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The show for men who are sick of their own sh*t and ready to make a change for better mental health.

Zach Tucker and Jeremy Grater have been on a never-ending quest for knowledge about physical, emotional, and mental health. They've tried everything from questionable diets to questionable therapy techniques, and now they're here to share their misadventures with you.

After years of hosting this wild ride of a show, they've managed to snag interviews with some big shots in the health and wellness world. But don't worry, they won't let all that success go to their heads. Instead, they'll use it to bring you small, achievable steps you can take to maybe, just maybe, improve yourself a smidge.

So buckle up, because The Fit Mess is going to take you on a rollercoaster of self-improvement, complete with awkward moments, actionable advice, and a healthy dose of sarcasm. Get ready to join Zach and Jeremy as they stumble their way through the world of men's mental health and try to uncover some habits that might actually make a difference. Or at least give you a good laugh along the way. Welcome to The Fit Mess, where we make messy lives just a little bit less messy.

Topics covered:

Breaking down societal expectations of masculinity
Navigating emotions and vulnerability
Exploring the stigma surrounding men seeking help for mental health
Coping strategies for stress and anxiety
Managing work-life balance and burnout
Relationships and communication skills
Fatherhood and the Challenges of Parenting
Body image and Self-esteem
Dealing with depression and mood disorders
Masculinity and Identity
Addiction and substance abuse
Overcoming trauma and post-traumatic stress disorder
Men's mental health in the Military and First Responder Professions
Suicide prevention and awareness
Coping with grief and loss
Anger management and emotional regulation
Nurturing healthy friendships and support networks
The Impact of social media on Men's mental health
Men's mental health and physical fitness
Sleep Disorders and the Importance of restorative sleep
Financial stress and mental well-being
Coping with unemployment and career transitions
Recognizing and managing symptoms of anxiety disorders
Exploring the link between men's mental health and physical health
Mindfulness and meditation practices for mental wellness
Strategies for building resilience and emotional strength
Addressing loneliness and social isolation
Mental health challenges specific to men of different ages (e.g., young adults, middle-aged, seniors)
Cultural and ethnic factors influencing men's mental health
Seeking therapy and counseling: benefits and misconceptions
Exploring alternative therapies and holistic approaches to mental health
Coping with infertility and reproductive health challenges
Men's mental health during and after divorce
Breaking the cycle of generational trauma
Balancing career ambition and personal Well-being
The Impact of childhood experiences on Men's mental health
Examining the link between masculinity and risk-taking behavior
Redefining success and finding fulfillment beyond traditional notions
Men's mental health and the justice system
Strategies for managing anger and aggression in healthy ways
Developing emotional intelligence and self-awareness
The Role of Exercise and physical activity in Men's mental health
Men's mental health and body dysmorphia
Coping with chronic illness and disability
Overcoming performance anxiety and imposter syndrome
Strategies for managing work-related stress and pressure
The Impact of societal pressures on Men's mental health
Exploring Men's mental health in different cultural contexts
Creating inclusive spaces and support systems for men's mental health

The Fit Mess: A Men's Mental Health Podcast Jeremy Grater & Zach Tucker

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The show for men who are sick of their own sh*t and ready to make a change for better mental health.

Zach Tucker and Jeremy Grater have been on a never-ending quest for knowledge about physical, emotional, and mental health. They've tried everything from questionable diets to questionable therapy techniques, and now they're here to share their misadventures with you.

After years of hosting this wild ride of a show, they've managed to snag interviews with some big shots in the health and wellness world. But don't worry, they won't let all that success go to their heads. Instead, they'll use it to bring you small, achievable steps you can take to maybe, just maybe, improve yourself a smidge.

So buckle up, because The Fit Mess is going to take you on a rollercoaster of self-improvement, complete with awkward moments, actionable advice, and a healthy dose of sarcasm. Get ready to join Zach and Jeremy as they stumble their way through the world of men's mental health and try to uncover some habits that might actually make a difference. Or at least give you a good laugh along the way. Welcome to The Fit Mess, where we make messy lives just a little bit less messy.

