Learning Success

Liz Weaver

A podcast by Learning Success Helping You Embrace Your Child's Brilliance To Unleash Their Potential The Learning Success podcast brings you the latest news, tips, and techniques for overcoming a learning disability. Especially for those suffering from Dyslexia, Dyscalculia, Dysgraphia, or ADHD. Or those who just have difficulty in math, reading, writing, or spelling. Join us to learn the latest in overcoming weaknesses associated with these conditions as well as enhancing strengths. How you deal with a learning difficulty has a huge effect on your overall life.

  1. 1 SEPT

    How do I set boundaries and manage my child's behavior while still being emotionally supportive, and what actually works for long-term behavior change?

    Episode 11: Behavior Management with Emotional Intelligence How do I set boundaries and manage my child's behavior while still being emotionally supportive, and what actually works for long-term behavior change? In this final episode of our comprehensive series, we tackle the biggest challenge parents face: balancing emotional understanding with effective discipline. Discover how to integrate everything you've learned about emotional intelligence with science-based behavior management that actually works for lasting change. What You'll Learn: Why traditional punishment-based approaches often backfire and make problems worseThe science of reinforcement and how children actually learn from consequencesHow to redesign your household so children earn privileges rather than lose themWhy giving in to tantrums or getting angry both inadvertently reinforce problem behaviorsHow to be the "CEO of your household" with calm confidence instead of reactive controlThe crucial difference between acknowledging emotions and enabling inappropriate behavior Breakthrough Behavior Strategies: Earning vs. Losing Systems: Why children should always be working toward privileges rather than having them revokedAvoiding Reinforcement Traps: How attention (even negative attention) can strengthen unwanted behaviorsConsistent Follow-Through: Why consequences must be sustainable and enforceableThe Power of Ignoring: When not responding is the most effective intervention Real-World Applications: What to do when your child whines to get out of chores or homeworkHow to handle tantrums without reinforcing themSetting up earning schedules that motivate rather than frustrateResponding to disrespectful behavior while maintaining emotional connectionCreating household systems that naturally encourage cooperation Integration with Emotional Intelligence: How to validate feelings while maintaining behavioral expectationsUsing emotional awareness to understand the "why" behind behavior without excusing itTeaching children that emotions are information, not excuses for inappropriate actionsHelping children learn that feelings are always acceptable, behaviors are not always acceptable Key Scientific Insights: How reinforcement creates permanent neural pathways in the brainWhy punishment often leads to sneaking, lying, and avoidance rather than genuine behavior changeThe symbiotic relationship between parent behavior and child behaviorHow consequences actually shape habits and character over time Avoiding Common Pitfalls: Why inconsistent consequences undermine all your effortsHow to avoid consequences you can't actually enforceThe problems with threats, bribes, and emotional manipulationWhy "punishment parenting" often creates adversarial relationships Building Strong Family Systems: Creating clear expectations and earning opportunitiesTeaching children to work for what they want rather than expecting everything for freeDeveloping internal motivation rather than external complianceBuilding character through accountability and responsibility This episode completes your transformation from reactive parenting to intentional, science-based family leadership that honors emotions while building strong character. This final episode completes our comprehensive series based on hundreds of hours of research and expert interviews. Also available as a complete course at learningsuccess.ai and as a video documentary on Amazon Prime. Get the Free Learning Success Emotional Intelligence Course https://learningsuccess.ai/course/documentary-overly-emotional-child/ Watch The Overly Emotional Child on Amazon Prime https://www.amazon.com/Overly-Emotional-Child-Liz-Weaver/dp/B08M3C8P6B

    43 min

  2. 29 AUG

    Why does my child seem to have such extreme difficulty with emotional regulation despite all my efforts?

