Too Dad To Quit Podcast Ben & Yoel

In this week's episode, we welcome a truly remarkable guest, Steve Johnston. In this extraordinary conversation hosted by Ben, we explore the compelling journey of a dad who's not just battling the trials of parenthood but also facing a race against blindness.



Steve Johnston joins us to share his powerful testament of resilience, fatherhood, and the human spirit. In the face of a challenging diagnosis for his son Luke, Steve defies the odds and demonstrates that being a dad is not just about seeing with the eyes but persevering with the heart.



In this heartfelt discussion, we unpack Steve's experiences of fatherhood to the diagnosis that changed his perspective on life. His story isn't just about overcoming obstacles; it's about transforming challenges into opportunities for growth and connection within his family.



As a guest on the "Too Dad to Quit" podcast, Steve Johnston becomes a beacon of inspiration for fathers navigating their own unique challenges. His insights into the intersection of parenthood and a race against blindness offer a profound perspective on what it means to be "too dad to quit" in the face of adversity.



Tune in to this special episode to witness the strength, love, and tenacity that define Steve Johnston's role as a dad. Whether you're a parent, soon-to-be dad, or simply someone inspired by tales of triumph, this conversation will leave you uplifted, motivated, and ready to face life's challenges with newfound courage.



Subscribe now to the "Too Dad to Quit" podcast and be part of a community celebrating the extraordinary stories of dads like Steve Johnston. Discover the depth of the human spirit and the power of fatherhood, proving that even in a race against blindness, one can be "Too Dad To Quit." Contact Us to Share Your Story: https://toodadtoquit.com/contact



Watch This Episode: https://youtu.be/qPEeHLSCKZ4



Chapters:

00:00 Facing a Diagnosis: From Grief to Action

00:18 The Future of AI and Personalized Technologies

00:35 Being a Role Model for My Son

01:24 Inspiring Stories of Strength: Two Dads To Quit Podcast - Featuring Steve Johnston

03:49 Drive to Make the Web Accessible for All

04:48 Finding Purpose Through Advocacy

06:39 Understanding Genetic Conditions and Their Impact

09:18 Show Recommendation and ADHD Discussion

10:05 Innovative Services and New Show Concepts for Visually Impaired

13:21 The Impact of AI and Technology on Accessibility

16:29 Parenting and Co-Parenting Challenges

17:19 Creating a Supportive Family Environment for Children with Special Needs

21:44 Supporting Vision-Saving Therapy for a Unique Diagnosis

27:28 Father Trains for Ironman Race to Inspire Son

31:25 Parenting and Child's Activities

32:54 Reflections on an Iron Man Race

37:09 Embracing Individuality and Family Reactions to a Diagnosis

39:01 Overcoming Challenges with a Positive Mindset

43:21 Parenting Reflections on Vision Loss and Priorities

47:49 The Importance of Seeking Help in Marriage

50:38 Proud Dad Moment: Celebrating Son's Karate Achievements

51:24 Advice for Dads Going Through Divorce

52:59 Connecting with Race Against Blindness: A Nonprofit's Social Media Presence



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Episode Resources:

Daredevil Movie: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=muPX9Oi7-EE

Sight Unseen TV Show: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=joHB3Cs4pgk

Behind The Scenes, Google Pixel Big Game Commercial: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=geC3D-X6a_g



Reach out to Steve:

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/a.race.against.blindness

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/dad.vs.blindness

Web: https://araceagainstblindness.org





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In this week's episode, step into an enlightening conversation on the "Behind the Shades" podcast as host Terraine Brown welcomes Ben & Yoel.

Terraine engages with the hosts of the "Too Dad to Quit" podcast in a candid dialogue about their experiences, motivations, and inspirational stories that have shaped their podcast. Together, they peel back the layers of fatherhood, revealing the raw emotions, challenges, and moments of triumph that have defined their journey as dads and podcast hosts.

Drawing from their wealth of knowledge and personal experiences, they discuss the power of storytelling in uplifting and empowering dads from all walks of life, emphasizing the importance of community and support in parenting.

Terraine Brown leads the conversation, navigating through the diverse perspectives of the "Too Dad to Quit" hosts, providing listeners with a multifaceted understanding of the joys and complexities of being a dad in today's world.

