18 episodes

DNA discoveries change lives and redefine the meaning of family and personal identity. Join genetic counselor and founder of Watershed DNA, Brianne Kirkpatrick, as she dives into challenging issues with authors, leaders, and creatives in the DNA world. Made for adoptees, NPEs, donor-conceived people, their families, genealogists, search angels, and genetic counselors, hear from guests with a variety of perspectives. Learn about resources to help you navigate the next steps, whether you are new to a surprise DNA discovery or are living it. Visit WatershedDNA.com for more.

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DNA Clarity and Support Brianne Kirkpatrick

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DNA discoveries change lives and redefine the meaning of family and personal identity. Join genetic counselor and founder of Watershed DNA, Brianne Kirkpatrick, as she dives into challenging issues with authors, leaders, and creatives in the DNA world. Made for adoptees, NPEs, donor-conceived people, their families, genealogists, search angels, and genetic counselors, hear from guests with a variety of perspectives. Learn about resources to help you navigate the next steps, whether you are new to a surprise DNA discovery or are living it. Visit WatershedDNA.com for more.

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    Stigma, health, DNA, and adoptee rights: a discussion about the changing landscape in America

    Stigma, health, DNA, and adoptee rights: a discussion about the changing landscape in America

    Gabrielle Glaser is a New York Times bestselling author and journalist whose work on mental health, medicine, and culture has appeared in The New York Times Magazine, The New York Times, and many other publications. Her fourth book "American Baby: A Mother, a Child, and the Shadow History of Adoption" chronicles the history of adoption in post-World War II America specifically through the story of one family touched by adoption.

    On today's episode, Glaser talks with DNA Clarity and Support host Brianne Kirkpatrick about the history of coerced adoption in the United States and the influence of culture and stigma on women who under other circumstances might have chosen to parent. Glaser comments on the most shocking discovery she made while researching the history of American adoptions in the post-war era and comments on the frequency of DNA testing in the stories she heard while writing American Baby. The guest and host reflect on the importance of family medical history and how this affected David, the adoptee who is at the center of the story American Baby follows. Finally, Glaser shares what drew her to cover the topic of adoption history in the United States and her reaction to the reception of American Baby after its publication. 

    Follow the author on Twitter @GabrielleGlaser or visit her website https://gabrielleglaser.com/about/ and find American Baby in print, Ebook, or audio version.

    Listeners who find the topic of adoption of special interest might appreciate listening to these other past guests on the DNA Clarity and Support podcast:

    Richard Hill

    Melissa Guida-Richards

    Mary Beth Sammons

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    • 39 min
    Don't lose sight of your why

    Don't lose sight of your why

    In this episode, Brianne interviews author Diahan Southard, creator of Your DNA Guide, who brings a much-needed dose of enthusiasm to the talk about genealogy, a biological parent search, and DNA testing! Diahan's perspective adds balance to the conversation about the role and value of DNA and how it connects us to relatives living and those already passed.  

    Listen as Diahan shares how her own DNA story began, starting in the early 2000s when the world of genetic genealogy was just getting started! 

    Diahan's PLAN for approaching DNA testing has five key steps. Learn what she means by: 

    - Are you asking a good DNA question? 

    - Are you testing the right person? 

    - Are you taking the right kind of DNA test?  

    - Have you chosen the right testing company? 

    - Are you performing the appropriate kind of analysis?

    Diahan's step-wise approach to DNA testing helps people needing an organized approach, whether you're searching for biological relatives or are using it for your family's genealogy research. 

    Confused by the various types of "cousin"? Diahan gives a clear explanation of the difference between a first, second, and more distant cousin and how the terms "removed" and "half" fit in. 

    Wondering whether to test yourself or another relative for genealogical purposes? Diahan shares her reasoning for starting with a test on the oldest living relative who is willing to test.

