Talking Phase Pam & Tom

Has love eluded you after multiple marriages and years of heartbreak? Join us for an inspiring conversation with Mark and Vicky, a couple who found each other after navigating the challenges of divorce, loss, and personal growth. Discover how they turned their painful experiences into a beautiful love story that will leave you believing in second (or third) chances!


In this captivating episode of the Talking Phase podcast, we dive deep into Mark and Vicky's journey from their early marriages to their fateful meeting on Facebook Dating. Mark shares his story of two divorces, his struggle with Mormonism, and how he finally learned to prioritize his own happiness. Vicky opens up about the loss of her second husband, her decision to start anew in Utah, and the importance of healing before seeking love again.
Through their candid discussion, Mark and Vicky reveal the key lessons they learned along the way, including the significance of self-discovery, the power of taking time to heal, and the courage to break free from societal and religious expectations. They also share their thoughts on navigating the dating world in their 40s and the unique challenges and opportunities that come with it.


Whether you're in the midst of a divorce, grieving the loss of a partner, or simply searching for love after heartbreak, this episode offers valuable insights and inspiration. Mark and Vicky's story is a testament to the resilience of the human spirit and the transformative power of love.


Join hosts Tom and Pam as they engage in a heartfelt conversation with this incredible couple, and discover how you, too, can overcome your past, embrace your present, and look forward to a future filled with love and happiness. Don't miss this unforgettable episode of the Talking Phase podcast!

Are men only interested in sex when dating? This question sparked a lively discussion between Pam and Tom on the latest episode of the Talking Phase podcast. Join them as they dive deep into the world of dating, relationships, and the age-old question of whether men prioritize physical intimacy over emotional connections.


In this episode, Pam shares her personal experiences and insights on the dating scene, revealing the challenges women face when trying to build meaningful relationships in a world of instant gratification. Tom offers a male perspective, challenging the notion that all men are solely focused on sex and highlighting the importance of open communication in any relationship.


The conversation takes an exciting turn when Pam and Tom read an email from a listener named Janice, who finds herself in a difficult situation with her date, "Thor." Janice's story raises important questions about the role of sex in developing relationships and the potential for emotional manipulation on both sides.


As the hosts explore the complexities of Janice and Thor's situation, they offer valuable advice on navigating the dating world and the importance of being honest with oneself and one's partner. They emphasize the need for clear communication and setting expectations early on in a relationship to avoid misunderstandings and heartbreak.


Tune in to this engaging episode of the Talking Phase podcast to gain insight into the minds of both men and women when it comes to dating, sex, and relationships. Whether you're single and navigating the dating scene or in a committed relationship, this episode offers valuable lessons and food for thought that will keep you hooked until the very end.

Are you tired of the dating game and wondering if you'll ever find the perfect match? Join Tom Milligan and Pam O'Leary in the very first episode of "The Talking Phase Podcast" as they dive into the complexities of modern dating, relationships, and the infamous "talking phase." This episode is packed with personal anecdotes, insightful discussions, and a touch of humor that will keep you hooked from start to finish. Whether you're single, dating, or just curious about the dynamics of relationships in your 50s, this episode has something for everyone.


In this debut episode, Tom and Pam share their journey of how they came together to create this podcast. Tom, a former host of "My Crazy Divorce," and Pam, a TikTok sensation, discuss their decision to move away from the topic of divorce and focus on the more lighthearted and relatable aspects of dating and relationships. They reveal the behind-the-scenes brainstorming that led to the creation of "The Talking Phase Podcast" and explain the significance of the "talking phase" in the dating world.
The conversation takes a deep dive into the challenges of dating in your 50s, including the pressures of lowering standards and the fear of being alone. Pam shares a personal story about a friend's comment that sparked a viral TikTok video, leading to a lively discussion about the importance of maintaining high standards and not settling for less. Tom and Pam explore the fine line between compromise and lowering standards, offering their unique perspectives on what it means to find someone who is "perfect for you."


Throughout the episode, Tom and Pam engage with their audience by addressing comments and questions from their TikTok followers. They discuss the different expectations men and women have in relationships and the societal pressures that influence these expectations. The episode is filled with relatable moments, candid confessions, and practical advice that will resonate with anyone navigating the dating scene.


Don't miss out on this engaging and thought-provoking episode of "The Talking Phase Podcast." Subscribe to our channel, give us a thumbs up, and leave a comment to let us know your thoughts. Follow us on TikTok @talkingphasepodcast for more behind-the-scenes content and join the conversation. Whether you're looking for love, advice, or just a good laugh, Tom and Pam have got you covered. Tune in now and start your journey towards finding the perfect match!