Power To Speak with Confidence. Conversations that will inspire and empower‪.‬ Jackie Goddard

Positive persuasion takes sincerity, honesty, and respect. You need to communicate effectively and build rapport with your audience, whoever they are. In this Speaking About Speaking episode, I discuss how you can speak confidently and persuasively.
As my friend and fellow speaker, Andrew Thorp says, we are all in the persuasion business.
Whenever we speak, we hope to influence, build trust, and create emotional bonds, whether for business, a relationship or as a parent but how do we do that without crossing over to the dark side of manipulation and arrogance?
I start the episode by sharing my 5 top tips on speaking with confidence...
1. Believe what you are saying.
2. Breathe
3. Be prepared
4. Vocal variety
5. Tell a story
And then I talk about the devices and techniques we can use to influence and persuade, in a good way. 😊
Here are links to techniques I mentioned in the video:
Belly Breathing: https://youtu.be/ajYXuhlEndY
Box Breathing: https://youtu.be/n-FyY1qdyTQ
Barbara McAfee TEDx: https://youtu.be/Ze763kgrWGg?si=p4fDrNMtPZWXc7cq
To find out more about Power To Speak coaching follow Jackie Goddard on LinkedIn https://www.linkedin.com/in/jackiegoddardpowertospeak/
Or message her through the website: www.powertospeak.co.uk
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My guest for this previously live episode of Speaking About Speaking is coaching offer expert, Sales & Marketing Strategist and B2B Speaker, Janine Coombes.
Janine’s speciality is in positioning services and helping coach- shaped clients create sizzling hot offers. For me though it’s her love of performing (she used to have a covers band!) and comedy which shines through her always colourful, sometimes irreverent and often hysterical posts on social media that makes her so watchable.
With over 15 years of industry experience including working with big brands like Orange, EE and Europcar, Janine has also delivered many engaging talks both on and offline including Atomicon, You Are The Media, Elevate and MarketEd.Live.
We obviously discuss her madcap videos, dressing up as characters and her love of improv but she also shares her best speaking advice, how she found self love through LinkedIn video and how you don't have to be a performer to sell your offers - but it helps!
Find Janine at: https://janinecoombes.co.uk/
You can sign up for her free workshop on Thursday 13 June here: https://janinecoombes.co.uk/coaching-sales-workshop/
To find out more about Power To Speak coaching follow Jackie Goddard on LinkedIn https://www.linkedin.com/in/jackiegoddardpowertospeak/
Or message her through the website: www.powertospeak.co.uk
For tips and techniques on improving your public speaking and getting in front of your audience, sign up for the fortnightly Power To Speak newsletter: https://powertospeak.co.uk/newsletter/
And subscribe to the channel for more tips and techniques on how to get excited to speak to your audience.

At the end of last year Brand Strategist, Podcast Host, and Founder of Brand Compass, Shelley Röstlund asked me to help her prepare for a talk she’d been asked to give on stage to an audience of 200 peers for You Are the Media Creator Day in Poole, Dorset in April.
She’d been on stage before but found it uncomfortable, so much so she couldn’t even remember the experience. She explained during a conversation we had for this podcast in February how she was terrified of the ‘bobbing’ heads beyond the lights!
Well, she did it! I was there and can report, that in fact - she smashed it!
Even better than that, she remembers the whole experience and she had some amazing feedback (she got mobbed in the ladies after!)
This conversation was our first chance to have a full debrief about the day, the talk and the aftermath.
We discuss the process I took her through. From ‘pulling out’ the stories that were relevant and would resonate with the audience to getting her past ‘uncanny valley’.
Shelley underlines the importance of storytelling for your personal brand. It was also something that she took away from our work together. The quality of conversations she had after the event surprised her. In our conversation she tells me she’s learnt not to edit those stories because you don’t know what will ultimately resonate with the audience.
She says, ‘tell your story, in your voice and in a way that’s comfortable for you’.
I couldn’t has said it better myself.
 
If you're about to give a talk or presentation and want to speak with confidence.
Or if speaking to your audience is something you want to do more of, but fear is holding you back, then my conversation with Shelley is a must!
 
Find Shelley at: https://shelleyrostlund.com/
To find out more about Power To Speak coaching follow Jackie Goddard on LinkedIn https://www.linkedin.com/in/jackiegoddardpowertospeak/
Or message her through the website: www.powertospeak.co.uk
For tips and techniques on improving your public speaking and getting in front of your audience, sign up for the fortnightly Power To Speak newsletter: https://powertospeak.co.uk/newsletter/
And subscribe to the channel for more tips and techniques on how to get excited to speak to your audience.