    Trying to put pieces together to figure out who in a family is someone's biological father? We discuss the need to be slow and methodical as you go through results and so you don't jump to the wrong conclusion, like naming the wrong brother as someone's biological father.

    Overwhelmed by words you come across in the DNA world like mitochondria, autosomal DNA, centimorgan, or Y chromosome? Diahan takes the mystery out of these and other commonly used terms.

    If you decide DNA testing might hold the key to answering your questions, know that there are sites like YourDNAGuide that help you get going and unstuck along the way and sites like Watershed DNA when an unexpected finding comes along.  

    Find a copy of the book Your DNA Guide on Amazon in paperback or e-book 

    or directly from Diahan's site (use the code "WatershedDNA" for a 20% discount!)

    and follow Diahan on social media

    Instagram @diahansouthard 

    Twitter @DNAdiahan 

    Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/YourDNAGuide/



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    • 44 min
    Solving crimes with DNA testing: understanding the basics

    Solving crimes with DNA testing: understanding the basics

    Did you know that if you test at FamilyTreeDNA, all you have to do is check a box of approval during the DNA kit registration process, and your DNA results and online family tree are automatically opted into a program that helps investigators work to solve cold cases? I invited author J.C. Kenney to talk about the 4th book in his Allie Cobb series of mystery novels. In A Deadly Discovery, a consumer DNA test and genetic genealogy course taught at the local library lead to the solving of a decades-old murder mystery in a small town in Indiana. 

    You need not be a true crime fan or a DNA expert to learn from today's episode! Our conversation hones in on the highlights of DNA and crime investigation and is a great intro for those unfamiliar with investigative genetic genealogy, often shortened to IGG. 

    Things we touch on in this discussion: 


    Resources for learning more about IGG 
    What is a "cozy mystery"  
    How the town of Nashville, Indiana plays into it all 

    Things we don't address in today's discussion? Ethicals gray zones and real-life criminal cases involving consumer DNA tests. We'll have to save that for a future episode of DNA Clarity and Support with a different author! In the meantime, you can read more about this topic (and some of Brianne's thoughts about consumer DNA testing and IGG) in an article by Ariel Ramchandani in Mother Jones magazine.

    As we near the end of season 2 of DNA Clarity and Support and plan for a sabbatical over the summer months, we are curious to know what you think. Heard an episode this season that had an impact on you, and now you can't stop thinking about something you heard? Tell us about it! Recently finished a book related to a DNA discovery and you want to hear more from the author in a Q&A with Brianne? Send us your feedback and some questions you'd like us to ask of future guests!

    Season 3 is in its planning stages right now, and we need YOUR help to make it a great one! 

    Read J.C. Kenney's novel A Deadly Discovery on your e-reader or mobile device. (Make sure to check out the first three books in the series, too.)

    Go back and catch up on past episodes of DNA Clarity and Support and join the mailing list at WatershedDNA.com to never miss and episode or an announcement of new resources. 




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    • 19 min
    Everyone deserves the right to know where they came from

    Everyone deserves the right to know where they came from

    Michael Blair knew from the age of 12 that his dad was not his biological father, but it was something not spoken about in the family. After years spent chasing down every last lead on his biological paternity, Michael's search entered a new phase when a consumer DNA test connected him to paternal DNA relatives. The up-and-down journey, the people he came to know along the way, and the new understanding he has of his parents are all documented in his memoir, I Had My Underwear on the Entire Time.

    This lovely episode includes a drop-in visit from his wife, Amy, co-author and #1 supporter of Michael in his search for information. Who is this episode for? Anyone nervous to begin a search, anyone who has found their expectations shattered, and anyone who just needs to know they are not alone if their DNA story isn't like a Hallmark movie. Find wisdom and solace from Michael and Amy, no matter your role in a DNA search and discovery. 

    Some unique parts of Michael's story will resonate with listeners, such as the discovery that the biological family he found had already been through its own ups and downs in the past. There were pre-existing divisions within the family, and complicating factors that led some to embrace Michael while others did not. Step-parents and and parents raising a child who isn't biologically related will also find comfort in Michael's advice to parents that no parent is perfect, you just have to do your best to be honest with your child.

