100% Yourself With Barbera Barbera Schouten

Do you find yourself drowning in a sea of good intentions? 

Are you're telling yourself things like you have to break this lousy habit...? 

Or you need to change that rotten relationship? 

Or you need to write that life-changing letter...?  

So why do we do that? 

Or rather why don't you do it? 

That is what I want to be talking about today.  

For those of you who do not know me, My name is Barbera and I am a transformation coach for people who have always felt weird or strange or like they don’t fit into this world, who have spend most of their life trying to please others and as a result feel unhappy and unsatisfied with their current reality.  

After working with me they feel proud and powerful, they care less about what other people think or say, they live a life that is both rewarding and fulfilling and they know how to turn their calling into their soulful profitable business that allows them the freedom they desire.  

I help individuals that want to be free to be who they and free to do what they love. I help them to get a crystal clear vision of what is really important to them in life and give them a step-by-step plan on how to get there.  

If you are such a person, then I'd love to get to know you! Book a virtual coffee (or tea) with me and let's chat! 

The link is below this podcast or leave me a comment and I'll get back to you ❤ http://bit.ly/VirtualCoffeeTea
 



I hope this episode was valuable to you.  Thank you for being here, thank you for your questions, your support and your attention. Without you I would not be doing this.  

Stay warm, stay safe and I'll see you again next week!

Love,

Barbera

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“Be authentic” has become the most tossed-around and overused clichés in the world of business and sales.

On a daily basis I hear about how we should be genuine in our sales and selling endeavors. Programs, podcasts, books, webinars, and two-day conferences devoted to teaching people how to sell authentically abound. Gurus suck people in by shouting and touting, “Follow me on the path to closing more sales by being yourself and selling with authenticity.”

Authenticity is not a sales strategy.

This buzzword is a hyped-up way of saying be real, genuine, truthful, direct, honest, open, sincere.

When did that become a unique approach?

Isn’t that what we were supposed to do all along?

Authenticity is not some innovative new business strategy.

Being sincere is not a fresh and modern sales ploy. Being honest in the sales process is not a shocking concept … at least, it shouldn’t be.

In this podcast, I am diving in deep into how people can sell in a way that feels more natural and less sleazy because I see this big need for doing sales in a different way, I myself have felt that need deeply and that made me dive into selling in a way that's fun and natural using the talents and gifts that come natural to you.

If you need help with being more authentic in your sales or being more authentic in general or just want to talk about strategies to overcome a challenge you are facing, take me up on my offer for a free 30 minute problem solver call. Book it here: https://meeting-with-barbera.appointlet.com/s/30-min-problem-solver

As always, thank you for being here and thank you for listening to my podcast!

If you like what I shared, please leave me a comment and if you think it's valuable for your network, I would really appreciate it if you would share this episode.

Thank you and have an amazing day!


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I often get asked how one can attract more clients to work with within their business. And not just any clients but dream clients, clients that give energy and that are a dream to work with. Clients that are willing to do the work, that are motivated, that love working with you and that will get the results that they are looking for.



Well, the answer lies in how authentic you are in your marketing, in the way you present yourself and your business to the outside world.



When you market your brand in ways that feel relatable and real to your target audience, you not only win more sales, you gain loyal patrons who are proud to align themselves with your company.



As the online world becomes louder and more crowded, it’s becoming more important to practice authenticity in your marketing. Beyond products and services, audiences want to connect with the brands they love on a deeper level.



When you practice authenticity in your marketing, you are being intentionally true to the heart of your brand and its message. You won't grow your business with canned marketing techniques and recycled, generic messaging. Your customers want do business with companies that share their values, represent themselves as they truly are, and support causes they care about.



In this podcast, I am diving in deep not only talking about why you should want to do authentic marketing and what it will get you, but I'm also showing you how you can be more authentic in your marketing and what results you can expect 3



If you need help with being more authentic in your marketing or just want to talk about how to create a life & business of your dreams, book a free discovery call with me: https://meeting-with-barbera.appointlet.com/s/discovery-call



As always, thank you for being here and thank you for listening to my podcast!



If you like what I shared, please leave me a comment and if you think it's valuable for your network, I would really appreciate it if you would share this episode.



Thank you and have an amazing day!


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Being authentic builds our confidence but it also requires some courage to be authentic! 



So how do we actually become more authentic in our business? And why would we want to?



That is what I talk to in today's episode.





It’s hard to find someone who is 100% authentic every moment of their day.

But it’s worth striving for, because

The pay-off of being authentic is more freedom, happiness, energy & confidence.



Oftentimes we HSPs, intuitives & Empaths struggle to be our authentic selves!



But we don’t need to do any of this fake stuff. We don’t need to try to pretend to be someone else.

This is where we get into the territory of imposter syndrome, something I know a lot of us are struggling with too.





In this podcast, I want to teach you how to find your authentic self and how being more authentic will lead to attracting soul-aligned clients 3





If you need help or just want to talk, book a free discovery call with me: https://meeting-with-barbera.appointlet.com/s/discovery-call

As always, thank you for being here and thank you for listening to my podcast!



If you like what I shared, please leave me a comment and if you think it's valuable for your network, I would really appreciate it if you would share this episode.



Thank you and have an amazing day! 3




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“When I let go of what I am, I become what I might be.” ~Lao Tzu

In today's podcast I talk about the one thing we must learn to experience spiritual progression, namely flow.

What misguided visions of yourself do you hold? 

What constraints have you placed around yourself to impede your own evolution? 

What must you let go of to become who you might be?

Because if we learn to let go and surrender, we experience flow and that will lead to your true, authentic self and finally living dat rewarding and fulfilling life.

When you find your authentic self and understand your inborn personality traits, you can come to recognize your natural strengths and weaknesses, became aware of your true likes and dislikes. And learn what puts your brain in flow and  what you need to do to experience pure joy.

So you can separate the authentic me from the show you are putting on to benefit other people.

In this podcast, I want to teach you how to find your authentic self, by sharing the exact steps I used to get there.

If you need help or want to talk, book a free discovery call with me: https://meeting-with-barbera.appointlet.com/s/discovery-call

As always, thank you for being here and thank you for listening to my podcast.  3


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In today's episode I talk about why sometimes little things can become too much when you're an HSP.

I also talk about the following other problems that only an HSP will understand:


Loud noises can feel like a full-on assault on your senses
Too little sleep has a BIG impact
Feeling emotionally exhausted
Having a strong, unexplainable reaction to both violence and beauty
Over Analyzing every little word and gesture
Not socializing the way most people do
Even though it’s “just a joke,” you may have a hard time brushing it off
Vacations can be anything but relaxing
You can get really "HANGRY"!
Why tone of voice matters
Time pressure can cause serious anxiety
Saying yes when you want to say no
Even good changes, like a job promotion or new relationship, can cause you stress.

If you recognize yourself in what I discuss in this episode and you want or have a chat about it (or about other things about yourself that you don't understand) then do one of these things:


 Book a FREE Clarity Call with me and by the end I will have given you at least 1 strategy that you can immediately put to good use.
 Register for my FREE weekly Virtual Cafe for Highly Sensitives, Empaths, Intuitives and other energy sensitives

And if you are serious about taking matters in your own hands and finally want to be happy & energetic and create a life for yourself that makes your heart sing, then join me for my FREE 5 day workshop Roadmap To Living A Life You Love that I will be hosting beginning of september.

More information about my FREE 5 day workshop Roadmap To Living A Life You Love.

Lastly I want to thank you my listener for being there, for listening, for commenting and for sharing this episode with whomever you feel could benefit from it 3

THANK YOU!!!

 


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