Be Your Own Badass Sara Katherine

One of the most requested topics I had been receiving lately was to talk more about self-discovery when it comes to relationships and dating. As I started seeing more of these requests, I immediately knew I had to invite this week's guest Carly Ann to help answer your questions and share her expertise on building self-love and confidence while navigating relationships and being single.

In this episode, you'll learn:

* How to stop yourself from feeling bad when "everyone around you" is getting engaged
* How to navigate moments where you have trouble feeling content with being single
* How to show yourself genuine love and appreciation after a life of doing the opposite
* Carly's recommendation if you're someone who is navigating being single when you're usually in relationships
* How to tell someone you like them if you've been friends forever
* Carly's self-discovery tips specifically for understanding yourself when pursuing relationships, and learning if having feelings for someone is actually making you happy or not
* Carly's healing recommendations when recovering from old codependency traits, even while currently in a healthy relationship
* The best piece of advice Carly has ever received about finding yourself when navigating dating and relationships
* ...and much more!

About Carly

Carly Ann is a Self-Esteem & Relationship Coach, Podcaster, and Recovering Anxious Dater who is passionate about helping other women reclaim their worth in life & love.

Determined to put an end to you feeling 'too much', 'crazy', or 'needy' by giving you the inside scoop on why love makes you feel that way and how you can break free from people who enhance your insecurities.

Whether it is through her Podcast (Lessons in Love), free workshops, or private coaching, Carly Ann helps you go from insecure, anxious, and losing yourself in love, to feeling complete by yourself, totally irreplaceable, and standing in your power as the leader of your love life.

Instagram: @iamcarlyann [https://instagram.com/iamcarlyann]

Website: www.carly-ann.co.uk [http://www.carly-ann.co.uk/]

Podcast: Lessons in Love [https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/lessons-in-love/id1547284001]

Mentioned in This Episode

* Playing Big by Tara Mohr [https://www.amazon.com/Playing-Big-Practical-Wisdom-Create/dp/1592409601/ref=sr_1_1?crid=14HVPXHRRSSTX&dchild=1&keywords=playing+big&qid=1635824439&s=books&sprefix=playing+big%2Cstripbooks%2C240&sr=1-1]
* Loveability by Robert Holden, Ph.D. [https://www.amazon.com/Loveability-Robert-Holden-Ph-D/dp/140194163X]

Ways To Work With Sara

* Join the Self-Discovery Society Membership Community [https://sarakatherine.podia.com/self-discovery-society?utm_source=podcast]
* Get the Self-Discovery Starter Kit [https://sara-katherine.com/self-discovery-starter-kit/?utm_source=podcast&utm_medium=shownotes&utm_campaign=podcast]
* Books:
* I'm Awesome. Here's Why… [https://www.amazon.com/Im-Awesome-Heres-Why-Activities/dp/1507209622]
* You [https://www.amazon.com/Self-Discovery-Journal-Identify-Actualize-Passions/dp/1507217293/]r [https://www.amazon.com/Self-Discovery-Journal-Identify-Actualize-Passions/dp/1507217293/] Self-Discovery Journal [https://www.amazon.com/Self-Discovery-Journal-Identify-Actualize-Passions/dp/1507217293/]
* Be Happy. Be Calm. Be YOU [https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/1507215533]

When you start getting to know yourself better, there's a big chance that some activities or relationships in your life may feel a bit out of alignment compared to how they used to make you feel. The more you learn about who you are and what you really want, the more you'll want to shift various areas of your life to match the personal growth you're experiencing internally. 

This month's self-discovery activity gives you tips on what to do when you start losing interest in the goals and hobbies that you originally had before diving into your self-discovery journey, and how to bring the passion and spark back into your life in a way that feels aligned and authentic to you!

This activity has been pulled from my upcoming book, Your Self-Discovery Journal, coming March 2022. Preorder your copy to explore even more self-discovery activities here! [https://www.simonandschuster.com/books/Your-Self-Discovery-Journal/Sara-Katherine/9781507217290?utm_source=author_post&utm_medium=author_podcast&utm_campaign=adams_lead_fall&utm_content=]

Mentioned in This Episode

* I'm Awesome. Here's Why...: 110 Lists, Activities, and Prompts to Remind You Why You're Amazing [https://www.simonandschuster.com/books/Im-Awesome-Heres-Why/Sara-Katherine/9781507209622]
* Episode 29: What is the Self-Discovery Society? [https://sara-katherine.com/2021/10/what-is-the-self-discovery-society/]

Ways To Work With Sara

* Join the Self-Discovery Society Membership Community [https://sarakatherine.podia.com/self-discovery-society?utm_source=podcast]
* Self-Discovery Starter Kit [https://sara-katherine.com/self-discovery-starter-kit/?utm_source=podcast&utm_medium=shownotes&utm_campaign=podcast]
* Books:
* I'm Awesome. Here's Why… [https://www.amazon.com/Im-Awesome-Heres-Why-Activities/dp/1507209622]
* You [https://www.amazon.com/Self-Discovery-Journal-Identify-Actualize-Passions/dp/1507217293/]r [https://www.amazon.com/Self-Discovery-Journal-Identify-Actualize-Passions/dp/1507217293/] Self-Discovery Journal [https://www.amazon.com/Self-Discovery-Journal-Identify-Actualize-Passions/dp/1507217293/]
* Be Happy. Be Calm. Be YOU [https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/1507215533]

Connect with Sara on Instagram @coachsarakatherine [http://instagram.com/coachsarakatherine].