Topics covered:

Breaking down societal expectations of masculinity
Navigating emotions and vulnerability
Exploring the stigma surrounding men seeking help for mental health
Coping strategies for stress and anxiety
Managing work-life balance and burnout
Relationships and communication skills
Fatherhood and the Challenges of Parenting
Body image and Self-esteem
Dealing with depression and mood disorders
Masculinity and Identity
Addiction and substance abuse
Overcoming trauma and post-traumatic stress disorder
Men's mental health in the Military and First Responder Professions
Suicide prevention and awareness
Coping with grief and loss
Anger management and emotional regulation
Nurturing healthy friendships and support networks
The Impact of social media on Men's mental health
Men's mental health and physical fitness
Sleep Disorders and the Importance of restorative sleep
Financial stress and mental well-being
Coping with unemployment and career transitions
Recognizing and managing symptoms of anxiety disorders
Exploring the link between men's mental health and physical health
Mindfulness and meditation practices for mental wellness
Strategies for building resilience and emotional strength
Addressing loneliness and social isolation
Mental health challenges specific to men of different ages (e.g., young adults, middle-aged, seniors)
Cultural and ethnic factors influencing men's mental health
Seeking therapy and counseling: benefits and misconceptions
Exploring alternative therapies and holistic approaches to mental health
Coping with infertility and reproductive health challenges
Men's mental health during and after divorce
Breaking the cycle of generational trauma
Balancing career ambition and personal Well-being
The Impact of childhood experiences on Men's mental health
Examining the link between masculinity and risk-taking behavior
Redefining success and finding fulfillment beyond traditional notions
Men's mental health and the justice system
Strategies for managing anger and aggression in healthy ways
Developing emotional intelligence and self-awareness
The Role of Exercise and physical activity in Men's mental health
Men's mental health and body dysmorphia
Coping with chronic illness and disability
Overcoming performance anxiety and imposter syndrome
Strategies for managing work-related stress and pressure
The Impact of societal pressures on Men's mental health
Exploring Men's mental health in different cultural contexts
Creating inclusive spaces and support systems for men's mental health

    How To Find Your Motivation After Losing Momentum

    How To Find Your Motivation After Losing Momentum

    Have you ever struggled to maintain healthy habits or fallen off track despite knowing what you should be doing?
    Many of us find it challenging to stick to positive routines like exercising, eating well, and managing stress, even when we understand the benefits. This episode explores the human side of that struggle and offers practical insights for getting back on track when life gets overwhelming.
    Listen to this candid conversation to reignite your motivation and learn practical tips for establishing lasting healthy habits, even when life gets chaotic.
    Topics Discussed:
    The importance of consistency in healthy habits Strategies for getting back on track after falling off routines The power of small, sustainable changes over time Finding the right support system and accountability The role of self-compassion in habit-building Balancing self-care with other life responsibilities The impact of stress and anxiety on healthy habits Overcoming the desire for quick fixes and optimizations The value of surrounding yourself with like-minded people A real-life example of transforming one's life through consistent effort ----
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    Muse's Brain Sensing Headbands Improve Your Meditation Practice.
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    • 22 min
    How To Make Friends As An Adult, With Megan Devito

    How To Make Friends As An Adult, With Megan Devito

    Have you ever felt alone and struggled to make new friends as an adult?
    Making friends gets tougher after school and college when we no longer have that built-in social circle. This can lead to loneliness, especially for those working remotely or who have moved to a new area.
    In this episode you'll...
    Understand why adult friendships are challenging but possible Learn practical strategies to put yourself out there Gain confidence to initiate conversations and make new connections Listen now to discover actionable tips for making friends that stick, even if you're an introvert who struggles with small talk.

    Topics Discussed:

    Challenges of making friends as an adult Impact of remote work and COVID-19 on socializing Overcoming fear of being perceived as "weird" Finding people with shared interests/values Using childhood interests to rediscover your passions Initiating conversations without small talk Asking intentional questions to build rapport Putting yourself in situations to meet new people Embracing discomfort to facilitate growth Practical first steps to start making friends ----
    GUEST WEBSITE:
    https://www.megandevito.com/ 
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    Connect with us on Threads, Twitter, Instagram, Facebook, and Tiktok

    Subscribe to The Fit Mess on Youtube
    Join our community in the Fit Mess Facebook group
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    LINKS TO OUR PARTNERS:
    Take control of how you’d like to feel with Apollo Neuro
    Explore the many benefits of cold therapy for your body with Nurecover
    Muse's Brain Sensing Headbands Improve Your Meditation Practice.
    Get started as a Certified Professional Life Coach!
    Get a Free One Year Supply of AG1 Vitamin D3+K2, 5 Travel Packs
    Revamp your life with Bulletproof Coffee
    You Need a Budget helps you quickly get out of debt, and save money faster!
    Use Vibrant Blue Oils to improve the flow of energy through your body. 
    Start your own podcast!
     
