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Relationships are for heroes.

Join bestselling author—and host of the #1 YouTube channel for women’s relationship advice—Matthew Hussey and his brother Stephen Hussey, as they offer tips and insights on how to make sense of the beautiful mess that is finding and maintaining love, while nurturing the relationship you have with yourself.

In weekly episodes, they share practical advice, hard-won wisdom, and the occasional musing on relationships and the increasingly confusing world of modern dating. No matter your relationship status, the Love Life podcast will meet you where you are.

About the Hosts: Matthew Hussey is the New York Times bestselling author of Get the Guy, and host of a YouTube channel that has received 400+ million views. Get the Guy co-writer and YouTuber Stephen Hussey holds a Doctor of Philosophy degree from Oxford University.

Love Life with Matthew Hussey Matthew Hussey

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    • 4.8 • 27 Ratings

Relationships are for heroes.

Join bestselling author—and host of the #1 YouTube channel for women’s relationship advice—Matthew Hussey and his brother Stephen Hussey, as they offer tips and insights on how to make sense of the beautiful mess that is finding and maintaining love, while nurturing the relationship you have with yourself.

In weekly episodes, they share practical advice, hard-won wisdom, and the occasional musing on relationships and the increasingly confusing world of modern dating. No matter your relationship status, the Love Life podcast will meet you where you are.

About the Hosts: Matthew Hussey is the New York Times bestselling author of Get the Guy, and host of a YouTube channel that has received 400+ million views. Get the Guy co-writer and YouTuber Stephen Hussey holds a Doctor of Philosophy degree from Oxford University.

    (Rewind): Text Him This ONE Word To Get His Attention

    (Rewind): Text Him This ONE Word To Get His Attention

    Is there someone in your life who keeps going hot and cold with the attention they're showing you? One minute they want to see you, and the next, you feel them pulling away...
    What's up with that?
    When someone you like disappears and then reappears, it's easy to drive yourself crazy trying to work out the BEST way to get their attention again. You think, "Do I ignore them to teach them a lesson? Do I play it cool and pretend it was no big deal? Or do I show them I'm hurt that they disappeared?"
    In this clip, I share with you an exact text message you can send them that will demonstrate your standards in a really attractive way.
    If you want more of these texts, head over to WhatToTextNext.com, where you can download my FREE guide that gives you my 'Relationship Reframe Text' and helps you move from casual text exchanges to real emotional connection.

    • 3 min
    What It REALLY Takes To Start Over In Love

    What It REALLY Takes To Start Over In Love

    One of the unchanging truths about love is that even though it's beautiful when we find it, there's always a chance we can lose it.
    But how do we move on from an old chapter when it's over? How do you develop the right mindset to get back in the game when you've faced a major setback?
    Matt and the team sit down to discuss starting over and why it can be both a painful and beautiful experience.
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    • 41 min
    (Matt Monday): Feel Them Pulling Away? AVOID THIS MISTAKE

    (Matt Monday): Feel Them Pulling Away? AVOID THIS MISTAKE

    I’ve heard this story a thousand times before . . .
    A woman goes on a date with a guy and they hit it off. Things seem to be going well, and pretty soon, they’re seeing each other all the time. He’s texting her daily, making plans with her for the future, and every time his name pops up on her phone, she feels a surge of happiness and excitement.
    That very same excitement keeps hitting new peaks until, suddenly, she feels a shift. He grows more and more distant, and at first she’s not sure whether she’s imagining it or whether he really is pulling away. She doubles down on effort and communication, but it only seems to drive him further away until eventually he calls it a day and stops messaging altogether.
    If this has ever happened to you, then you know it can drive you crazy working out how to act when someone is clearly pulling away from you.
    But as it turns out, there is a right way and a wrong way to proceed when this happens, and it can determine whether someone stays or goes.
    In today’s episode, I’ll share with you the #1 reason why people pull away and a high-value way to respond to it.
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    • 13 min
    (Rewind) Transform Your Present Pain Into Personal Power

    (Rewind) Transform Your Present Pain Into Personal Power

    It's easy to feel like our struggles, or past, our pain, is holding us back in life. And I'm not here to pretend it's easy to deal with those burdens we carry with us. But they don't have to define you. In fact, if you choose, you can make them the start of a completely different story that gives you more power than you could possibly imagine.
    So today, here is a personal message on what it takes to create light even in the darkest moments...
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    • 5 min
    Think You Have A "Dating Type"? Here's Why That Might Be A Problem

    Think You Have A "Dating Type"? Here's Why That Might Be A Problem

    Do you have a dating type? Have your previous relationships always been with a similar person, in terms of looks, personality or behavioural dynamics?
    It's easy for us to look at the past and tell ourselves, "This is who I am. This is who I like." And it can affect how we date now simply because of what we're used to. But is it helpful to lock ourselves in on a single kind of person? Or should our tastes be more flexible when finding love?
    Matt and the team talk about the topic of dating types and how to choose your compass when looking for the right person so that you focus on what really matters in love.
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    • 1 hr 32 min
    (Matt Monday): 3 Texts You Can Send to Get Their Attention INSTANTLY

    (Matt Monday): 3 Texts You Can Send to Get Their Attention INSTANTLY

    On dating apps, first impressions matter. And after you clear the first hurdle of endless swiping and find someone who piques your interest, it’s often the next step that’s the hardest . . . That is, of course: What on EARTH do you say to them?!
    You scan their bio, hoping inspiration will strike and you’ll manage to figure out the perfect opening gambit. You think: Would a simple “hey” or “great photo” show a lack of imagination? I’d like to just be myself, but it can feel so hard to be authentic without seeming too eager . . . Many times, thoughts like these make us overthink everything to the point where we end up sending something awkward . . . or worse, not sending anything at all, letting the opportunity of connection pass us by. So how can we make an impression on people who haven’t yet had the chance to meet us and see how awesome we are?
    In today’s episode, I’m going to share with you 3 openers you can send right away to stand out on a dating app.
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    ►► FREE download: “3 Secrets To Love” → 3SecretsToLove.com
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Customer Reviews

4.8 out of 5
27 Ratings

27 Ratings

la.syaa ,

Love the podcast

Really enjoy listening to you guys!!!!

Liebschen ,

Nothing common about common sense

There are so many dating podcasts out there and so many ‘experts’ who try to tell you how to act to land a mate. Most of it is BS and those gurus out there annoy the crap out of me. But Matthew’s advice is always spot on. It’s not manufactured, it’s a lot of common sense where I’d just go ‘why didn’t I think of that myself’, but I didn’t, did I? The main message is being true to yourself and genuine. Matt and Stephen seem to be just that as well.

MegsLH29 ,

Thank you for all the honest advice!

I absolutely love listening to Matt and Stephen on the love life podcasts. They are honest in the topics they discuss but the aspect I enjoy the most is their advice is so practical to the situations they discuss. I really enjoy the brotherly banter, the movie reference puns and the topics discussed which can be around love but in the same breath can be around normal life and business and I really enjoy the ability Matt brings to make reference to the topics to different aspects of life it shows such versatility. I have loved following you on your different forums and found your page when I was going through a tough time last year and took the plunge with the virtual retreat in March and enjoyed every minute of it. Thank you so much for everything and as a fyi I really do love that you do these live on Instagram and Facebook, they are always great and I love the banter between you two it is a great way to bring the audience in, but also well done to Stephen for the great work he does to achieve and changer them into a podcast. Keep up the great work.

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