Big news! The membership program that we've all been waiting for has officially opened its doors to the public!

The Self-Discovery Society is my new online membership program created to help you find clarity, confidence and empowerment in order to start creating the life you want.

Depending on your membership plan, the Self-Discovery Society will provide you with ongoing support, an accepting like-minded community, and other amazing benefits.

Listen to the episode to learn more details, hear testimonials from current members, and plans for the future of the membership!

Join the Self-Discovery Society Here! [https://sarakatherine.podia.com/self-discovery-society?utm_source=podcast]

Mentioned in this episode:

* 6 Ways I Completely Changed My Life in One Year [https://sara-katherine.com/2019/12/change-life-one-year/]

Ways To Work With Sara

* Join the Self-Discovery Society Membership Community [https://sarakatherine.podia.com/self-discovery-society?utm_source=podcast]
* Self-Discovery Starter Kit [https://sara-katherine.com/self-discovery-starter-kit/?utm_source=podcast&utm_medium=shownotes&utm_campaign=podcast]
* Books:
* I'm Awesome. Here's Why… [https://www.amazon.com/Im-Awesome-Heres-Why-Activities/dp/1507209622]
* You [https://www.amazon.com/Self-Discovery-Journal-Identify-Actualize-Passions/dp/1507217293/]r [https://www.amazon.com/Self-Discovery-Journal-Identify-Actualize-Passions/dp/1507217293/] Self-Discovery Journal [https://www.amazon.com/Self-Discovery-Journal-Identify-Actualize-Passions/dp/1507217293/]
* Be Happy. Be Calm. Be YOU [https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/1507215533]

Connect with Sara on Instagram @coachsarakatherine [http://instagram.com/coachsarakatherine].

Want to start diving into self-discovery and personal growth, but are confused about what it takes to truly become the best version of yourself?

What does the "best version" of yourself even look like?

Listen to this episode to learn the answers to these questions and more about the best way to work towards transforming into the best version of yourself.

Additional topics covered:

* What the best version of yourself really means
* Six tips for working towards becoming the best version of yourself
* Why surrounding yourself with positive people will help you immensely along your journey
* The difference between feeling uncomfortable due to negative feelings/reactions versus stepping outside of your comfort zone for growth
* A bonus tip for being kind to yourself and where you are now in your journey

Mentioned in this episode:

* Episode 20: How to Start Your Self-Discovery Journey [https://sara-katherine.com/2021/08/start-self-discovery-journey/]
* Episode 18: Self-Discovery Activity - Identify Your Values [https://sara-katherine.com/2021/07/self-discovery-activity-identify-your-values/]
* Episode 23: The Power of Self-Compassion and Self-Love (Feat. Laura from @TheSelfSet) [https://sara-katherine.com/2021/09/self-compassion-self-love/]
* Blog post: Why You Should Surround Yourself With Positive People [https://sara-katherine.com/2017/07/positive-people/]

Want to ask a question that can be answered in a future episode? Send in your question here. [https://sara-katherine.com/badassquestion]

Ways To Work With Sara

* Join the Self-Discovery Society Membership Community [https://sarakatherine.podia.com/self-discovery-society?utm_source=podcast]
* Self-Discovery Starter Kit [https://sara-katherine.com/self-discovery-starter-kit/?utm_source=podcast&utm_medium=shownotes&utm_campaign=podcast]
* Books:
* I'm Awesome. Here's Why… [https://www.amazon.com/Im-Awesome-Heres-Why-Activities/dp/1507209622]
* You [https://www.amazon.com/Self-Discovery-Journal-Identify-Actualize-Passions/dp/1507217293/]r [https://www.amazon.com/Self-Discovery-Journal-Identify-Actualize-Passions/dp/1507217293/] Self-Discovery Journal [https://www.amazon.com/Self-Discovery-Journal-Identify-Actualize-Passions/dp/1507217293/]
* Be Happy. Be Calm. Be YOU [https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/1507215533]

Connect with Sara on Instagram @coachsarakatherine [http://instagram.com/coachsarakatherine].