     

    • 42 min
    How Running Can Help You Overcome Depression, with Dr. J.M. Thompson

    How Running Can Help You Overcome Depression, with Dr. J.M. Thompson

    Have you ever felt trapped in the darkness of depression, unable to escape the torture of your own mind?
    Many individuals struggle with mental health challenges, seeking relief from the overwhelming emotions and thoughts that consume them. This episode offers a powerful perspective on how engaging in physical activities like running can pave the way towards healing and recovery.
    In this episode we'll share the healing potential of exercise, particularly endurance activities that induce a flow state.
    Listen to this captivating episode to uncover the life-changing story of how one man's intuitive decision to run saved him from the depths of depression and suicidal thoughts.
    Bulleted List of 10 Topics Discussed
    Battling severe depression and the road to recovery The transformative power of running and endurance activities Finding solace and connection through shared experiences Overcoming stigma and giving voice to the unspeakable The role of nature and immersion in the present moment Building resilience and tolerating difficulty Developing a consistent exercise habit and listening to your body The importance of self-compassion and acknowledging personal pain Cultivating hope and faith in the human capacity for healing Seeking support and resources during times of crisis
    Note: This episode was originally published February 8th, 2022.
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    GUEST WEBSITE:
    https://runningisakindofdreaming.com/ 
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    Connect with us on Threads, Twitter, Instagram, Facebook, and Tiktok

    Subscribe to The Fit Mess on Youtube
    Join our community in the Fit Mess Facebook group
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    LINKS TO OUR PARTNERS:
    Take control of how you’d like to feel with Apollo Neuro
    Explore the many benefits of cold therapy for your body with Nurecover
    Muse's Brain Sensing Headbands Improve Your Meditation Practice.
    Get started as a Certified Professional Life Coach!
    Get a Free One Year Supply of AG1 Vitamin D3+K2, 5 Travel Packs
    Revamp your life with Bulletproof Coffee
    You Need a Budget helps you quickly get out of debt, and save money faster!
    Use Vibrant Blue Oils to improve the flow of energy through your body. 
    Start your own podcast!
     
     

    • 29 min
    How To Find Purpose And Meaning When You Get A Little Lost, With Charlynne Boddie

    How To Find Purpose And Meaning When You Get A Little Lost, With Charlynne Boddie

    Are you struggling to find your true purpose in life and feeling lost or unfulfilled?


    Many people, especially men, find themselves feeling disconnected from their deeper sense of purpose and meaning, often focusing solely on external markers of success like careers and material possessions. This episode explores practical strategies to identify your authentic calling and create a vision for a life that aligns with your values and passions.

    In this episode episode we'll share practical ideas you can use to begin living a life that truly fulfills you.

    Topics Discussed:
    Finding purpose after major life transitions Using vision boards to tap into your heart's desires Creating a personalized "vision grid" with actionable steps Balancing the body, soul, and spirit in goal-setting Celebrating small wins and building momentum Overcoming self-doubt and limiting beliefs Journaling for self-reflection and emotional release The power of positive self-talk and mantras Navigating career changes and pivots Building a support system for accountability ----
    GUEST WEBSITE:
    https://www.charlynne.com/ 
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    MORE FROM THE FIT MESS:

    Connect with us on Threads, Twitter, Instagram, Facebook, and Tiktok

    Subscribe to The Fit Mess on Youtube
    Join our community in the Fit Mess Facebook group
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    LINKS TO OUR PARTNERS:
    Take control of how you’d like to feel with Apollo Neuro
    Explore the many benefits of cold therapy for your body with Nurecover
    Muse's Brain Sensing Headbands Improve Your Meditation Practice.
    Get started as a Certified Professional Life Coach!
    Get a Free One Year Supply of AG1 Vitamin D3+K2, 5 Travel Packs
    Revamp your life with Bulletproof Coffee
    You Need a Budget helps you quickly get out of debt, and save money faster!
    Use Vibrant Blue Oils to improve the flow of energy through your body. 
    Start your own podcast!
     
