Confidence Confidence Chris

Let's explore the psychology behind why our feelings change once we get what we thought we wanted and the self-reflection that comes with it. Why do we lose interest once we finally have the person we desire? Is it about them, or is it more about us? I’ll also talk about how exhausting it can be to constantly show up for people who don’t show up for you in return. It's draining, but necessary to make tough choices. We'll discuss the courage it takes to walk away from relationships that no longer serve us and how to handle the emotional aftermath.

Chapters
34:41 Why Do I want Someone but Once I have Them I Don’t Want Them Anymore

51:12 Distancing Yourself From People You Care About but Don’t Align with Anymore

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I don't think you understand how deep the ego goes. You think you're dating and showing up with pure intentions, but if we take a look a little deeper, you might find some dark truths about your behavior. I explore the power of non-attachment and practicing non-judgment. I then confront you on the real reasons you are not dating right now. I field a question regarding casual relationships: can you have a casual relationship that is also emotional? I then react to a heartfelt situation about getting over someone who is already over you.

Chapters
00:00 Non-Attachment & Non-Judgment
11:40 My Ex Got Married
15:15 Celibacy Era
31:03 Casual Emotional Dating
41:52 Sad About a Boy

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This is the week you actually start being judgemental! I plead for you to trust your instincts and live for your own expectations. I talk about how many of us grew up with emotionally dismissive parents and how it can lead to your people pleasing and high standards, but before I hit you with the hard stuff, I absolutely trauma dump my inner battle with jealousy and envy. Isn't it funny that sometimes you can do all the right things and still end up wrong.
Chapters:
00:00 Trauma Dump
28:03 Dating With Fewer Expectations
41:32 The Only Time You're Allowed to Be Judgemental
54:04 Emotionally Dismissive Parents
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When is enough enough? This week, I get deep into feelings about why it is hard for men to settle for the ones they "love." I then tackle how to combat the love bomber and the importance of controlling your access. Someone asked me what does "setting a bound even mean? I provide some guidance and examples to give you a better understanding. This then ties into a question I received about playing hard to get. Inside is the roadmap for more success with men.

Chapters:
00:00 Diary of an Avoidant
35:34 How to Handle a Love Bomber
50:19 What Does Holding Your Boundaries Mean?
59:48 Playing Hard to Get

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This week, I come out swinging! I'm done listing to the online boss babes and hype women, and I am here to deliver the hard truth of why they haven't committed yet. I then move into why your fear of wasting your time is hurting your dating life and where your anxious attachment can kill your spark in communication. I end the podcast with some vulnerability about the dog days of being really fucking single. Strap in for some brutal honesty.


Chapters:
00:00 Boss Babes, False Hype Women, and Commitment

16:36 Fear of Time Being Wasted

38:13 How to Handle Their Distant Communication

51:27 The Dog Days of Being Single



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It's 2024, and the art of flirting seems to be lost to doom-scrolling dating apps and direct messages. Don't you want to meet people organically? Maybe you don't know how, or maybe you want to step up your game. Today's episode features a detailed look at approaching, signaling, and closing the deal with people out in the wild. I provide a simple process to create connections with confidence and the secret to meeting people in person. Let me give you the gift of Real Rizz!

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