Join us for an enriching episode on the "Behind the Shades" podcast as we uncover the essence of fatherhood with the hosts of "Too Dad to Quit." Whether you're a father or someone passionate about stories that celebrate the strength and dedication of dads, this conversation will leave you inspired, enlightened, and ready to embrace the journey of fatherhood with renewed vigor and purpose. Contact Us to Share Your Story: https://toodadtoquit.com/contact



Watch This Episode: https://youtu.be/awSetkaO7H8



Chapters:

00:00 Supporting Dads on the Other Side of Divorce

01:18 Excitement About Being a Podcast Guest

02:11 The Impact of Divorce on Men: A Discussion with Ben

03:16 Joel's Story and Men Navigating Divorce

04:21 Growing Up with Separated Parents

04:49 Navigating Divorce and Finding Support

06:37 The Challenges Faced by Men in Divorce Cases

07:31 Growing up with a Single Mother & Misconceptions About Single Dads

07:55 Supporting Single Parents: The Launch of a Facebook Group

09:47 Emotional and Painful Aspects of Divorce

10:48 Personal Experience and Approach to the Podcast

11:54 Identity, Support, and Legal Perspectives on Divorce

13:48 Equality for Men & Shelters for Men and Children: A Call for Gender-Neutral Resources

15:09 Balancing Support for Men and Women & Challenges faced by men in expressing themselves

16:49 Equality of Men and Women, Challenges in Discussing Emotions, and Dad's House Organization

18:49 Supportive Podcast: Dad's House and Personal Stories

20:16 Fatherly Pride and Inclusion on Podcasts & Men and Emotions: A Woman's Awakening

21:21 Challenging Stereotypes: Men Opening Up Emotionally

22:43 Reevaluating Societal Expectations and Finding Pride in Fatherhood

24:20 A Heartwarming Moment with My Child & Joy of Spending Time with Kids

25:56 The Speaker's Love and Pride for Their Children

27:41 Commonalities in Helping Men Achieve Proud Moments and Feel Safe & Creating a Safe Space

28:41 The Impact of Having a Platform for Men to Share Experiences & The Power of the Podcast: Providing a Platform for Personal Stories

32:09 The Need for Closure and the Consequences of Silence & The Dynamics of Divorce Decisions

35:51 Understanding Divorce and Gender Differences & Advice for Men Navigating Divorce

38:09 Reducing Conflict for Children's Well-being & Loving Yourself After a Breakup or Divorce

39:03 Physical Fitness and Mental Health

39:55 Personal Growth and Self-Improvement



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Episode Resources:

Behind The Shades Coaching: https://www.behindtheshades.ca

YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@behindtheshades

Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2SeqWFZHDQ3DsSOqpgOqj7



Reach out to Terraine:

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/behindtheshadesfb

Twitter: https://twitter.com/TerraineLeBeau



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In this candid and moving conversation, Kyle opens up about his personal journey through the maze of fatherhood, sharing heartfelt stories and invaluable insights gleaned along the way. From the early stages of parenting to navigating the complexities of being a modern dad, Kyle's experiences illuminate the essence of resilience, determination, and the pure joy of being a dedicated dad.

A true testament to the ethos of the Too Dad to Quit Podcast, Kyle discusses the balancing act between work, family, and personal growth. His perspective on the importance of fostering a nurturing environment for his children and the significance of being a positive role model stands as a beacon of inspiration for dads worldwide.

Join us on this special episode as we explore Kyle West's introspection and life-changing decisions, his triumphs, and the lessons learned in the pursuit of being the parent he never had. Whether you're a divorced dad or someone exploring the potential of separating, this conversation will leave you feeling empowered and motivated to embrace the challenges and joys that come with the role. Contact Us to Share Your Story: ⁠⁠⁠https://toodadtoquit.com/contact⁠⁠⁠



Watch This Episode: ⁠https://youtu.be/tysXPPf-2M4


Chapters:

00:00 Introduction & Role of Podcast

01:16 Interview with Kyle West and Growing Up in South Africa

04:32 Exploring South Africa and Personal Interests

05:56 Importance of Faith and Connection and Reflections on Self-Thinking

09:14 Finding Beauty in Ordinary Things and Understanding Joy

12:17 Dealing with Envy and Focusing on Connections

13:26 Reflection on Success and Legacy

18:19 Discussing Personal Relationship with Money

19:36 Balancing Work and Family Life

25:37 Journey in Electronics and Engineering

31:42 Changing Perspectives and Career Challenges

34:17 Journey of Personal Growth and Transformation

38:14 Reflections on Recovery and Parenting

40:20 Staying Fit and Health Transformation

41:50 Navigating Life's Challenges and Starting Heroic Dad Coaching

43:38 Struggles of Fatherhood and Divorce

47:39 Childhood Reflections and Personal Legal Battles

52:43 Building a Strong Parent-Child Relationship

56:14 Advice for Dads Going Through a Separation or Divorce

57:40 Conclusion



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Episode References:

Video: Secret Beach on Table Mountain by Dan Mace , https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=TPUjckd5KeU