    Other parts of the discussion cover:


    The role of a Thanksgiving turkey in Michael's search(!)
    Michael's current relationships with his mom, dad (the step-father who adopted him as a toddler), and biological father 
    Michael's participation in advocacy efforts to open access to original birth certificates in the state of Iowa 
    The vital role of medical history in his story
    The value of therapy in coping with mental health struggles 
    Resources Michael found helpful, including MPEcounseling.org and NPE Friends Fellowship



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    • 37 min
    All of the locks that guarded her secrets no longer worked

    All of the locks that guarded her secrets no longer worked

    In midlife, Peter J. Boni learned the truth of his genetic origins: his parents had used sperm donor assistance to conceive him. The news wasn't revealed by a DNA test or directly from a parent, the way most donor-conceived individuals find out. Instead, the news came from another person who had been with his mother in a rehabilitation center while she recovered from heart surgery and a post-operative stroke; his mother had begun to share the story with others of using a sperm donor to conceive in 1945 but had not shared it with her son yet. "All of the locks that guarded her secrets no longer worked," Boni explained. 

    This revelation led to a conversation between Boni and his mother during which he shared with her how disruptive it had been to discover he was sperm donor-conceived later in life. In this episode of DNA Clarity and Support, Boni describes not only the personal experience of learning he is 'semi-adopted' but also the outcomes of his extensive research on the sociological, scientific, and legal aspects of assisted reproductive technologies. Boni's book Uprooted published in 2022 is dedicated to sharing the outcomes of his research, much of which is likely unknown even to those who work professionally in ART world.

    The conversation between host Brianne Kirkpatrick and Boni swings back and forth, exploring the personal impacts on Boni and his awareness of the need for societal change. Boni shares how the new trauma of the NPE ('not parent expected') discovery rekindled some of the old trauma from his past, requiring hard work in the therapist's office to work through. He describes the discovery of a half-sibling and the development of relationships with her and other newly-discovered biological relatives.    

    An important aspect of Boni's work is his desire to shine a light on the areas of the assisted reproductive industry where change is needed. He speaks of the Bill of Rights of the Donor Conceived that is listed at the conclusion of Uprooted and encourages the discussion and changes needed on a legislative level to start happening. The discussion with Boni hits upon main points that can help others who are not donor-conceived understand what it is like to go through the process of a misattributed parentage experience. It's an important one.

    Find your copy of Uprooted: Family Trauma, Unknown Origins, and the Secretive History of Artificial Insemination:
    On Kindle

    In hardcover print from Amazon or Bookshop.org (bookshop supports independent booksellers)

    Listen on Audible




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    • 31 min
    I truly believe things happen the way they're supposed to happen

    I truly believe things happen the way they're supposed to happen

    Katie Hopkins never guessed that a discovery about her sister's unexpected paternity would be just the start of a number of surprises in the family. What began as crumbs of information left in family documents led to DNA testing which confirmed a hidden family history. In Exposed by DNA, Hopkins shares an account of learning that her biological parentage--as well as that of two of her three siblings--was different than what they all had been raised to believe.  

    Hopkins has a rare ability to delve into the deeply hurtful topics of betrayal and fractured self-identity while retaining a perspective sprinkled with humor and empathy. She is able to express understanding for her parents and also for others who like herself have traveled the road of a misattributed parentage discovery and all of the disruptions to identity that ensue.

    This episode of DNA Clarity and Support includes an *update* since Hopkins first published her book. Listen as Hopkins shares things she learned after the first version of her book was completed and published. If you have an earlier version of Exposed by DNA (purchased in the autumn of 2021 or earlier) and the book ends with chapter 32, visit www.watersheddna.com to download the FREE final chapter 33.






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    • 34 min

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