    Episode 10: Understanding Emotional Dysregulation Why does my child seem to have such extreme difficulty with emotional regulation despite all my efforts, and could there be an underlying neurological or sensory processing issue? If you've been consistently implementing emotional intelligence strategies but your child still struggles significantly more than others with regulation, this episode provides crucial insights you need. Discover when emotional challenges may be rooted in underlying neurological differences that require specialized understanding and support. In this essential episode, we explore the difference between typical emotional development and actual regulation disorders that stem from sensory processing differences. What You'll Learn: The difference between emotional learning challenges and actual regulation disordersHow the brainstem processes sensory information and determines "safe vs. unsafe"Two types of regulation disorders: modulation disorders and self-regulation disordersWhy some children appear hyperactive while others seem anxious or withdrawnHow processing breakdowns in the brainstem create emotional stormsThe role of brain plasticity in developing better regulation skills Key Concepts Covered: Modulation Disorders: When children are unable to become regulated (processing breakdown in lower brainstem)Self-Regulation Disorders: When children can become regulated but struggle to stay regulated (processing breakdown in upper brainstem)How the nervous system's "safety detection" system can malfunctionWhy some children need sensory input while others become overwhelmed by it Understanding Different Presentations: The "tornado" child: hyperactive, seeking stimulation, then crashing into sluggishnessThe anxious child: hiding, resisting, limiting input, then becoming aggressive when overwhelmedChildren who flip between these states unpredictablyHow both presentations stem from the same underlying processing challenges Hope Through Science: Brain plasticity: how all brains can change and grow throughout lifeBottom-up approaches that focus on brainstem rewiring rather than just behavior modificationHow sensory programs can carve new neural pathways for better regulationWhy understanding the neurological basis leads to more effective interventions For Parents: When to seek professional evaluation for sensory processing differencesHow to distinguish between willful behavior and neurological overwhelmWhy traditional discipline approaches may not work for children with regulation disordersHow to advocate for your child's unique nervous system needsFinding hope when conventional parenting strategies aren't effective Practical Applications: Recognizing signs that your child may have underlying processing differencesUnderstanding why your child might need different approaches than their siblingsHow to support a child whose brainstem struggles with safety detectionCreating environments that support rather than overwhelm sensitive nervous systems Key Takeaways: Regulation difficulties are neurological differences, not character flaws or parenting failuresUnderstanding the "why" behind struggles leads to more effective supportBrain plasticity means improvement is always possible with the right approachesSome children need specialized support to develop skills that come naturally to othersBottom-up interventions can be more effective than top-down behavioral strategies alone Based on hundreds of hours of research and expert interviews. Also available as a complete course at learningsuccess.ai and as a video documentary on Amazon Prime. Get the Free Learning Success Emotional Intelligence Course https://learningsuccess.ai/course/documentary-overly-emotional-child/ Watch The Overly Emotional Child on Amazon Prime https://www.amazon.com/Overly-Emotional-Child-Liz-Weaver/dp/B08M3C8P6B

    14 min

  3. 27 AUG

    What does emotional intelligence look like in real family life?

