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Nicole Byer is single and has been for decades. She’s smart, funny, has a fat ass and loves giving blow jobs. So the question is why is she perpetually single? This podcast is a quest to find that answer. Every week, Nicole invites a comedian, friend, or ex-fling to interview their dating life and figure out her own.

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Nicole Byer is single and has been for decades. She’s smart, funny, has a fat ass and loves giving blow jobs. So the question is why is she perpetually single? This podcast is a quest to find that answer. Every week, Nicole invites a comedian, friend, or ex-fling to interview their dating life and figure out her own.

    Dating with Disability (w/ Santina Muha)

    Dating with Disability (w/ Santina Muha)

    Actress and comedian Santina Muha (One Day at a Time, Curb Your Enthusiasm) answers the worst questions to ask someone in a wheelchair, shares some of the aggressive messages she's received on dating apps, and asks to include disability in today's conversation about diversity. Plus, Nicole recaps her experience 'Facetime dating' in quarantine.

    Support BLM. For a list of resources and places to donate click here: https://blacklivesmatters.carrd.co/

    Follow Nicole Byer:

    Tour Dates: nicolebyerwastaken.com/tourdates

    Twitter: @nicolebyer

    Instagram: @nicolebyer

    Facebook: www.facebook.com/nicolebyercomedy

    Buy Merch: https://www.teepublic.com/stores/nicole-byer?ref_id=964

    Order Nicole's book: www.indiebound.org/book/9781524850746

    • 1 hr 1 min
    If You See It, You Can Be It (w/ Kirby Howell-Baptiste)

    If You See It, You Can Be It (w/ Kirby Howell-Baptiste)

    Actress Kirby Howell-Baptiste (The Good Place, Barry, Why Women Kill) discusses the rise in "Karens", managing life after death, and the reality of the Black experience. Plus, they share personal stories of racial bias, the importance of seeing representation in media, and how to raise a new generation of active allies.

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    Follow Nicole Byer:

    Tour Dates: nicolebyerwastaken.com/tourdates

    Twitter: @nicolebyer

    Instagram: @nicolebyer

    Facebook: www.facebook.com/nicolebyercomedy

    Buy Merch: https://www.teepublic.com/stores/nicole-byer?ref_id=964

    Order Nicole's book: www.indiebound.org/book/9781524850746

    • 1 hr 9 min
    Foundations of a Successful Relationship (w/ AJA)

    Foundations of a Successful Relationship (w/ AJA)

    Rapper and former drag queen AJA (RuPaul's Drag Race S9, All Stars S3) catches up with Nicole on the #BlackLivesMatter protests, discussing Black history erasure and how people can be a good ally in the movement. AJA dishes on Drag Race, admitting they were extremely high on edibles during the filming. Plus, they share how they met their biological parents this year, and provides advice on the foundational layers every successful relationship needs.

    For more drag queens on Why Won't You Date Me, check out our episode playlist on Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/playlist/5cHUfQGWK4AtSXxQkMB0CY

    Support Black Lives Matter. For a list of resources and places to donate click here: https://blacklivesmatters.carrd.co/

    Follow Nicole Byer:

    Tour Dates: nicolebyerwastaken.com/tourdates

    Twitter: @nicolebyer

    Instagram: @nicolebyer

    Facebook: www.facebook.com/nicolebyercomedy

    Buy Merch: https://www.teepublic.com/stores/nicole-byer?ref_id=964

    Order Nicole's book: www.indiebound.org/book/9781524850746

    • 1 hr 4 min
    How to Date Virtually (w/ Jinkx Monsoon)

    How to Date Virtually (w/ Jinkx Monsoon)

    "Sex is always better when you can be yourself during it"

    Jinkx Monsoon (Winner of Rupaul's Drag Race S5) dishes about fulfilling race chaser fantasies, heteronormative roleplay, how their Grindr use has changed since being on Drag Race, and so much more. Also, Nicole shares the only appropriate time to yell 'NAILED IT' at her.

    For more drag queens on Why Won't You Date Me, check out our episode playlist on Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/playlist/5cHUfQGWK4AtSXxQkMB0CY

    Support Black Lives Matter. For a list of resources and places to donate click here: https://linktr.ee/dragher

    Follow Nicole Byer:

    Tour Dates: nicolebyerwastaken.com/tourdates

    Twitter: @nicolebyer

    Instagram: @nicolebyer

    Facebook: www.facebook.com/nicolebyercomedy

    Buy Merch: https://www.teepublic.com/stores/nicole-byer?ref_id=964

    Order Nicole's book: www.indiebound.org/book/9781524850746

    • 1 hr 6 min
    Butt Stuff (w/ Monét X Change)

    Butt Stuff (w/ Monét X Change)

    Drag queen Monét X Change (RuPaul's Drag Race, winner of RuPaul's Drag Race All Stars S4) shares the story about how they got their first STD from a race chaser, breaking up with their partner on Thanksgiving, and offers tips how to ease into butt stuff.

    Support Black Lives Matter. For a list of resources and places to donate click here: https://linktr.ee/dragher

    For more drag queens on Why Won't You Date Me, check out our drag queen episode playlist on Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/playlist/5cHUfQGWK4AtSXxQkMB0CY

    Follow Nicole Byer:

    Tour Dates: nicolebyerwastaken.com/tourdates

    Twitter: @nicolebyer

    Instagram: @nicolebyer

    Facebook: www.facebook.com/nicolebyercomedy

    Buy Merch: https://www.teepublic.com/stores/nicole-byer?ref_id=964

    Order Nicole's book: www.indiebound.org/book/9781524850746

    • 57 min
    Embrace Your Sloppy (w/ Michelle Buteau)

    Embrace Your Sloppy (w/ Michelle Buteau)

    The wonderful comedian Michelle Buteau (Always Be My Maybe, host of The Circle) discusses owning her sexuality, raising twins, being denied the ability to adopt kids, and so much more. Nicole and Michelle share their worst moments getting drunk on a plane, how the public keeps mistaking them for one another, and if having big tiddies makes it easier or harder to date

    For more Nicole Byer, check out her other podcast - Newcomers! Her and Lauren Lapkus are watching and reviewing Star Wars films for the very first time. Subscribe today so you don't miss an episode.

    Rate Why Won't You Date Me 5-stars on Apple Podcasts and leave a dirty comment for a chance to have it read on-air.

    Follow Nicole Byer:

    Tour Dates: nicolebyerwastaken.com/tourdates

    Twitter: @nicolebyer

    Instagram: @nicolebyer

    Facebook: www.facebook.com/nicolebyercomedy

    Buy Merch: https://www.teepublic.com/stores/nicole-byer?ref_id=964

    Order Nicole's new book: www.indiebound.org/book/9781524850746

    • 1 hr 2 min

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