Book: The Boy Crisis: Why Our Boys Are Struggling and What We Can Do About It by Warren Farrell and John Gray, https://www.amazon.com/Boy-Crisis-Boys-Struggling-About/dp/1948836130

Video: Piers Morgan vs Dana White, https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=edhknTTq7bM

Video: Story of the Girl Scout Cookies with Jim Rohn, https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=84i3XV0YNmk



Reach out to Kyle:

YouTube: https://youtube.com/@theheroicdad

Instagram: https://instagram.com/theheroicdad

LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/heroic-dad

Web: https://heroic.dad

Email: kyle@heroic.dad



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Get ready for an extraordinary episode on the Too Dad to Quit podcast as we sit down with the incredible Andy Heller, a serial entrepreneur, and author of Take the High Road: Divorce with Compassion for Yourself and Your Family. Hosted by Ben, this conversation is a deep dive into the life, challenges, and unwavering commitment that define Andy's journey as a dad. In this heartfelt discussion, Andy shares his personal stories, triumphs, and the lessons he's learned while navigating the unpredictable terrain of divorce.

Andy and Ben discuss how Andy decided to move across the country to be near his children and dive into the topics of his book. Andy shares his writing process and how he took business concepts like conflict resolution and applied them to co-parenting. Andy's book lays out the business plan for a well-thought-out divorce and post-divorce co-parenting experience. As a testament to the Too Dad to Quit ethos, Andy discusses how he has transformed challenges into opportunities, becoming an inspiration for dads everywhere. Contact Us to Share Your Story: ⁠⁠https://toodadtoquit.com/contact⁠⁠



Watch This Episode: https://youtu.be/PtqRXdvhZ5U


Chapters:

00:00 Therapy and Self-Reflection: A Personal Story

00:33 To Dad To Quit Podcast Introduction

01:25 Sharing Personal Stories, Introducing Andy Heller and His Book

04:04 Personal Background and Moving Across the Country for Family

05:55 Personal Experiences in Real Estate & Going Through Therapy

08:48 Sef-Reflection, Being the Reasonable Thinker and Emotional Compromise

10:12 Creating a Best Practices Manual for Divorcees

12:24 Appreciation for Pausing, Practical Advice, and the Importance of Self-Care

16:49 The Importance of Communication and Joining Clubs for Support

18:56 Dealing with High Conflict Divorces and the Importance of Taking the High Road

22:30 Prioritization and Strategic Compromise in Negotiations

25:05 Business Strategy: Providing Multiple Options

27:46 Challenges and Adaptation after Separation

30:24 Preparing for Divorce: Taking Inventory and Enhancing Communication

32:34 Observations on Divorce Tendencies and the Approach to Co-Parenting

34:43 Dealing with High Conflict Relationships

37:57 Reflecting on Past Relationships and Planning for the Future

41:40 Advice on Parenting and Communication during Divorce

46:44 Personal Growth and Development as a Parent

52:57 More Divorce Advice and Takeaways

55:40 Closing Remarks and Farewell



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Episode References:

Book: How to Talk So Kids Will Listen & Listen So Kids Will Talk by Adele Faber and Elaine Mazlish, https://www.amazon.com/How-Talk-Kids-Will-Listen/dp/1451663889

Book: BIFF: Quick Responses to High-Conflict People, Their Personal Attacks, Hostile Email and Social Media Meltdowns by Bill Eddy, https://www.amazon.com/BIFF-Responses-High-Conflict-Personal-Meltdowns/dp/1936268728

Andy's Book: Take the High Road: Divorce with Compassion for Yourself and Your Family by Andy Heller, https://www.amazon.com/Take-High-Road-Compassion-Yourself/dp/B0C1J1RJL2

Reach out to Andy:

Facebook: ⁠https://facebook.com/takethehighroadbook

Instagram: ⁠https://instragram.com/andyheller

Web: https://takethehighroaddivorce.com

Email: andy@takethehighroaddivorce.com



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In this week's episode, we sit down with Ryan Shortill. Ryan's passion for being an engaged and supportive dad shines through as he discusses the role of dads in shaping the future and the cherished moments that make it all worthwhile. His story is a testament to the strength and determination that define the essence of fatherhood.

Tune in to this special episode of the Too Dad to Quit podcast to discover how Ryan Shortill embodies the spirit of being "Too Dad To Quit." Whether you're a dad yourself or simply someone who appreciates the profound impact of dads, this conversation will leave you feeling inspired and motivated.