    Episode 9: Building Emotional Intelligence How do I know if what I'm doing is actually working, and what does emotional intelligence look like in real family life? If you've been implementing the strategies from this series and wondering whether you're on the right track, this episode will give you the confidence and clarity you need. Discover what true emotional intelligence looks like when it all comes together, and learn to recognize progress even when it doesn't match your expectations. In this inspiring culmination episode, we bring together all the principles from our series and show you the beautiful transformation that happens when children develop genuine emotional intelligence. You'll hear real success stories and learn what to look for as your child grows in emotional maturity. What You'll Learn: How to recognize when your child is developing emotional independenceThe difference between supporting your child and solving their problems for themWhat it looks like when children feel truly "seen" and "heard"How to give children space to work through emotions while remaining availableSigns that your emotional intelligence work is paying offThe beautiful balance between guidance and independence Real Transformation Stories: Children learning to work through emotions independentlyParents stepping back and trusting their child's emotional processing abilitiesHow providing "safe space" leads to better outcomes than immediate problem-solvingExamples of children developing confidence in their own emotional regulation skills The TLC Framework in Action: Meeting children on Their home turf through age-appropriate communicationLowering defenses by approaching with creativity rather than confrontationCreating genuine Connection that builds emotional intelligence over time Key Signs of Progress: Your child asks for space when they need it rather than shutting downThey can identify and name their emotions more easilyThey show increased confidence in handling difficult situationsThey seek support when needed but try to work through problems firstTheir emotional outbursts become less frequent and intense over time What Emotional Intelligence Looks Like: Children who feel safe expressing all emotions appropriatelyKids who can self-soothe and problem-solve independentlyFamilies where difficult emotions are met with understanding rather than fearChildren who trust their own ability to handle life's challengesParents who can stay calm and supportive without taking over For Parents: How to trust the process when your child is still strugglingRecognizing that emotional growth isn't always linearUnderstanding when to step in versus when to step backCelebrating small wins and gradual progressBuilding your own confidence as an emotionally intelligent parent Key Takeaways: Emotional intelligence isn't about eliminating difficult emotions - it's about building skills to handle themChildren develop confidence through working through challenges, not avoiding themYour role shifts from problem-solver to supportive guideReal success looks like children who trust their own emotional abilitiesEvery interaction is an opportunity to build emotional intelligence This episode celebrates how far you've come while giving you practical ways to recognize and nurture continued emotional growth in your family. Perfect for: Parents wanting to assess their progress, anyone needing encouragement about their emotional intelligence journey, or those ready to see the bigger picture of raising emotionally capable children. Based on hundreds of hours of research and expert interviews. Also available as a complete course at learningsuccess.ai and as a video documentary on Amazon Prime. Get the Free Learning Success Emotional Intelligence Course https://learningsuccess.ai/course/documentary-overly-emotional-child/ Watch The Overly Emotional Child on Amazon Prime https://www.amazon.com/Overly-Emotional-Child-Liz-Weaver/dp/B08M3C8P6B

    14 min

  4. 25 AUG

    What can I do when my child shuts down or can't talk about their emotions, and how do I connect with them when words aren't working?

    Episode 8 : Externalizing Emotions What can I do when my child shuts down or can't talk about their emotions, and how do I connect with them when words aren't working? If you've ever felt stuck when your child refuses to talk about their feelings, shuts down emotionally, or seems too overwhelmed for words, this episode will open up entirely new possibilities for connection and healing. Discover powerful alternatives to verbal communication that can reach your child when traditional talking approaches fail. In this innovative episode, we explore why sometimes the most healing thing you can do is stop talking altogether and try something completely different. You'll learn how creative expression, visual cues, and non-verbal communication can help your child process emotions in ways that words alone cannot achieve. What You'll Learn: Why verbal communication becomes nearly impossible when children are emotionally overwhelmedHow sensory systems (rhythm, movement, visual cues) stay online even when words failThe power of creative expression to help children externalize their emotionsHow drawing and art allow children to see their feelings from a safe distanceWhy creative approaches help thinking brain integrate with feeling brainThe "TLC" method: Their home turf, Lowering defenses, Connection through creativity Breakthrough Techniques: Using drawings as "mediators" between you and your childSimple visual communication (sad faces, speech bubbles) that bypasses verbal barriersHow art materials can become tools for emotional expressionCreating safe spaces for non-verbal emotional processingHelping children understand their internal world through external expression Real-World Applications: What to do when your child says "I don't want to talk" or "go away"How to approach a child who's locked themselves in their roomUsing creative activities during calm moments to build emotional processing skillsMeeting children where they are instead of forcing adult communication stylesRecognizing when to step back from verbal approaches Key Insights: Children's verbal skills go offline during emotional stress, but creativity remains accessibleMeeting children "on their home turf" feels less threatening than adult-focused talkingCreative expression allows emotions to become visible and manageableSometimes connection happens through doing rather than discussingNon-verbal approaches can be more effective than words for many children Why This Works: Removes the pressure and defensiveness that "we need to talk" createsAllows children to communicate at their own pace and comfort levelHelps overwhelmed children organize chaotic emotional experiencesCreates opportunities for connection without forcing vulnerabilityBuilds bridge between emotional brain and thinking brain Key Takeaways: Sometimes the most powerful parenting tool is putting down words and picking up crayonsCreative approaches work for all children, not just "artistic" onesNon-verbal connection can be just as healing as verbal processingChildren often communicate more honestly through creative expressionThese techniques work especially well with children who feel "too big" emotions for words This episode transforms how you think about emotional communication and gives you practical tools for reaching your child when traditional approaches aren't working. Perfect for: Parents of children who shut down emotionally, anyone whose child resists talking about feelings, or those wanting creative alternatives to verbal processing. Based on hundreds of hours of research and expert interviews. Also available as a complete course at learningsuccess.ai and as a video documentary on Amazon Prime. Get the Free Learning Success Emotional Intelligence Course https://learningsuccess.ai/course/documentary-overly-emotional-child/ Watch The Overly Emotional Child on Amazon Prime https://www.amazon.com/Overly-Emotional-Child-Liz-Weaver/dp/B08M3C8P6B

