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2024丨真爱无敌 美文与经典
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- 戲劇
True love is we stick together in"thick and thin". Especially when it's thin, when it's troublesome.Then we should really bridge over the "troubled water". That's whatthey say in English. But most of us fail the test, to ourselves, not to ourpartners. He might leave you, he might stay with you, because you're nice ornot nice. But you fail yourself. You leave yourself. You leave the most noblebeing that you really are. So we should check up on this to our family membersor whomever that is beloved and dear to us. Most of the time in criticalsituations, we just turn our backs and that is no good.
Of course we have our anger, ourfrustrations, because our partners are not as loving as usual, or whomever thatis; but he or she is in a different situation. At that time, he or she is inmental suffering. It's just as bad or even worse than physical suffering.Physical suffering you can take a pill or you can have an injection and itstops or at least temporarily stops, and you feel the effect right away; or atleast if people are in physical suffering, everyone sympathizes with them.
But when they are in mental anguish, and wepound them more on that, and we turn our backs and become cold and indifferent,that is even more cruel, even worse. That person will be swimming alone insuffering. And especially they trust us as the next of kin, the next person,the one that they think they can rely on in times of need; and then at thattime, we just turn around and are snobbish, because they didn't treat us niceso we just want to revenge. That's not the time. You can revenge later, when he'sin better shape. Just slap him.
Actually, at that time, the person is nothis usual self anymore. He was probably under very great pressure that he losthis own control. It's not really lost his own control, but for example, whenyou are in a hurry, your talk is different. Right? "Hand me that coat!Quick! Quick! Quick!" Things like that. But normally, you would say"Honey, please, can you give me that coat?" Is that not so? Or whenyou're in pain -- for example stomach pain, heartache or whatever -- you screamloudly; and anyone who comes to talk to you, you don't talk in the usual wayanymore, because you're in pain.
Similarly, when you are in a mental orpsychological pain, you talk also in a very grouchy way, very cross. But thatis understandable. So if we -- any so-called loving partner or family member --do not understand even this very least, very basic concept, then we'refinished. Then we are really in a bad situation. It's not that the partner willdo anything to us. Whether he does anything to us later or not, that is noproblem. The problem is us. The problem is we degrade ourselves, that we makeless of a being of ourselves than we should be, than we are supposed to be, orthat we really are. So do not make less of a being of yourselves.
True love is we stick together in"thick and thin". Especially when it's thin, when it's troublesome.Then we should really bridge over the "troubled water". That's whatthey say in English. But most of us fail the test, to ourselves, not to ourpartners. He might leave you, he might stay with you, because you're nice ornot nice. But you fail yourself. You leave yourself. You leave the most noblebeing that you really are. So we should check up on this to our family membersor whomever that is beloved and dear to us. Most of the time in criticalsituations, we just turn our backs and that is no good.
Of course we have our anger, ourfrustrations, because our partners are not as loving as usual, or whomever thatis; but he or she is in a different situation. At that time, he or she is inmental suffering. It's just as bad or even worse than physical suffering.Physical suffering you can take a pill or you can have an injection and itstops or at least temporarily stops, and you feel the effect right away; or atleast if people are in physical suffering, everyone sympathizes with them.
But when they are in mental anguish, and wepound them more on that, and we turn our backs and become cold and indifferent,that is even more cruel, even worse. That person will be swimming alone insuffering. And especially they trust us as the next of kin, the next person,the one that they think they can rely on in times of need; and then at thattime, we just turn around and are snobbish, because they didn't treat us niceso we just want to revenge. That's not the time. You can revenge later, when he'sin better shape. Just slap him.
Actually, at that time, the person is nothis usual self anymore. He was probably under very great pressure that he losthis own control. It's not really lost his own control, but for example, whenyou are in a hurry, your talk is different. Right? "Hand me that coat!Quick! Quick! Quick!" Things like that. But normally, you would say"Honey, please, can you give me that coat?" Is that not so? Or whenyou're in pain -- for example stomach pain, heartache or whatever -- you screamloudly; and anyone who comes to talk to you, you don't talk in the usual wayanymore, because you're in pain.
Similarly, when you are in a mental orpsychological pain, you talk also in a very grouchy way, very cross. But thatis understandable. So if we -- any so-called loving partner or family member --do not understand even this very least, very basic concept, then we'refinished. Then we are really in a bad situation. It's not that the partner willdo anything to us. Whether he does anything to us later or not, that is noproblem. The problem is us. The problem is we degrade ourselves, that we makeless of a being of ourselves than we should be, than we are supposed to be, orthat we really are. So do not make less of a being of yourselves.
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