For this previously live episode of Speaking about Speaking I spoke with Michelle Haslam, a TikTok-preneur known as the TikTok Lady.
The mid 40’s mother of two uses her own experience with the platform to show small business owners how to use it to grow their business (without having to dance!)
Having started her own small business in affiliate marketing in May 2021 alongside a part-time 9-5, she moved to TikTok to promote it. She admits being shockingly bad at first but stuck with it and after researching, learning and honing her videos to suit the platform’s algorithm started making some traction.
She is now making consistent sales and has over 95k followers on one of her accounts.
Her mid-life TikTok ‘influencer’ status means that she is now invited to speak on stages about her experience.
She tells me how with my help she is now comfortable and excited to get in front of an audience (also, how I got her sweeping my kitchen floor with her finger tips!!)
We also discuss how she how she monetises her TikTok feed, copes with the inevitable Trolls and how she managed to be featured in the Irish Sun Newspaper for rubbing banana peel into her face!
Follow Michelle on TikTok at https://www.tiktok.com/@michelle.haslam.official
To find out more about Power To Speak coaching follow Jackie Goddard on LinkedIn https://www.linkedin.com/in/jackiegoddardpowertospeak/
Or message her through the website: www.powertospeak.co.uk
For tips and techniques on improving your public speaking and getting in front of your audience, sign up for the fortnightly Power To Speak newsletter: https://powertospeak.co.uk/newsletter/
And subscribe to the channel for more tips and techniques on how to get excited to speak to your audience.

My guest for this previously live episode of Speaking About Speaking is Corporate LinkedIn trainer, employee advocacy expert and Keynote Speaker, Sarah Clay.
In the past Sarah has trained as a lawyer, produced TV and music videos, and ran marketing and PR departments.
Sarah loves LinkedIn and now runs her own social media business training people how to use the platform and speaks to audiences on the subject too.
She grew up as the only girl with six loud and confident brothers which meant she had to quickly learn the art of making herself heard. Being raised in a male-dominated environment, she’s a woman with a burning desire to change the world. Which she is doing by regularly stepping on stages and hosting her own podcast from her luscious Live Lounge.
Sarah and I have met several times at You Are the Media and Digital Women events. And we’ve played pool and danced a couple of times too (I like to think if we’d we met at school, we’d have been BFF’s! 😊)
She tells me how she went from lawyer to Producer to Marketer and then Speaker (and soon to be author 🤫)! We also, discuss employee advocacy i.e., getting employees to act as their companies brand ambassador by posting work related content on social media. A win win, as in doing so not only do they boost the company brand but their own personal brand too. Such a fabulous conversation.
Find out more about Sarah here: https://sarahclaysocial.com/
Or connect on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/sarah-clay/
To find out more about Power To Speak coaching follow Jackie Goddard on LinkedIn https://www.linkedin.com/in/jackiegoddardpowertospeak/
Or message her through the website: www.powertospeak.co.uk
For tips and techniques on improving your public speaking and getting in front of your audience, sign up for the fortnightly Power To Speak newsletter: https://powertospeak.co.uk/newsletter/
And subscribe to the channel for more tips and techniques on how to get excited to speak to your audience.

Don't Worry About Worrying!
It doesn't matter who we are or what situation we are in we all worry! We ALL get anxious.
So should we worry about it? Does it mean there is something wrong with us?
For this previously live episode of the Speaking about Speaking podcast I'll be sharing my thoughts on the subject and the advice I give not just to clients, but to family and friends when they are facing a situation that causes them discomfort.
I talk about getting comfortable outside of your comfort zone, using status exercises so you don't have to 'fake it until you make it' and how to we ALL get nervous when we have to do anything for the first time.
Plus I share other peoples thoughts on how to deal with walking in to a room full of strangers and feeling comfortable with small talk.
What worries you? A social situation? A business network? Talking to work colleagues? Presenting to an audience?
Leave me a comment below.
And subscribe to the channel for more tips and techniques on how to get excited to speak to your audience.
To find out more about Power To Speak coaching follow Jackie Goddard on LinkedIn https://www.linkedin.com/in/jackiegoddardpowertospeak/
Or message her through the website: www.powertospeak.co.uk
For tips and techniques on improving your public speaking and getting in front of your audience, sign up for the fortnightly Power To Speak newsletter: https://powertospeak.co.uk/newsletter/
 
Here are the links mentioned in the episode...
 
Belly Breathing for performance: https://youtu.be/ajYXuhlEndY
Breathing to help anxiety: https://youtu.be/n-FyY1qdyTQ
Amy Cuddy at TED, Superposing: https://www.ted.com/talks/amy_cuddy_your_body_language_may_shape_who_you_are?utm_campaign=tedspread&utm_medium=referral&utm_source=tedcomshare
Tim Box at TEDx: https://youtu.be/ZidGozDhOjg?si=jpFrXQRz8SJooPoc