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EVOLVE with Dr. Tay: the podcast for parents of autistic kids Dr. Taylor Day
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welcome to a parenting space actually designed for YOU! where you can get answers about navigating a life that includes autism.
I’m Dr. Tay, a licensed child psychologist specializing in autism and neuroaffirming care. I have supported 100s of autistic children and their families and have been in the autism field for over a decade.
on this podcast, we focus on supporting your autistic child AND your whole family, including you! every topic is on the table, and your questions (which you can submit through my social media) inspire the episodes created. I share some of my personal stories growing up with a brother who was diagnosed at 23 months of age as well as feature other families' stories so you know you are not navigating this journey alone. this is a space for you to be SEEN. HEARD. SUPPORTED. and get reputable and reliable information about autism instead of searching Google endlessly for hours. I am so dang grateful that you are here.
***disclaimer: not clinical advice, for educational purposes only***
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115 | PDA and IEPs: bridging the gap between home and school for autistic learners
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Dr. Tay, Jessica Hanzo, and Lisa Baskin Wright discuss:
navigating the IEP processworking with your child's school to have a shared understanding of PDA (pathological demand avoidance), a theorized profile of autismproposing appropriate accommodations and support strategies for PDA learners
RESOURCES
⚡️ keep learning and purchase the course Supporting PDA Learners: Centering Connection, Autonomy and Equality in the IEP Process
⚡️ connect with Jessica Hanzo, LMFT on Instagram @pda.project and visit her website
⚡️ connect with Lisa Basking Wright, IEP coach on Instagram @lisabaskinwright, on Facebook, and visit her website
⚡️ want to learn more about Dr. Tay's Whole Family Approach and current services offered? visit drtaylorday.com
⚡️ join the Evolve Facebook community to participate in the episode Q+As >> facebook.com/groups/evolveautism
⚡️ learn from me and submit your questions [could be featured on a future episode] >>
Instagram @the.dr.tay
TikTok @the.dr.tay
LinkedIn @the-dr-tay
*please note: PDA is a theorized profile of autism and not a clinical diagnosis. however, it has been a helpful conceptualization for many parents to learn about how their child's brain is wired. our knowledge of PDA is currently unfolding and I do my best to share up-to-date, balanced information. to learn more about PDA, please listen to episode 110 -
114 | beyond stereotypes: recognizing autism in females
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Dr. Tay discusses the highly requested topic of how autism often presents in females, particularly those with low support needs. This episode would still be an informative listen if you have a son who presents with high masking autism, as the more nuanced traits are discussed.
RESOURCES
⚡️ want more on this topic? listen to Dr. Donna Henderson's episode on girls (note: this episode was recorded for psychologists / neuropsychologists but still could be a good listen)
⚡️ want to learn more about Dr. Tay's Whole Family Approach and current services offered? visit drtaylorday.com
⚡️ join the Evolve Facebook community to participate in the episode Q+As >> facebook.com/groups/evolveautism
⚡️ learn from me and submit your questions [could be featured on a future episode] >>
Instagram @the.dr.tay
TikTok @the.dr.tay
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113 | the art of low demand parenting: redefining connection and shifting expectations with Amanda Diekman
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Dr. Tay and Amanda Diekman discuss:
what a low demand lifestyle isthe three layers of a demand how to find joy in this parenting journey
RESOURCES
⚡️ connect with Amanda Diekman
Instagram @lowdemandamanda
Facebook @lowdemandamanda
www.amandadiekman.com
Get the book
⚡️ want to learn more about Dr. Tay's Whole Family Approach and current services offered? visit drtaylorday.com
⚡️ join the Evolve Facebook community to participate in the episode Q+As >> facebook.com/groups/evolveautism
⚡️ learn from me and submit your questions [could be featured on a future episode] >>
Instagram @the.dr.tay
TikTok @the.dr.tay
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112 | a parent's path to supporting her PDA teen with Steph Curtis
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Dr. Tay and Steph Curtis discuss:
the nuances of raising a child with pathological demand avoidance (PDA), emphasizing early detection, adapting parenting techniques, and understanding unique needs.the journey to find the right educational setting for a child with PDA, dealing with societal pressures, and the critical role of flexibility and individualized approaches.leveraging community support and personal growth through blogging and writing, highlighting the value of connecting with community and the intersection of PDA with conditions like ADHD and anxiety.
