The Weekly Hot Spot Cock Radio

This episode takes you inside the world of professional Female Domination. Mistress Mia Darque returns to The Weekly Hot Spot podcast with stories and insights from the largest gathering of Pro Domme’s in the US, DomCon LA.

What is a Femdom and who decides what is “appropriate” behavior for a Femdom? Did you know there’s actually some controversy around the answer to that question? Yep, there is. Wait until you hear the stories.

Mistress Mia brings up the differences in fan behavior of those going to an AVN show and a kink convention.  AVN is the American Adult Video industry trade show.

Like any convention, DomCon has breakout sessions. Many of these classes are for industry only, meaning they are geared to the business side of the business of being a Dominatrix. 

The ladies talk about some of these BDSM industry classes including:

How to balance self and service as a Pro Domme. Ms Olivia points out the paradox of being in charge as a Pro Domme but also being in service to the submissive client. How does that work and how do these Femdoms do this in their own professional and personal lives?

There’s a great conversation about collaring a submissive:
Does a Pro Domme collar submissive clients?
When does a Femdom put a collar on someone?
Have the collaring protocols changed over time?
What are some of the obligations for the Mistress who collars someone?

There are lots of stories, laughter and so much more.

DomCon LA:  May 29 - June 2nd, 2024DomCon New Orleans:  Oct. 10 - Oct. 13, 2024https://domcon.com/sessions/new

Mistress Mia Darque:  https://www.justsayred.com/

Mistress Olivia: https://www.experiencedmistress.com/

Mistress Erika:  https://intelligentphonefantasy.com/

Sissy affirmations.
Dressing advice for crossdressers.
Feminization encouragement.
These are some of the topics you’ll hear in the audios on our free feminization site, Get Girlie.

Goddess Rachel started posting the Sissy Minute on the site and this podcast episode is inspired by her and she's the guest!

All three ladies talk about feminization tips and tricks, AND we know it’s more than just how to do something.  It’s about us banding together to encourage you on your sissy journey.

Who do you turn to when you want to celebrate all things femme and girly?
Where can you ask feminization advice?
Where do you go to play when you can’t do a session with your Sissy Mistress?

Check out all the free audios on Get Girlie and look for The Sissy Minute by Goddess Rachel.

Mistress Olivia: https://www.experiencedmistress.com/

Mistress Erika: https://intelligentphonefantasy.com/

Goddess Rachel: https://www.sensual-domme.com/

Get Girlie:  https://getgirlie.com/

Have you been to a BDSM kink conference?
Do you want to go but are worried that you won’t know anyone?

We have a solution, be a volunteer! This episode is inspired by a conversation with Sissy Bruna who wants to be a service submissive to a Femdom Mistress.

There is one of the largest gatherings of Femdoms and Pro Dommes happening in LA at the end of May.

This episode is all about how to be a volunteer submissive at DomCon LA.
DomCon board member Mistress Mia Darque joins the ladies to answer questions about being a volunteer.

You don’t need to be submissive to volunteer (Ms Olivia is a regular volunteer for lots of groups), but this can be the perfect role for any service submissive.

As far as volunteering for DomCon, there are a bunch of specific questions and topics:
Who should consider being a volunteer at DomCon (or any BDSM convention)?
How are volunteers picked at DomCon?
What are some of the volunteer positions? And do volunteers need special skills?
What are the hours for a kink convention volunteer?
What does a volunteer wear? 
Advice on managing the expectations of the volunteer. 
What are some of the benefits of being a volunteer?
Does a volunteer get a discount or other perks?

In the conversation about volunteering for DomCon LA, the ladies talk about all sorts of other things. As always, you’ll hear a mix of behind-the-scenes information, useful advice for communicating with a Femdom and random things that catch the attention of these smart, sexy women.


DomCon LA is Wednesday May 29 - Sunday June 2nd
https://domcon.com/sessions/new

Mistress Mia Darque:  https://www.justsayred.com/

Mistress Olivia:  https://www.experiencedmistress.com/

Mistress Erika:   https://intelligentphonefantasy.com/

What are cock rings?
Okay, if you’re a fan of this podcast, chances are you know what a cock ring is.
Maybe you even wear a cock ring. But, do you know all this about cock rings?

The ladies start with the basics of cock rings.

Learn how a cock ring works and why it’s effective for erectile dysfunction, stamina, intensifying sensations, and powerful orgasms.