     

    • 31 min
    How To Truly Be Grateful For All That You Have Without Facing A Near Death Experience, With Tony Berardo

    How To Truly Be Grateful For All That You Have Without Facing A Near Death Experience, With Tony Berardo

    What if you could live in a constant state of gratitude and present awareness, instead of being stuck in the worries and regrets of the past or future?
    In this episode, Tony Berardo discusses his journey of personal growth and self-improvement. He emphasizes the importance of being self-aware and constantly striving to be better every day. He shares examples of how he identifies his weaknesses and works on them, both in his personal life and relationships. Tony also reflects on the unpredictability of life and the need to let go of control and embrace the present moment.
    In this conversation, Tony Berardo and Jeremy Grater discuss the importance of gratitude, physical fitness, and the impact of modern society on our health. They touch on topics such as the need for self-awareness, the benefits of physical activity, the decline in food quality, and the dangers of social media. Tony also talks about his podcast, Humanity and Hashtags, where he has objective conversations about wellness, productivity, and social media.
    Takeaways
    Strive to be better every day by identifying and working on your weaknesses. Focus on improving yourself and the other aspects of your life will naturally fall into place. Embrace the chaos and unpredictability of life, and find meaning in both positive and negative experiences. Let go of control and live in the present moment, appreciating what you have. Gratitude is important, but it's easy to go through the motions without truly feeling it. Physical activity, such as fitness training or plunging, can humble and ground us. The decline in food quality and the impact of pesticides and processed foods on our health is a major concern. Social media has contributed to a rise in mental health issues and a distorted sense of reality. ----
    GUEST WEBSITE:
    http://www.theberardo.com 
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    Connect with us on Threads, Twitter, Instagram, Facebook, and Tiktok

    Subscribe to The Fit Mess on Youtube
    Join our community in the Fit Mess Facebook group
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    LINKS TO OUR PARTNERS:
    Take control of how you’d like to feel with Apollo Neuro
    Explore the many benefits of cold therapy for your body with Nurecover
    Muse's Brain Sensing Headbands Improve Your Meditation Practice.
    Get started as a Certified Professional Life Coach!
    Get a Free One Year Supply of AG1 Vitamin D3+K2, 5 Travel Packs
    Revamp your life with Bulletproof Coffee
    You Need a Budget helps you quickly get out of debt, and save money faster!
    Use Vibrant Blue Oils to improve the flow of energy through your body. 
    Start your own podcast!
     
     

    • 39 min
    How To Start Drinking Alcohol Again After Years Of Sobriety And Abstinence

    How To Start Drinking Alcohol Again After Years Of Sobriety And Abstinence

    Have you ever felt like your beliefs and habits around health and wellness were holding you back from truly enjoying life?
    Many of us struggle to find the right balance between discipline and indulgence when it comes to our well-being. This episode explores how questioning long-held beliefs can open up new possibilities for a happier, more fulfilling lifestyle.
    Gain insights into how different cultures approach food, alcohol, and overall well-being Learn strategies for challenging limiting beliefs and finding a healthier balance Discover the power of being present and embracing new experiences Listen to this thought-provoking conversation to uncover a fresh perspective on health, happiness, and living life to the fullest.

    Takeaways
    The food quality and eating habits in Italy are different from those in the Western world, and can contribute to better physical and mental well-being. Quitting alcohol for an extended period of time can help develop tools and techniques to manage emotions and feelings without relying on it. Reintroducing alcohol in moderation can be a personal choice, but it's important to set rules and be mindful of its role in social interactions. Finding a balance between structure and relaxation in routines can lead to a happier and healthier life. Incorporating elements from different cultures, such as food and lifestyle habits, can enhance overall well-being. ----
    MORE FROM THE FIT MESS:

    Connect with us on Threads, Twitter, Instagram, Facebook, and Tiktok

    Subscribe to The Fit Mess on Youtube
    Join our community in the Fit Mess Facebook group
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    LINKS TO OUR PARTNERS:
    Take control of how you’d like to feel with Apollo Neuro
    Explore the many benefits of cold therapy for your body with Nurecover
    Muse's Brain Sensing Headbands Improve Your Meditation Practice.
    Get started as a Certified Professional Life Coach!
    Get a Free One Year Supply of AG1 Vitamin D3+K2, 5 Travel Packs
    Revamp your life with Bulletproof Coffee
    You Need a Budget helps you quickly get out of debt, and save money faster!
    Use Vibrant Blue Oils to improve the flow of energy through your body. 
    Start your own podcast!
     
     

    • 23 min

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Naana Am ,

Amazing Show!!!!

The fit mess is super insightful, looking to improve your life holistically???? This is a spot on for you. Loads of practical guides for self improvement.
Amazing show, Thanks Jeremy.

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