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Kshitij Real (pronounced Sh!t-is-real) is your place for the most real & raw conversations around Self-Improvement.⁣

Here we dive deep into the world of Relationships, Social Skills, Dating, Confidence, Charisma, Loneliness, Commitment, Intimacy, Self-Worth, Childhood Trauma, & Inner Child Work to name a few. ⁣

The host Kshitij Sehrawat, is an international personal development coach helping Men get more Dates, have deeper fulfilling Relationships, & Build Self-Worth. ⁣

He has helped 1000s of men in person and online through his transformational content and coaching over the past 5 years

Kshitij Real with Kshitij Sehrawat Kshitij Sehrawat

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Kshitij Real (pronounced Sh!t-is-real) is your place for the most real & raw conversations around Self-Improvement.⁣

Here we dive deep into the world of Relationships, Social Skills, Dating, Confidence, Charisma, Loneliness, Commitment, Intimacy, Self-Worth, Childhood Trauma, & Inner Child Work to name a few. ⁣

The host Kshitij Sehrawat, is an international personal development coach helping Men get more Dates, have deeper fulfilling Relationships, & Build Self-Worth. ⁣

He has helped 1000s of men in person and online through his transformational content and coaching over the past 5 years

    How To Meet Women During The Lockdown w/ Kshitij Sehrawat || Kshitij Real - Ep 13

    How To Meet Women During The Lockdown w/ Kshitij Sehrawat || Kshitij Real - Ep 13

    For the past few months, people have been asking me a very common question

    How to meet women during the lockdown?

    So, for this Kshitij Real episode, it'll be you, me, and wahi puraani bakchodi.

    Let's do a deep dive into:

    📌How to approach women.

    📌 What to do when someone is wearing the mask.

    📌 How dating has evolved during the lockdown. 

    Your Guardian Dating Angel,

    Kshitij. ❤️

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    📞📞 To get personally mentored by Kshitij, schedule a free call here:

    https://calendly.com/ironmanlifestyle/coaching

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    Timestamps:

    0:05- Introduction

    6:00- Livestream with Shwetabh revealed.

    8:20- What is the best age to approach.

    15:00- Mindset of a man in abundance.

    17:20- The concept of FOSLA.

    17:50- Times when Kshitij was obsessed with girls.

    22:00- How to reach an abundant mindset.

    24:27- How to realize abundance in a relationship

    27:00- Does age really matter.

    37:50- Be the hero of your own movie. 

    39:00- The best gift you can give to Kshitij.

    40:30- How to overcome approach anxiety and finally do the approach.

    44:50- Rejection rate of Kshitij

    45:45- How to handle rejection by a woman.

    49:00- Reality behind your journey with pickup.

    59:00- Why winners win and losers remain stuck.

    1:06:20- How to talk to a girl who’s out of your league.

    1:12:00- How to approach a girl with a mask on?

    1:13:00- Why girls are DTF during the lockdown.

    1:16:00- The perfect opener with a mask on.

    1:19:30- How to ask girls to put down their masks during the approach.

    1:25:00- Reality of an IIT / IIM graduate.

    1:28:30- Will buying a Ferrari get your girls. 

    1:29:30- What’s the lay count of Kshitij.

    1:33:00- Dating scenes in Bangalore.

    1:36:30- How to learn self-amusement.

    1:39:30- How to get started with game.

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    📌📌 To watch the Episodes live, tune in to the Iron Man Lifestyle YouTube Channel every Monday at 9 pm.

    https://www.youtube.com/c/ironmanlifestyle?sub_confirmation=1

    📌📌 Follow Kshitij on Instagram (@kshitijsehrawat):

    https://www.instagram.com/kshitijsehrawat/

    You can also find the Podcast on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, Google Podcasts, etc.

    • 1 hr 42 min
    Ex Delhi Club Owner Reveals Secrets of the Party Culture, Dating, & Influencer Game w/ @Abix Vlogs ​

    Ex Delhi Club Owner Reveals Secrets of the Party Culture, Dating, & Influencer Game w/ @Abix Vlogs ​

    For this week's episode on Kshitij Real, I've Abhinav Mathur, a.k.a. Abix.

    Abix is a men's Lifestyle creator and creates content around Styling, Grooming, Lifestyle, etc.