    13 min

  5. 22 AUG

    How do I help my child understand and express their emotions in healthy ways, and how do I process my own difficult parenting emotions?

    Episode 7: Processing Emotions How do I help my child understand and express their emotions in healthy ways, and how do I process my own difficult parenting emotions? If you've ever wondered whether emotions are "good" or "bad," or struggled to help your child work through big feelings without either dismissing them or getting overwhelmed yourself, this episode will transform your entire relationship with emotions. Discover why emotions - even difficult ones - are actually here to help you. In this essential episode, we explore the art of healthy emotional processing for both parents and children. You'll learn why emotions are valuable messengers providing important information, and discover practical techniques for helping your child develop emotional literacy while managing your own challenging parenting emotions. What You'll Learn: Why emotions are not bad - they're messengers here to help usThe crucial difference between feeling emotions and communicating them poorlyHow to help your child identify and name their emotions for healthy brain developmentThe concept of "horizontal brain integration" - pairing words with emotional experiencesWhy running from emotions or suppressing them makes things worseHow to find safe spaces to process your own difficult parenting emotionsThe food digestion analogy - why emotions need to be "fully processed" Key Insights Covered: Emotions are only problematic when they're communicated poorly or left unprocessedChildren need external help to "give order" to their chaotic emotional experiencesYour children are "truth mirrors" reflecting what's already inside youTaking responsibility for your emotions frees your child to be themselvesValidating feelings doesn't mean validating inappropriate behavior Practical Techniques: How to say what you see: "I can see that made you pretty upset"Teaching children the difference between feeling angry and acting aggressivelyFinding safe people or places to express difficult parenting emotionsModeling emotional vulnerability appropriately with your childrenUsing emotions as information rather than allowing them to control behavior For Parents: How to process feelings of not liking your child's personality sometimesDealing with adoption challenges, special needs, or overwhelming parenting situationsFinding support groups and safe spaces for honest emotional expressionUnderstanding that admitting struggles is strength, not weaknessLearning to be authentic without burdening your children Key Takeaways: Emotions become gifts when they're fully processed rather than repressedYou can't teach emotional processing skills you don't have yourselfChildren learn emotional regulation by watching how you handle your emotionsAll feelings are acceptable, even when all behaviors are notEmotional honesty creates deeper family connections This episode helps you develop a completely new relationship with emotions - both yours and your child's - turning them from obstacles into allies. Perfect for: Parents struggling with their own difficult emotions, anyone wanting to help their child develop emotional literacy, or those ready to break generational patterns of emotional suppression. Based on hundreds of hours of research and expert interviews. Also available as a complete course at learningsuccess.ai and as a video documentary on Amazon Prime. Get the Free Learning Success Emotional Intelligence Course https://learningsuccess.ai/course/documentary-overly-emotional-child/ Watch The Overly Emotional Child on Amazon Prime https://www.amazon.com/Overly-Emotional-Child-Liz-Weaver/dp/B08M3C8P6B

    25 min

  6. 20 AUG

    How can I control my thoughts and emotions in challenging parenting moments, and what can I do to stay calm when I feel myself getting overwhelmed?

