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Are you looking for someone to share their deepest, darkest secrets on keeping their marriage spicy? Are you like, “puhhlease DISH on how to be a cool parent .. because, yeah ... I dunno!” Well Jamie Otis and Doug Hehner have got all you hubbies and wifeys - and mommies and daddies - covered, because each week they find a guest who will SPILL all their dirty secrets! Because we all wanna keep our marriages hot and our parenting cool!

Hot Marriage. Cool Parents‪.‬ Jamie Otis and Doug Hehner

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Are you looking for someone to share their deepest, darkest secrets on keeping their marriage spicy? Are you like, “puhhlease DISH on how to be a cool parent .. because, yeah ... I dunno!” Well Jamie Otis and Doug Hehner have got all you hubbies and wifeys - and mommies and daddies - covered, because each week they find a guest who will SPILL all their dirty secrets! Because we all wanna keep our marriages hot and our parenting cool!

    Ep. 114 Shocking Married At First Sight Update & COVID VACCINE Explained By Expert Microbiologist, Jessica Malaty Rivera

    Ep. 114 Shocking Married At First Sight Update & COVID VACCINE Explained By Expert Microbiologist, Jessica Malaty Rivera

    We are thrilled to have Jessica Malaty Rivera on Hot Marriage. Cool Parents. today! She’s an infectious disease epidemiologist & science communicator. Her specialty is in translating complex scientific concepts into impactful, judgment-free and accessible information for a diverse audience.
    Between her day jobs and being a full-time momma to her 2 kiddos, she also dedicates several hours a week to promoting science literacy and debunking misinformation on social media! We are SO happy to have her here to talk all about the COVID vaccine!  
    Before we chat all the things with Dr. Jessica, Doug’s mom is back for our weekly MAFS recap and WOW this season is CRAZY!
    06:50 - Bonnie is back to chat all about MAFS!
    26:20 - Welcome to the podcast, Dr. Jessica!
    26:32 - Doug asks, what are some of the craziest theories that you have heard about the vaccine? 
    27:58 - Jamie asks, Can you share some that are not as outlandish and more believable as well?
    31:05 - Doug asks, Did the science community foresee something like this?
    32:02 - Jamie asks, How did you know? What led you to it?
    33:15 - Doug asks, This disease started out with a bat species? Is that correct?
    34:24 - Jamie asks, I want to get the vaccination but I also want to have babies - can you tell us more about the vaccine and side effects? What are your thoughts on some of the rumors that are out there?
    43:51 - Jamie asks, What are the bad outcomes for pregnant women and the fetus with COVID?
    46:07 - Doug asks, Is it still up in the air about how long the vaccination will hold and keep you safe?
    47:08 - Jamie asks, There are 3 different vaccinations, and I know that Johnson & Johnson is a little different, what is the efficacy of each? 
    49:14 - Doug asks, Do you have to wait for COVID to run it’s course in order to get the vaccine or are you vaccinated or considered vaccinated if you’ve already had COVID?
    50:41 - Jamie asks, How does your body develop more antibodies from just a vaccination?
    52:16 - Doug asks, Now that there are more vaccines, can you stress how important it is to still mask up?
    56:01 - Jamie asks, My inlaws have received both vaccinations and we haven’t received any - can he get the vaccination through my breast milk?
    57:13 - Jamie asks, How comfortable do you feel signing your child up for the first vaccination that is available to them?
    58:00 - Doug asks, Is testing the vaccine for years and years - is that one of the factors as to why the vaccine came out so quickly?
    59:09 - Doug asks, Is this something that can also die out? Is that expected?
    59:46 - Doug asks, Is that part of the herd-immunity that they speak of?
    1:00:15 - Jamie asks, Can vaccinated people still carry COVID in themselves and pass it on to someone who is not vaccinated?
    1:01:51 - Doug asks, Did you notice a change in any of the policies, philosophies, or just access of information with the change of the president?
    1:03:47 - Doug asks, Is the virus something that will just become less-effective or if everybody gets the vaccine does it eventually die out where we may not need the COVID vaccine anymore?
    1:05:22 - Doug asks, Will they have enough vaccines for the entire population? Where do people go to join the waitlist for the vaccine?
    1:07:59 - Jamie asks, I know that the first 2 vaccinations have MRNA, Johnson & Johnson is a synthetic form right?
    1:08:39 - Jamie asks, Is there one vaccine that is better for a certain group of people than the others?
     