    On top of that, he's been fairly active in the party and dating scene in the country. 

    Some would say he's a natural when it comes to it. 

    And very recently he made the decision to get married, which is huge for any man making the transition into that married life. 

    We've talked about that and how his thought process was behind that. 

    On top of that, we've talked about :

    📌 Dating in India vs abroad.

    📌 The party culture. 

    📌 The well kept secrets of nightlife.

    📌 How to click and edit pictures like an IG influencer. 

    📌 Sliding into Instagram DMs.

    📌 Does a good IG profile and a huge number of Instagram followers play a role in your dating/social life?

    And tons more. 

    Let's fuck shit up.

    Kshitij. 🍺

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    📞📞 To get personally mentored by Kshitij, schedule a free call here:

    https://calendly.com/ironmanlifestyle/coaching

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    Timestamps:

    0:05- Introduction

    3:00- How Abix met Sirhud Kalra

    8:11- What made Abix decide to get married

    22:25- Should you get married when you are young?

    25:00- Do girls slide into an Instagram influencer’s DM’s?

    29:30- How to grow as an influencer

    31:00- Why Kshitij hate the word INFLUENCER?

    32:10- Humor VS Looking Good. What gets you results with girls

    35:00- Attraction is emotional. Tease her

    37:00- Story of a creepy guy in a nightclub 

    40:30- Stop putting girls on a pedestal to get them

    42:40- At what age Abix lost his virginity

    44:00- First heartbreak story of Abix

    48:00- How Kshitij used to creep girls out when he didn’t know pickup

    53:50- How Abix transitioned completely after losing his virginity

    57:40- The right mindset to meet women in a club

    1:00:00- The golden advice on bantering

    1:03:00- How social circle game is the easiest and most effective form of game

    1:08:35- Dress well or get denied entry into a club. Period

    1:11:00- A typical girl in a Delhi nightclub

    1:15:40- The truth behind getting a table in a club

    1:18:00- Do girls approach you if you get a table in a club

    1:28:00- When Kshitij cockblocked a club owner

    1:35:30- Abix explains how looks don’t matter to get girls

    1:40:30- The real definition of confidence

    1:42:20- Why Kshitij doesn’t give dating advice to women

    1:59:10- I have a girlfriend but I don’t feel like if I deserve them

    2:02:17- Can anyone from low self-esteem get a girlfriend

    2:08:00- How to not get jealous

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    📌📌 To watch the Episodes live, tune in to the Iron Man Lifestyle YouTube Channel every Monday at 9 pm.

    https://www.youtube.com/c/ironmanlifestyle?sub_confirmation=1

    📌📌 Follow Kshitij on Instagram (@kshitijsehrawat):

    https://www.instagram.com/kshitijsehrawat/

    • 2 hrs 14 min
    How To Protect Yourself Against False Cases & Allegations W/ @Amish Aggarwala || Kshitij Real Ep-11

    How To Protect Yourself Against False Cases & Allegations W/ @Amish Aggarwala || Kshitij Real Ep-11

    For this week's episode, I have my dear friend Amish Aggarwala with us.

    Amish is a Supreme Court lawyer and specializes in marriage disputes and allegations.

    Amish is an absolute pro at what he does.

    For this week's episode for Kshitij Real, I've invited Amish to shed some light on...

    📌 Laws regarding marriage disputes, false cases, and allegations in India.

    📌 We'll also be covering if it's legal to approach people in India.

    📌 He will tell us the right way to approach.

    📌 Things to keep in mind before getting married.

    Cheers,

    Kshitij.

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    📌📌 Get Amish's Book:

    7 THINGS MEN SHOULD KNOW BEFORE GETTING MARRIED: STORIES OF FALSE CASES AND LEGAL BATTLES IN INDIA by Amish Aggarwala 

    https://www.amazon.in/THINGS-SHOULD-BEFORE-GETTING-MARRIED-ebook/dp/B0879CWDWJ

    📞📞 To get personally mentored by Kshitij, schedule a free call here:

    https://calendly.com/ironmanlifestyle/coaching

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    Timestamps:

    0:00- Introduction

    10:51- Amish talks about Sarvjeet Singh Bedi case

    12:00- What really happened in the “Boys Locker Room” case

    14:00- Why can you never trust the police with your FIR?