    Episode 6 Mindfulness and Emotional How can I control my thoughts and emotions in challenging parenting moments, and what can I do to stay calm when I feel myself getting overwhelmed? If you've ever felt like your thoughts and emotions control you instead of the other way around, this episode will be a game-changer. Discover the revolutionary truth that your child's behavior isn't causing your emotions - your thoughts about their behavior are. And since you can choose your thoughts, you can choose your emotional experience. In this transformative episode, we explore the most powerful parenting skill of all: gaining actual control over your thoughts and emotions in real-time. You'll learn practical mindfulness techniques that work in the heat of the moment, not just during quiet meditation time. What You'll Learn: The revolutionary concept of "thought deliveries" and how to choose which ones to accept or rejectWhy your thoughts about what happened matter more than what actually happenedThe GPS Emotional Reset Exercise for immediate calm during overwhelming momentsSpecific breathing techniques that actually calm your nervous system (belly breathing to stimulate the vagus nerve)How to catch yourself before you "flip your lid" and choose a different responsePractical mindfulness exercises that busy parents can actually useHow to model healthy emotional processing for your children in real-time Breakthrough Insights: Your child's behavior isn't causing your emotion - your thoughts about it areYou can choose which thoughts to hold onto and which to let goDifferent thoughts about the same situation create completely different emotionsMindfulness isn't about perfection - it's about awareness and choiceEvery time you choose calm, you're teaching your child emotional regulation Real-World Applications: What to do when you feel heat rising in your face during a child's meltdownHow to take a "parent timeout" without feeling guiltyTechniques for staying present instead of catastrophizing about your child's futureWays to practice emotional regulation when you're not in crisisHow to repair and model accountability when you do lose your cool Specific Techniques Covered: The GPS method: Gift of time, Presence, and Speaking with intentionDeep belly breathing for immediate nervous system regulationDaily gratitude practices that anchor emotional stabilityMindful pause techniques you can use anywhere, anytime Key Takeaways: You have far more choice over your emotional responses than you realizePracticing mindfulness in calm moments prepares you for challenging onesYour emotional regulation directly impacts your child's ability to self-regulateThoughts are just "deliveries" you can choose to accept or rejectStaying calm under pressure is a learnable skill, not a personality trait This episode gives you the practical tools to transform from reactive to responsive parenting, creating a calmer family environment for everyone. Perfect for: Parents who feel controlled by their emotions, anyone wanting to break cycles of reactive parenting, or those ready to learn powerful mindfulness techniques that actually work in real family situations. Based on hundreds of hours of research and expert interviews. Also available as a complete course at learningsuccess.ai and as a video documentary on Amazon Prime. Get the Free Learning Success Emotional Intelligence Course https://learningsuccess.ai/course/documentary-overly-emotional-child/ Watch The Overly Emotional Child on Amazon Prime https://www.amazon.com/Overly-Emotional-Child-Liz-Weaver/dp/B08M3C8P6B

    30 min

  7. 18 AUG

    How can I take care of myself as a parent without feeling guilty, and why is self-care so important for my family?

    Episode 5 Self-Care for Parents How can I take care of myself as a parent without feeling guilty, and why is self-care so important for my family? If you've ever felt guilty about taking time for yourself, or wondered how to maintain your emotional equilibrium while managing the beautiful chaos of family life, this episode will transform how you think about self-care. Discover why putting on your own "oxygen mask" first isn't selfish - it's essential. In this foundational episode, we explore the often-overlooked truth that you can't pour from an empty cup. You'll learn why taking care of yourself is actually one of the most important things you can do for your children, and discover practical strategies that fit into a busy parent's real life. What You'll Learn: Why self-care is critical for your family's emotional well-being, not just your ownThe airplane oxygen mask principle applied to parentingPractical mind-body practices that help you stay calm under pressure (yoga, meditation, exercise)How to create calming family routines that benefit everyoneWhy modeling self-care teaches your children to value their own well-beingStrategies for developing patience and avoiding harmful comparisonsHow to prepare for different stages of parenting while maintaining your identity Real-World Self-Care Strategies: Simple breathing techniques you can use during stressful momentsCreating calm morning and bedtime routines for the whole familyFinding time for yourself without neglecting your childrenBuilding healthy boundaries and realistic expectationsRecognizing when you need professional support Key Topics Covered: The connection between your mental health and your child's behaviorHow to invest in your personal growth as a parentWhy developing your own interests is important for long-term parenting successCreating a calm household environment that supports everyone's emotional regulationThe importance of honoring your own emotional needs and style Key Takeaways: Taking care of yourself is taking care of your familySelf-care isn't about perfection - it's about sustainable daily practicesWhen you model self-care, your children learn that their well-being mattersYou can't give emotional regulation skills that you don't have yourselfGuilt about self-care actually serves no one in your familyThis episode gives you both the permission and practical tools to prioritize your well-being while showing you how this creates a foundation for everything else you want to accomplish as a parent. Perfect for: Parents struggling with guilt about taking time for themselves, anyone feeling burned out or overwhelmed, or those wanting to create more sustainable parenting practices. Based on hundreds of hours of research and expert interviews. Also available as a complete course at learningsuccess.ai and as a video documentary on Amazon Prime. Free Learning Success Emotional Intelligence Course https://learningsuccess.ai/course/documentary-overly-emotional-child/ Watch The Overly Emotional Child on Amazon Prime https://www.amazon.com/Overly-Emotional-Child-Liz-Weaver/dp/B08M3C8P6B

