1 hr 5 min
Ep. 34 Accountability in the Spotlight: from Stealing to Healing, from Rupture to Repair. Vulnerable conversation with Artemisia de Vine. Happy Place
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- Sexuality
This episode is about when Rina Trevi plagiarised Artemisia de Vine's work - and how even a rupture like this can be repaired in ways that benefit everyone involved. It is not often that you get to listen in on a conversation between the person who plagiarized and the person whose work was stolen! There is a lot to learn about the complexity of human nature, owning our shadows and how to genuinely repair a relationship.
Rina shares her soul searching and the circumstances that led her to first think that it was ok to plagerise and then change her mind and choose a different way of being that prioritised integrity and owning her shadow. Rina is brave and vulnerable as she admits what she did and takes responsibility, offering to make amends by promoting Artemisia's work.
This episode is a raw and real discussion between Artemisia de Vine and Rina that does not shame or blame. Artemisia talks about the real impacts of plagiarism and how she moved from anger to peace. They both move towards healing and actively supporting each others work in the future.
The conversation highlights the importance of embracing our shadow selves and recognizing the complexity of human nature. It serves as a reminder not to idolize others and to approach difficult situations with open and honest communication.
Chapters:
00:00
Introduction and Unusual Topic
01:08
Background and Work of Artemisia
03:22
Questioning Actions and Seeking Alternatives
07:12
Rupture and Shadow Work
08:07
Growing Up in Post-Soviet Russia
10:06
Scarcity and Survival Strategies
12:31
Immigrating to the United States
14:09
Ethics and Cultural Differences
20:46
Confrontation and Waves of Shame
23:02
Accepting the Whole Self
28:18
Apology and Repairing the Situation
30:16
Avoiding Idolization and Embracing Flaws
31:44
The Power of Open and Honest Communication
32:12
The Emotional Impact of Plagiarism
34:01
Owning One's Shadow and Taking Responsibility
37:10
The Power of Genuine Repair in Relationships
46:43
Turning Ruptures into Opportunities for Growth
53:37
Honoring Each Person's Unique Contribution
Artemisia de Vine offers a groundbreaking new theory about why we have sexual fantasies and how we can engage them to create powerful, real-life transformative sexperiences that satisfy the real desire behind the story symbolism. She is the author of upcoming book: The Spirituality of Smut: The surprising wisdom of sexual fantasies.
She is a certified somatic sexologist, BA in anthropology and former sex worker and professional dominatrix who now teaches therapists and some of the world's leading sexperts the psychology of sexual fantasies, and how to bring them out of our heads and into our beds through embodied play - and how to use sexual fantasies to explore an array of profound erotic states of consciousness.
ArtemisiadeVine.com for more details.
This episode is about when Rina Trevi plagiarised Artemisia de Vine's work - and how even a rupture like this can be repaired in ways that benefit everyone involved. It is not often that you get to listen in on a conversation between the person who plagiarized and the person whose work was stolen! There is a lot to learn about the complexity of human nature, owning our shadows and how to genuinely repair a relationship.
Rina shares her soul searching and the circumstances that led her to first think that it was ok to plagerise and then change her mind and choose a different way of being that prioritised integrity and owning her shadow. Rina is brave and vulnerable as she admits what she did and takes responsibility, offering to make amends by promoting Artemisia's work.
This episode is a raw and real discussion between Artemisia de Vine and Rina that does not shame or blame. Artemisia talks about the real impacts of plagiarism and how she moved from anger to peace. They both move towards healing and actively supporting each others work in the future.
The conversation highlights the importance of embracing our shadow selves and recognizing the complexity of human nature. It serves as a reminder not to idolize others and to approach difficult situations with open and honest communication.
Chapters:
00:00
Introduction and Unusual Topic
01:08
Background and Work of Artemisia
03:22
Questioning Actions and Seeking Alternatives
07:12
Rupture and Shadow Work
08:07
Growing Up in Post-Soviet Russia
10:06
Scarcity and Survival Strategies
12:31
Immigrating to the United States
14:09
Ethics and Cultural Differences
20:46
Confrontation and Waves of Shame
23:02
Accepting the Whole Self
28:18
Apology and Repairing the Situation
30:16
Avoiding Idolization and Embracing Flaws
31:44
The Power of Open and Honest Communication
32:12
The Emotional Impact of Plagiarism
34:01
Owning One's Shadow and Taking Responsibility
37:10
The Power of Genuine Repair in Relationships
46:43
Turning Ruptures into Opportunities for Growth
53:37
Honoring Each Person's Unique Contribution
Artemisia de Vine offers a groundbreaking new theory about why we have sexual fantasies and how we can engage them to create powerful, real-life transformative sexperiences that satisfy the real desire behind the story symbolism. She is the author of upcoming book: The Spirituality of Smut: The surprising wisdom of sexual fantasies.
She is a certified somatic sexologist, BA in anthropology and former sex worker and professional dominatrix who now teaches therapists and some of the world's leading sexperts the psychology of sexual fantasies, and how to bring them out of our heads and into our beds through embodied play - and how to use sexual fantasies to explore an array of profound erotic states of consciousness.
ArtemisiadeVine.com for more details.
1 hr 5 min