    15:20- Is it legal to approach women in India

    17:00- Legal take on consent while approaching

    18:00- What is a girl puts false allegations on you

    20:52- Kshitij’s tells his story of when police tried to pull false allegations over him

    31:20- Road-rage story of Amish when he got into some false allegations by a girl

    33:31- What to do if you’re falsely accused

    40:00- Are marriages still sacred these days

    51:50- Who is a misogynist

    54:00- Why you shouldn’t hate Donald Trump

    56:10- How to handle a crazy / man-handling girlfriend

    1:00:00- Amish drinks vodka over the live stream

    1:03:00- Kshitij tells a story about how he handled a cyberbully

    1:13:00- Kshitij’s real view on marriage

    1:19:57- Do prenups work in India

    1:27:20- How to save yourself from false accusation\

    1:33:45- Are you at fault if you are involved with a woman in a relationship/marriage

    1:41:10- Do you have to pay maintenance if you’ve kids without marriage

    1:44:30- Laws for live-in relationships

    1:47:23- Do live-in relationships end up toxic

    1:48:15- What if you’re caught having sex in a car

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    📌📌 To watch the Episodes live, tune in to the Iron Man Lifestyle YouTube Channel every Monday at 9 pm.

    https://www.youtube.com/c/ironmanlifestyle?sub_confirmation=1

    📌📌 Follow Kshitij on Instagram (@kshitijsehrawat):

    https://www.instagram.com/kshitijsehrawat/

    • 1 hr 58 min
    How To Handle Jealous Ex-Boyfriends, AMOGs, & Fights W/ Knockout Fight Club Mannan Dattah || Kshitij Real Ep-10

    How To Handle Jealous Ex-Boyfriends, AMOGs, & Fights W/ Knockout Fight Club Mannan Dattah || Kshitij Real Ep-10

    For this week's live session, I've got my dear friend Mannan Dattah with us.

    Mannan owns Knockout Fight Club, the leading chain of MMA gyms in Delhi. 

    Teaching everything from Boxing, MMA to handling street fights. Mannan is LEGIT.

    And absolutely loves what I do.

    One of the most common objections I get from people is their fear of the girl being with some jealous ex-boyfriends, or being cockblocked by some guy (AMOG as some call it), and a fight breaking out.

    So, in this week's episode for Kshitij Real, I've got Mannan in his gym to teach you about the same. 

    Love💖,

    Kshitij.

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    📎📎 Special offer for Kshitij Real Listeners:

    Get a free trial class and 70% off on annual membership, @ ₹18500 only.

    Go to Knockout Fight Club

    📞📞 To get personally mentored by Kshitij, schedule a free call here:

    https://calendly.com/ironmanlifestyle/coaching

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    Timestamps:

    0:05- Introduction

    1:00- Mannan talks about his self-defense course with Jason

    04:00- Size doesn’t matter when it comes to fighting

    05:30- How MMA was born?

    08:45- Why traditional self-defense is generally useless

    14:45- Why UFC has weight classes and why that is b******t

    17:00- Streetfight demonstration

    19:30- How to avoid a fight with a drunk person

    23:45- Importance of mindset in a fight

    28:00- Elbow strike, hammer and palm strike demonstration

    30:10- Lower body strikes demonstration

    31:00- Importance of shouting during a fight

    34:00- how to de-escalate a fight

    36:10- Mannan’s “Intelligent Self-Defense System”

    39:30- The real reason why fights happen (The Drama Triangle)

    48:30- Body language during de-escalation

    53:45- When to switch gears during de-escalation

    1:05:40- Issues with traditional martial arts

    1:13:00- How to handle a group

    1:20:00- How to run from an escalated situation 

    1:24:00- How to leave an escalated situation

    1:30:00- When to unleash your inner animal

    1:38:10- How self-defense gives you social freedom

    1:41:00- How fear of confrontation holds people back

    1:46:40- How to learn self-defense being a novice

    1:49:00- How martial arts lets you get over your fears

    1:57:45- Should you let yourself be slapped

    1:59:30- Advice for meek guys

    2:01:45- What should be the game-plan for weak men

    2:07:00- Why is it necessary to own your sexuality

    2:11:00- Violent intent always beats techniques

    2:14:45- Mannan gives us a discount on his membership

    2:21:30- The complete self-defense demonstration

    2:30:30- Why your aggression and sexuality needs to be owned

    2:32:00- Why we’re not able to express what we’re feeling

    2:36:20- Advice for short guys

    2:37:00- How to get started with self-defense

    2:39:50- How good is kalarippayattu as a martial art? 