    14 min

  8. 15 AUG

    How can I stay calm and be a positive influence when my child is having big emotions?

    Episode 4: Emotional Leadership How can I stay calm and be a positive influence when my child is having big emotions? If you've ever felt overwhelmed by your child's meltdowns or found yourself getting pulled into their emotional chaos, this episode will transform how you approach these challenging moments. Learn how to become an "emotional leader" who guides rather than reacts. In this powerful episode, we explore how to move from surviving your child's big emotions to actually helping them grow through those moments. You'll discover how to use your own emotional state to lead your child toward healthier responses instead of tumbling down into the emotional abyss together. What You'll Learn: The game-changing difference between empathy and sympathy (and why it matters)How to have empathy without getting "dragged in" to your child's emotional stormPractical techniques for modeling emotional regulation in real-timeHow to collaborate with your child to solve problems rather than just fixing everythingWhy staying calm and self-regulated helps your child do the sameHow to narrate your own emotional experience to teach healthy coping skillsStrategies for repairing when you do lose your temper and modeling accountability Key Concepts Covered: Becoming the "emotional leader" who sets the tone for your familyUsing "I feel" statements to model emotional awarenessPutting children in leadership roles to build autonomy and self-esteemThe power of staying emotionally connected to yourself while present for your childHow to provide emotional safety vs. creating fear through your responses Real-World Applications: What to do when your child is having a meltdown in publicHow to respond when your child says hurtful things during emotional outburstsTechniques for staying calm when your child's behavior triggers your own emotionsWays to help your child feel heard and understood without solving all their problems Key Takeaways: Your emotional state directly influences your child's ability to self-regulateEmotional leadership is about being intentional, not perfectWhen you model healthy emotional responses, your child learns by watchingYou have the power to lead your family to "higher emotional ground" This episode bridges the self-awareness work from previous episodes with practical, in-the-moment parenting strategies that create lasting change. Perfect for: Parents ready to move beyond reactive parenting to intentional emotional guidance, or anyone who wants to be a calming presence during their child's difficult moments. Based on hundreds of hours of research and expert interviews. Also available as a complete course at learningsuccess.ai and as a video documentary on Amazon Prime. Free Learning Success Emotional Intelligence Course https://learningsuccess.ai/course/documentary-overly-emotional-child/ Watch the Overly Emotional Child on Amazon Prime https://www.amazon.com/Overly-Emotional-Child-Liz-Weaver/dp/B08M3C8P6B

    16 min
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A podcast by Learning Success Helping You Embrace Your Child's Brilliance To Unleash Their Potential The Learning Success podcast brings you the latest news, tips, and techniques for overcoming a learning disability. Especially for those suffering from Dyslexia, Dyscalculia, Dysgraphia, or ADHD. Or those who just have difficulty in math, reading, writing, or spelling. Join us to learn the latest in overcoming weaknesses associated with these conditions as well as enhancing strengths. How you deal with a learning difficulty has a huge effect on your overall life.

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  • Creator
    Liz Weaver
  • Years Active
    2016 - 2025
  • Episodes
    55
  • Rating
    Clean
  • Copyright
    © Liz Weaver
  • Show Website
    Learning Success

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