Journey To Wholeness Jess

Today Journey To Wholeness attempts to debunk the answer to this life long problem. As a single woman, we need to learn to defeat the demon of loneliness. It’s not fair to make a man your “best friend,” when you are not interested in him as a life long partner. He most likely has the biggest crush on you. He is hoping you would change your heart. That’s not fair to make him suffer in your waiting season before you meet your dream guy.

Today, I will give a basic understanding about what codependency is. Many mistake codependency as an unhealthy relational system, but it is actually a traumatic response. In Peter Levine’s book, codependency is called “Fawn.” As children we are subconsciously programmed to have our needs meet through our caretakers. If our parents were unhealthy, we have learned to meet our needs in unhealthy ways. Thais Gibson has more videos on reprogramming our subconscious. Fortunately, it can be done!

Is it okay to have preferences? Is it okay to pray specific qualities for a spouse? Or even specific ways to meet the future spouse? Abraham’s servant prayed a specific prayer to find Rebecca. She was the lady who fed the camel’s water. Perhaps, it seemed dumb to others but God cares about our specific requests.

Good Morning Ya’ll! I just want to encourage ya’ll to not give up on waiting on God. If you write the vision and make it plain, during the appointed time, the promise will manifest. Trust in the promise God has given you.

Just because God accepts the sacrifice, it doesn’t mean He deems it as good. Just because God deems it as good, it doesn’t mean the sacrifice is within His perfect will for your life.

Don’t Act On Feelings. There’s a guy at my church who has a crush on me but I’m not interested. How does one navigate feelings? Just because someone is likeable, this doesn’t mean, you have to marry them.