RESOURCES
⚡️ resources referenced in today's episode
Steph's Blog
PDA in the Family: Life After the Lightbulb Moment
Sasha's Animation About her School Experiences
⚡️ connect with Steph Curtis, mom to two autistic daughters, writer, and PDA pioneer
Instagram @stephstwogirls
YouTube @stephstwogirls
Facebook @stephstwogirls
X @stephstwogirls
⚡️ want to learn more about Dr. Tay's Whole Family Approach and current services offered? visit drtaylorday.com
⚡️ join the Evolve Facebook community to participate in the episode Q+As >> facebook.com/groups/evolveautism
⚡️ learn from me and submit your questions [could be featured on a future episode] >>
Instagram @the.dr.tay
TikTok @the.dr.tay
LinkedIn @the-dr-tay
*please note: in this episode, many terminologies and phrases are used to describe autism. Dr. Tay honors what each child and family prefers, and intentionally chooses to use affirming and identity-first language after listening to autistic adults and their preferences. various guests on the podcast are likely to use the language that they have been exposed to the most.
**also PDA is a theorized profile of autism and not a clinical diagnosis. however, it has been a helpful conceptualization for many parents to learn about how their child's brain is wired. our knowledge of PDA is currently unfolding and I will do my best to share up-to-date, balanced information. To learn more about PDA, please listen to episode 110 -
111 | unraveling sleep challenges in autistic children: expert insights with Dr. Funke Afolabi-Brown
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Dr. Tay and Dr. Funke Afolabi-Brown, a pediatric sleep medicine physician, discuss:
what sleep medicine is and how a sleep medicine physician can helpthe three buckets of sleep issues - medical, behavioral, and 24-hour factorseducation about medications that impact sleep
RESOURCES
⚡️ connect with Funke Afolabi-Brown, MD, FAASM
https://www.therestfulsleepplace.com
Instagram @restfulsleepmd
Facebook @restfulsleepmd
YouTube @DrFunkeBrown
LinkedIn @drfunkebrown
⚡️ want to learn more about Dr. Tay's Whole Family Approach and current services offered? visit drtaylorday.com
⚡️ join the Evolve Facebook community to participate in the episode Q+As >> facebook.com/groups/evolveautism
⚡️ learn from me and submit your questions [could be featured on a future episode] >>
Instagram @the.dr.tay
TikTok @the.dr.tay
LinkedIn @the-dr-tay
*please note: in this episode, many terminologies and phrases are used to describe autism. Dr. Tay honors what each child and family prefers, and intentionally chooses to use affirming and identity-first language after listening to autistic adults and their preferences. various guests on the podcast are likely to use the language that they have been exposed to the most. -
110 | what is PDA?
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Dr. Tay provides an introduction to PDA (pathological demand avoidance, also known as persistent or pervasive drive for autonomy). In this episode, we discuss:
what PDA is as a theorized profile of autismvarying perspectives about PDAco-occurring conditions and their overlap with PDAsupport strategies and how to continue learning
RESOURCES
⚡️ download my free PDA guide
⚡️ want to learn more about Dr. Tay's Whole Family Approach and current services offered? visit drtaylorday.com
⚡️ join the Evolve Facebook community to participate in the episode Q+As >> facebook.com/groups/evolveautism
⚡️ learn from me and submit your questions [could be featured on a future episode] >>
Instagram @the.dr.tay
TikTok @the.dr.tay
LinkedIn @the-dr-tay
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