After struggling to find a support system for divorced dads, Ryan founded the Dads Organization. Dad’s Organization is a fellowship of men who share their experience, strength, and hope with each other that they may be better fathers and family men within their communities. Ryan's story is a reminder that fatherhood is a journey worth taking, and you too can embrace the mantra of being "Too Dad To Quit." Contact Us to Share Your Story: ⁠https://toodadtoquit.com/contact⁠



Watch This Episode: https://youtu.be/GIGPaFI48OM


Chapters:
00:00 Two Dads to Quit: Inspiring Stories of Dads on the Other Side of Divorce

01:23 Interview with Ryan Shorthill and Conversation About Fatherhood and Support

04:00 My Journey of Travel, Service, and Building Communities for Single Dads

05:58 Creating a Safe Space for Dads and Finding Wisdom in Personal Changes

08:59 A Challenging Time and The Healing Power of Nature

11:23 Reflections on Parents' Divorce, Future Relationships, and Breakups

13:33 Maintaining Relationships and Personal Growth

15:27 Creating a Supportive Community for Dads

18:47 Origins and Evolution of the Dads Organization

20:40 Perspectives on Gender, Empowerment, and Emotional Support

23:07 Collecting Families and Friends: A Journey of Self-Discovery and Growth

26:12 Creating a Supportive Space for Men and Group Efforts

27:26 Reflections on Family, Loss, and Parent-Child Relationships

31:57 Importance of Division of Labor and Not Keeping Score in Relationships

36:07 Fighting for My Kids and Ins and Outs of Fatherhood

39:31 Raising a Large Family: Joys, Reflections, and Advice



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Episode References:

Book: Greenlights, by McConaughey Matthew, https://www.amazon.com/Greenlights-McConaughey-Matthew/dp/1472280873

Book: The 10 Really Dumb Mistakes that Very Smart Couples Make: A Torah-Based Guide to a Successful Marriage, by Ben Tzion Shafier, https://www.amazon.com/Really-Dumb-Mistakes-Smart-Couples/dp/1680251767

Author: Brene Brown, https://www.amazon.com/stores/Bren%C3%A9-Brown/author/B001JP45BA

Social Media Influencer: Emily King, https://linktr.ee/emilywking



Reach out to Ryan:

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/DadsOrganization

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/dadsorganization

Da's Organization: https://dadsorg.com



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In this week's episode, we sit down with Josh Polsky. Hosted by Ben, this episode is an intimate conversation with Josh discussing his upbringing in St. Louis, his passion for the Grateful Dead, and the night that changed his life. Tune in to this special episode of the "Too Dad to Quit" podcast about how Josh Polsky traveled the country after converting from a "dead head" hater to a festival-going dead head. Learn how Josh fell into a 23-year career in marketing and a more recent life as DJ Polsky as well as Josh sharing the most impactful trip of his life. Josh takes us on a journey through his life and the work he has done to make him the man and dad he is today. Contact Us to Share Your Story: https://toodadtoquit.com/contact



Watch This Episode: https://youtu.be/sQAChbY-GSQ




Chapters:
00:00 Understanding Personal Processes and Introducing the Two Dads to Quit Podcast

01:55 Interview with Digital Marketer Josh Polsky

03:16 Casual Conversation about Personal Experiences

05:31 Living in a Small Town and the Appeal of Hobbit Houses

10:02 Exploring Caves at Bay Guvrin and Unexpectedly Strong Acid Experience

17:18 Religion, Negativity, and Personal Experience

24:08 Discovering DJing at a Trance Festival

28:53 Turning Rock Songs into Lullabies and a Career in Marketing

32:34 Challenges of Running a Marketing Company in Israel as an Independent American

34:34 Reflecting on Past Relationships and Personal Growth

35:34 Selling a Business, Job Hunt, and Enjoying Hobbies

39:51 Living in a Small Country: Advantages and Cool Diving Spot

43:57 Discovering Hidden Gems in Israel

46:42 The Power of Patience

47:08 Exploring NLP Certification as an Alternative to a Psych Degree

53:10 Watching My Children Grow and Finding Happiness

56:12 Closing Remarks of To Dad To Quit Podcast




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Episode References:

Book: Complex PTSD: From Surviving to Thriving: A Guide and Map for Recovering from Childhood Trauma by Pete Walker, https://www.amazon.com/Complex-PTSD-Surviving-RECOVERING-CHILDHOOD/dp/1492871842

Psychedelics in Congress via FoxNews: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=TgOuvlRWYZ4

Beit Guvrin National Park: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Beit_Guvrin-Maresha_National_Park

Coppadocia Turkey via Lost LeBlanc: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UCQwOusdMfk

Masada Caves via BengineerTube: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Y2nKX3_jshA



Reach out to Josh:

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/polsky

LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/joshuapolsky

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/joshuapolsky





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Ben & Yoel


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