The Niall Graham Podcast Niall Graham

In this episode I look at how a lot of men have ended up emotionally immature. What is the impact on our lives and the people around us and how do we move towards becoming more mature men. I also look at the nuances of the Irish male and the impact on his emotional awareness and maturity.
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In this episode I welcome on a very good friend and work colleague of mine Jenny O'Hare who is a deep ecologist living in the west of Ireland.
In this podcast we delve into this deep subject of Belonging. How it is a fundamental need in life to feel like we belong. We also look at the culture of Ireland and our relationship with this country, both the beauty of living here and also the difficulty with the history and trauma which is still viscerally present.
Jenny and I hold a retreat twice a year In Donegal where we delve into this subject and look to see how we can foster this sense of belonging with ourselves, with others and the natural world around us.
Belonging Retreat 20-22nd Oct 23
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Men have gathered in communities of men for centuries. Most tribes or communities will have Mens Lodges where men gather and do sacred work.
In this podcast I dive into the necessity of men coming together. How it supports us as men and how it supports us to show up better for our women and communities. Mens work is also essential at this time when the masculine is being attacked as being domineering, patriarchal, controlling and repressing of women, it is essential for us as men to the work together to break down our own internalised patriarchy and emerge having integrated fully our healthy masculine.
If you are interested in this work and would like to join a community of conscious men who meet weekly online. Check out the Fir Na Tíre Mens Community here. We are opening our doors for new men 23rd Mar.
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In this episode I discuss what is the Patriarchy and unhealthy masculinity and introduce the idea that it is necessary to reclaim healthy masculinity to be able to step out of our current paradigm. I talk about how as a culture our reaction to the patriarchy led us into a state of disempowerment and how it is necessary to now do the deep work of reclaiming our healthy masculine for the sake of ourselves and our culture.





 

Sacred Sons have become a very well known and International Mens movement, that are bringing in alot of new people to Mens work, they are really putting themselves out there knowing that this work needs to be seen.
 
This is is a short review of my experience on the weekend. How I believe the mens movement is evolving. How ritual Combat, Embodiment and Brotherhood are key pieces of masculinity that are not being addressed and that ultimately the only way out of this mess is for men to do their work together. We got our selves into this mess and I believe it is conscious men who will also get us out of this mess.
 
This was a transformative and Informative weekend for me. Thank you to Jason Mac, Kale, Andrew, Micheal, Peter and Jack. and all the team who made this possible. 

This comes from a long journey of self discovery, of trying to avoid my own toxic masculinity and deeper more fucked up parts of me, I escaped and aspired to the feminine, a place of love, connection and flow. The place I was told I should be.
But over the years I realised that I needed to deal with my own masculine for my feminine to truly come online. As far as im concerned it was the masculine that got us into this mess and it is the masculine that must get us out. This is the work of being conscious men, doing the deep work through our unconscious toxicity so we can emerge as beautiful, present men who hold the feminine with protection, sacredness and beauty.