101 Secrets of Effective Parenting Vidyashankar Guru
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- Kids & Family
Is Parenting Fun or Pain? Parenting is about bringing up a new generation, and the choice whether to make it a joyful process or a strenuous path lies with parents themselves.Today’s children are better informed because of exposure to various modes of communication and they are ‘Digital Natives’.
Parenting is not about just bringing up your child, but it is about inspiring your child, making them passionate about life and learning, and creating a winning mindset to make them super achievers in life.
This podcast will help parents to give the best to their children and strengthen Parent-Child relationship. It is a compilation of real life strategies based on Author’s first hand experience of handling children and parents from various parts of the world.
This is the audio version of the book with the same title.
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Chapter#61 Participate 100%
You display it as a parent, and your children will learn the
secret from you. -
Chapter#60 Don’t Read this Chapter
Positive commands make a huge difference to your
children’s behavior. Negative commands make them
subconsciously think they should do what they shouldn’t
do! It has nothing to do with your children, and
everything to do with the words you use! Make a
conscious change in your vocabulary-Weed out the
negatives! -
Chapter#59 Is that Your Pattern?
If you start doubting certain actions immediately after
concluding them, and have passed on this behavioural
pattern to your children. Don’t hold your children
responsible for displaying a similar behavior pattern.
Just create a practice of associating those actions with
particular events. And the problem will solve itself soon
enough. -
Chapter#58 The Parent’s Biggest Fear
Whenever you find your children resist your advice or
answer back, it is time for you to sit with them and share
your concerns. You’ll find that their response to this truth
will be one of understanding you can work out a solution
together. -
Chapter#57 No Children are Unable to Learn
Next time you say to yourself. ‘My children can’t learn’,
give it some serious thought. Remind yourself of Anne
Sullivan, Helen Keller’s teacher. Never forget the fact
that, every child has the capacity to learn. -
Chapter#56 Should I Scold My Children?
"If you shout or scream at your children as you scold
them, valid as your grounds are, they may miss the real
lesson you wish to impart. So, never simply scold, always
give your reasons for doing so."