Ms. Olivia mentions that people in Victorian England used cock rings as male chastity devices. What the hell!?!

Modern cock rings are generally made of two types of material - hard and stretchy. These Femdoms talk about using cock rings in sessions to enhance submission, sensations, and more.

Tips for buying cock rings include:
Pros and cons of different kinds of materials, including metal versus silicone
Size and fit
How to measure for a metal cock ring
How to find a cock ring that fits your body
Types of cock rings with special effects like nubs and vibes
Safety and cock rings, including edge play while being risk-aware

The Femdom hosts use cock rings for all kinds of kink play and fetish scenes.
They have suggestions for where to get various kinds of penis play toys.

https://male-essentials.com/
https://oxballs.com/

Do you have a cock ring? What do you use and where did you get it?
Inquiring minds want to know.

Remember to check out our blogs:
Mistress Olivia: https://www.experiencedmistress.com/
Mistress Erika:  https://intelligentphonefantasy.com/

The Weekly Hot Spot podcast transcripts are posted on the blog: https://weeklyhotspot.com/

The transcripts aren’t current, but the ones that are up have lots of links to things we talk about, photos and more so check it out, leave a comment and more episode transcripts will post asap.

The hosts get an email from someone who describes himself as a submissive male interested in being controlled by a strict Mistress. 

Mistress Harper joins Ms. Olivia and Ms. Erika to talk about requests for a strict Mistress.

Ms. Harper is the perfect guest for this episode because she describes herself as a sensual sadist. What does that mean, and how does that play out in a kink session?

BDSM terms can mean different things to people at various levels of kink play. For example, what does the term strict Mistress mean to you? Think about some of these terms for a strict Mistress: cruel, sadistic, harsh, demanding, firm, unyielding, etc. Words have various meanings depending on context and the people involved.

In this episode, you’ll hear how these three Femdoms ask questions to make sure everyone involved in the scene is on the same page with what will happen.

What questions does a Mistress ask to find out what her potential kink playmate means when using various kink terminology?

This candid conversation has examples of BDSM negotiation and why consent from both parties is important in power exchange and pain play. Remember, in BDSM, pain can be physical or mental pain. Mental or emotional pain can be things like humiliation, degradation, etc.

BDSM is a paradox of sensations and emotions. For example, pain is pleasure; submission is freedom, etc. 

Want to please your Mistress? Listen to this podcast episode and follow her lead as she asks questions and creates your relationship.

Mistress Olivia’s personal blog:  https://www.experiencedmistress.com/
Mistress Erika’s personal blog: https://intelligentphonefantasy.com/
Mistress Harper’s personal blog:  https://www.fetishphonesexblog.com/

Today’s episode on wigs and wig care is inspired by Yvonne, who says keeping wigs from becoming a mess is a real challenge. We agree!

Choosing the right wig is complicated. These Mistresses believe that feminization is all about the total package, and, for most people, that means finding the perfect hair for the look you want for your transformation.

Unless you win the lottery, you will probably need at least an idea of your budget as you shop for your crossdresser or sissy accessories.

Wigs can get expensive, so the hosts of this podcast outline tips that will help you experiment with style, length, and color before you pick out some keeper wigs.

Things to consider:
Wig material: synthetic, natural hair or a combo of both
Where will you wear your wig?
Do you want to go out and about or stay at home while dressed en femme?
What is the weather like where you are? If you’re in Florida, for example, human hair can get frizzy or lose shape because of the heat and humidity.
Budget versus quality

How to shop for your wig: online versus in person

Wig shopping details:
** How to measure your wig.
** Styles of wig cap: basic/blunt or lace
** Why a wig liner is important

Washing your wig liner and wig
** Detangling and styling your wig
** How to store your wig

This episode ends with this quote from Dolly Parton: “There’s a heart beneath the boobs and a brain beneath the wig.” … Unless you’re a sissy bimbo - then you don’t need the brain, your Femdom Mistress will do all the thinking for you!

Mistress Olivia’s personal blog: https://www.experiencedmistress.com/

Mistress Erika’s personal blog: https://intelligentphonefantasy.com/

The Weekly Hot Spot blog with transcripts of past shows: https://weeklyhotspot.com/

Face shapes to hairstyles: https://elly-k.com.au/tips-and-advice/face-shapes-to-hair-styles/

How to measure your head for a wig: https://www.wigs.com/blogs/news/how-to-measure-your-head-for-a-wig