Self-care expert and mindset coach Kelsie from Simply Bentley joins me to talk about ways you can prevent yourself from experiencing burnout with effective and realistic self-care routines. 

What you'll learn in this episode:

* Kelsie's experience before and after she established healthy self-care routines during her time as a hairstylist experiencing extreme burnout
* How her view on self-care has changed over time
* How Kelsie navigates particularly stressful times in her life
* Signs of oncoming burnout to be aware of
* Kelsie's suggestions for those who are just getting started building a self-care routine, or if you're on the verge of experiencing burnout
* The best piece of advice she ever received about self-care

 

About Kelsie

Kelsie Bentley is a self-care and mindset coach who helps women with irregular schedules create sustainable routines to prevent burnout and promote better self-care. She got her start coaching women from behind the chair as a hairstylist and dove deep into the work of self-care after going through her own experience with burnout. 

Her written work can be found on sites such as Mama Minimalist, The Hive, and Morning Laziness, and she has been featured on several podcasts including Healing Unscripted and All Things Relax. 

When Kelsie isn't helping people feel good inside and out, Kelsie enjoys reading personal development books, being a lazy gardener, and sharing meals with friends. Kelsie lives in Central Illinois with her husband, Brett, her black Lab, Clark, and her sassy calico cat, Lois.

* Instagram: @simplybentley [https://instagram.com/simplybentley]
* YouTube: Simply Bentley [https://www.youtube.com/c/SimplyBentley]
* Facebook: Simply Bentley [https://www.facebook.com/SimplyBentley/]
* Tiktok: simplybentley17 [https://www.tiktok.com/@simplybentley17]

 

Ways To Work With Sara

* Join the Self-Discovery Society Membership Community [https://sarakatherine.podia.com/self-discovery-society?utm_source=podcast]
* Self-Discovery Starter Kit [https://sara-katherine.com/self-discovery-starter-kit/?utm_source=podcast&utm_medium=shownotes&utm_campaign=podcast]
* Books:
* I'm Awesome. Here's Why… [https://www.amazon.com/Im-Awesome-Heres-Why-Activities/dp/1507209622]
* You [https://www.amazon.com/Self-Discovery-Journal-Identify-Actualize-Passions/dp/1507217293/]r [https://www.amazon.com/Self-Discovery-Journal-Identify-Actualize-Passions/dp/1507217293/] Self-Discovery Journal [https://www.amazon.com/Self-Discovery-Journal-Identify-Actualize-Passions/dp/1507217293/]
* Be Happy. Be Calm. Be YOU [https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/1507215533]

 

Connect with Sara on Instagram @coachsarakatherine. [http://instagram.com/coachsarakatherine]

Are you feeling a bit stuck in your life, comparing your timeline to others', or feel like you haven't accomplished what you "should" have by this point in your life? This activity is going to help you realize that you are doing such a great job, give you perspective on what you truly want, and understand that your own personal timeline is special and perfect for YOU.

This activity was pulled from my self-confidence guided journal, I'm Awesome. Here's Why..., and if you'd like to use the diagram created to help you through the process, you can purchase the book here [https://www.amazon.com/Im-Awesome-Heres-Why-Activities/dp/1507209622/].

If you have the book already, you can find the diagram and instructions for this activity on page NUMBER. This isn't required, but it can definitely help elevate the impact and make it fun!

When you're done, share them with me! Either privately in my Instagram DMs or share them on your story and tag me @coachsarakatherine [https://instagram.com/coachsarakatherine]!

Requests for future activities? Send me a DM or submit requests on my website [https://sara-katherine.com/badassquestion].

Previous Self-Discovery Activities:

* Identify Your Values [https://sara-katherine.com/2021/07/self-discovery-activity-identify-your-values/?utm_source=podcast]
* Take Personality Tests [https://sara-katherine.com/2021/08/self-discovery-activity-personality-tests/?utm_source=podcast]

Ways To Work With Sara

* Join the Self-Discovery Society [https://sarakatherine.podia.com/self-discovery-society?utm_source=podcast]
* Self-Discovery Starter Kit [https://sara-katherine.com/self-discovery-starter-kit/?utm_source=podcast&utm_medium=shownotes&utm_campaign=podcast]
* Books:
* I'm Awesome. Here's Why… [https://www.amazon.com/Im-Awesome-Heres-Why-Activities/dp/1507209622]
* You [https://www.amazon.com/Self-Discovery-Journal-Identify-Actualize-Passions/dp/1507217293/]r [https://www.amazon.com/Self-Discovery-Journal-Identify-Actualize-Passions/dp/1507217293/] Self-Discovery Journal [https://www.amazon.com/Self-Discovery-Journal-Identify-Actualize-Passions/dp/1507217293/]
* Be Happy. Be Calm. Be YOU [https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/1507215533]

Connect with Sara on Instagram @coachsarakatherine [http://instagram.com/coachsarakatherine].