sexperts recommend gifts for Xmas [Sex with Topher]

    Have you been naughty or nice this year? Both?! This is the XXXMAS GIFT GUIDE episode! Are you looking for the perfect sex toy to carry you through 2021? Your winter time pleasure product? Not sure where to start? Working with a budget? I speak to 6 incredible adult toy brands and their experts about their companies, product recommendations, and what makes them special. From £20 through to £404.99. Something for most pockets (and other body parts - wink wink).

    This episode features Tracey Cox of LoveHoney, Anthony of Mr Hankeys Toys, Dr Jill McDevitt of California Exotic Novelties, Adam & Monika of Godmiche Silicone, Brad Taylor of SHOTS Media, and Kerri Middleton of Bathmate - the worlds best-selling penis pump.

    Links to the products discussed (in order):

    Tracey Cox:
    1. Clitoral Vibrator: https://bit.ly/2VyeGtB at £49.99
    2. Bullet Vibrator: https://bit.ly/3qBiusi at £44.99
    3. Wand Vibrator: https://bit.ly/3mGAqPH at £69.99
    4. G-Spot Vibrator: https://bit.ly/2JHM8ej at £59.99
    5. Pegging Kit: https://bit.ly/36ACUJY at £44.99
    6. Bondage & Toys Kit: https://bit.ly/2L1T0Ut at £39.99
    Tracey Cox’s book ‘Great sex starts at 50’ is available from all booksellers now.

    Hankeys Toys:
    1. XS Range: https://bit.ly/3okzoct (prices vary on size and texture/firmness)
    2. Clyde https://bit.ly/3g8Biu2 (prices vary on size and texture/firmness)
    3. Seahorse: https://bit.ly/3lBw7Un (prices vary on size and texture/firmness)
    Full range and custom options from MrHankeysToys.com

    California Exotic Novelties
    1. My Pod: https://bit.ly/3qtEeWG at $124.99
    2. Shameless: https://bit.ly/36Fg0Bf from $239.99 - $249.99
    3. Jack Rabbit Heated: https://bit.ly/3lDitjU at $134.99
    Find out more about Dr Jill McDevitt here: https://www.thesexologist.org/

    Godemiche
    1. Off-Beat: https://bit.ly/3mRyhkx from £20
    2. Ambit: https://bit.ly/2VC1p37 from £28.99
    3. Ball Gags: https://bit.ly/2Vz9l57 from £24.99
    Find out more about Godemiche here: www.g-silicone.com

    Shots Media
    1. The Twitch - https://www.saintsandsinners.com/product/twitch-hands-free-suction-vibrating-clitoral-stimulator/ - £59.99
    2. OUCH Vibrating Silicone Strap-On: https://www.saintsandsinners.com/product/ouch-adjustable-vibrating-double-silicone-strap-on/ - £46.99
    3. SONO Rattle Plug: https://www.saintsandsinners.com/product/sono-no-67-self-penetrating-butt-plug-black/ - £19.99
    Find out more about SHOTS here: www.shotsmedia.nl

    Bathmate
    1. ULTRAMALE Kit for Penis Owners: https://bit.ly/37ySNzJ from £409.99
    2. THE TRIM Manscaping Kit: https://bit.ly/2JOCeHG at £29.99
    Find out more at www.BathmateDirect.com

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    • 1 hr 30 min

Customer Reviews

4.9 out of 5
49 Ratings

49 Ratings

Awmiam ,

Blasting into the second series

Insights and interviews

After a delightful binge of the excellent first series, I write this now two episodes into series two.

It is a delight. Topher and guests are warm engaging people talking about stuff they love. There is detail and gossip, there is kindness and empathy. The interviewees are fascinating and Topher does an excellent job putting them at their ease and giving fantastic, comfortable, enjoyable interviews.

This is not a podcast to play at high speed, the interactions can be lightening quick and you may miss some of the wittiest remarks.

Leon_91 ,

Great shows! Thank you Topher Taylor!!

I love how open the episodes are with so much information, advice and support that is given through out. So in-depth and really helps me understand myself more and be comfortable with who I am. There’s so much fun and laughs along the way too!

Topher, I can listen to your podcast all day! Whoop!

Listener in London ,

Brilliantly Done

Great podcast and very well presented information !

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