    Dr. Jessica’s Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jessicamalatyrivera
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    Ep. 113 Married At First Sight Update and Controversial Review & Sexless in the City Author Kat Harris Dishes on Dating, Singleness, and Healthy Biblical Sexual Ethics

    Ep. 113 Married At First Sight Update and Controversial Review & Sexless in the City Author Kat Harris Dishes on Dating, Singleness, and Healthy Biblical Sexual Ethics

    We are SUPER excited to share with you Doug’s chat with boss-babe, Kat Harris! She is the host of The Refined Collective Podcast, and Co-Founder of the online publication The Refined Woman. She coaches and equips women all over the world in dating, relationships, singleness, sexuality, faith and how to build a renewed and healthy biblical sexual ethic rooted in freedom, truth and grace as opposed to the oh-so-common shame and fear narratives so many experienced growing up in evangelical culture. She is also an author (spoiler alert, her first book Sexless in the City will hit bookstores April 2021) and she has also been a full-time photographer for the last decade with her work featured in: Vanity Fair, GQ, Forbes, People, Who What Wear, US Weekly, Glamour UK, and more. Ultimately, her vision is for women to know their beauty, identity, worth and value and to experience untapped freedom and joy in their lives regardless of their relationship status.
     
    Before Doug brings Kat on to have some serious REAL talk, Doug’s mom Bonnie shares her thoughts on this EXPLOSIVE season of MAFS and Doug and Jamie talk about celebrating their 7 year anniversary. 
     
    05:39 - Welcome back, Bonnie Hehner, to talk all about MAFS!
    20:58 - Welcome to HMCP, Kat! 
    21:43 - Let’s start with having you tell everyone about yourself?
    23:18 - Was there a certain point in life where you put the mission upon yourself?
    27:13 - Is there any certain age where you would say is a good time to bring up some of the taboo topics?
    32:03 - I wanted to ask you about sexuality and your choice as a more progressive Christian to remain a virgin?
    42:18 - Was there anything in the Bible that stated that masturbation is a sinful act?
    49:40 - What was your first so-called sin? Afterwards, is it more of you beating yourself up or is it just feeling guilt or shame and how do you overcome that? 
    52:11 - Can you share why its not a bad thing and shouldn’t have a negative connotation to being single?
    58:40 - Do you believe in “the one?”
    1:02:34 - Have you ever felt pressured sexually in a situation and what would you say to someone who didn’t want to have sex but their partner was guilting them?
    1:04:37 - How can one practice consent outside of the bedroom and what are ways you can teach kids about consent and other aspects so that when they are older they kind of understand the meaning?
    1:07:38 - Question from Jamie: How can we move forward in a society where unfortunately victim-blaming is almost the norm?
     
    Kat’s Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/therefinedwoman/
    Kat’s book website: Sexless in the City
    Sexless in the City on Amazon
    The Refined Woman
    The Refined Collective Podcast
     
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    Ep. 112 Jamie Chats All Things Married at First Sight & Gives a Hehner Family Update Followed by Toxic Positivity & Fatphobia Discussion with Raffela Mancuso

    Ep. 112 Jamie Chats All Things Married at First Sight & Gives a Hehner Family Update Followed by Toxic Positivity & Fatphobia Discussion with Raffela Mancuso

    As Jamie continues on her own journey to become more body positive, we are reminded daily that this is a shared space and there are SO many different stories and journeys. Body positivity is more than just about size...it is also about race, gender, etc. This week we have the amazing Raffela Mancuso on the podcast. Raffela is a mental illness activist and diet culture DISRUPTOR who uses social media to center people who are living in marginalized bodies, while also sharing about her own personal journey. She’s trying to be compassionate with herself during this pandemic, and she’s hoping you can do the same. She’s all around an amazing human and we are so stoked to have her on!

    Before Rafella comes on, you asked for it and we are giving it to ya! Jamie shares ALLLL about their family’s real life and also gives a fantastic recap of the latest MAFS episode. This season is BONKERS! 
     
    33:50 - Welcome to HMCP, Raffela!
    34:02 - Jamie asks, We’d love to know what got you started on this journey to advocacy and what your own experiences have been life navigating the world of normalizing normal bodies?
    36:20 - Jamie asks, For anybody listening who doesn’t understand, what does body positivity mean to you?
    39:11 - Doug asks, What is fatphobia?
    43:23 - Doug asks, You called out thin influencers on social media saying that they are taking up too much space on social media. What did you mean by that?
    45:57 - Jamie asks, What was their response when you tagged them to that message?
    48:06 - Doug asks, What would be ideal for other influencers to bring awareness to this if they are not living in a so-called “fat” body?
    50:50 - Jamie asks, I want to pass the mic to you and talk all about mental health and how it correlates with body confidence?
    55:00 - Jamie asks, What are your thoughts on the diet industry & how we can change the narrative?
    58:40 - Doug asks, Was there a rock bottom that made you get over the difficult part of your life with diet culture?
    1:02:32 - Jamie asks, What is your work that you do regarding this?
     
    And we will be back next week for another AWESOME episode! Until then, you are loved! 💞
     
     
    Raffela’s Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/raffela_mancuso/
     
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