    2:40:00- How to let go of fear in your real life

    2:51:00- Can people with glasses do MMA

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    📌📌 To watch the Episodes live, tune in to the Iron Man Lifestyle YouTube Channel every Mondays at 9pm.

    https://www.youtube.com/c/ironmanlifestyle?sub_confirmation=1

    📌📌 Follow Kshitij on Instagram (@kshitijsehrawat):

    https://www.instagram.com/kshitijsehrawat/

    You can also find the Podcast on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, Google Podcasts, etc.

    • 2 hrs 56 min
    Your Ultimate Guide To Understanding Dating & Relationships W/ Kshitij Sehrawat || Kshitij Real- Ep 09

    Your Ultimate Guide To Understanding Dating & Relationships W/ Kshitij Sehrawat || Kshitij Real- Ep 09

    In all the previous sessions we've had guests come live for Kshitij Real.

    For this episode, I thought I'd change some things around and just make it more intimate between us.

    So, for this episode, it'll be you, me, and hamari tanhaai. Aur wahi jo aksar baatein chalti hain akele me.

    Let's do a deep dive into dating & relationships and just talk about the overarching ideas around it.

    Your Guardian Dating Angel,

    Kshitij.

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    📞📞 To get personally mentored by Kshitij, schedule a free call here:

    https://calendly.com/ironmanlifestyle/coaching

    ===================================

    Timestamps:

    0:00- Introduction

    01:10- Mentorship and Bootcamp. What are these programs & what’s the difference between the two?

    03:00- Why Kshitij is quitting casual sex?

    07:10- Why we feel we need more and more girls and not feeling contempt

    11:30- Some highlights of daygame

    13:30- Importance of “playing to win” mentality in game

    19:30- Why trying to close the same day spoils your results

    22:50- What does it mean to go for the girl

    24:35- Importance of communication in a relationship

    28:15- How to game during the lockdown

    28:30- How can busy professionals have a good dating life

    31:10- Is it safe to go to clubs during a lockdown?

    33:30- How to improve your English

    35:15- Why people lose interest in a girl after they get her validation

    39:30- How to approach a girl with her father

    46:10- Assuming the best for you and coming from a growth-based mindset

    48:30- How to go out solo

    53:25- Feeling a lot of guilt and self-sabotage

    54:01- How to hit up your childhood crush

    58:25- What to do if you have confidence but can’t approach girls

    01:01:00- How is Todd Valentine’s style of game

    01:04:00- How to get out of your head

    01:04:23- Is a relationship good or bad for a teenager

    01:05:30- Do having money gets you girls

    01:08:10- Girls don’t laugh on my jokes

    01:09:30- How do you know that you are healed

    01:12:40- I lost my skills to be extroverted due to my girlfriend

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    📌📌 To watch the Episodes live, tune in to the Iron Man Lifestyle YouTube Channel every Monday at 9 pm.

    https://www.youtube.com/c/ironmanlifestyle?sub_confirmation=1

    📌📌 Follow Kshitij on Instagram (@kshitijsehrawat):

    https://www.instagram.com/kshitijsehrawat/

    You can also find the Podcast on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, Google Podcasts, etc.

    • 1 hr 21 min
    Why I'm Quitting Casual $€X And Looking To Build Deeper Relationships || Kshitij Real - Ep 08

    Why I'm Quitting Casual $€X And Looking To Build Deeper Relationships || Kshitij Real - Ep 08

    Why I'm Quitting Casual $€X And Looking To Build Deeper Relationships

    I've been doing Game for close to 10 years now.

    The past decade has been nothing but going out, meeting women, and having $€x.

    But, a couple of years back in my pickup journey I came to a realization that mindless steamy $€x (no matter how amazing it sounds), wasn't serving me anymore.

    Also, I became great with meeting women.

    But would never be able to get into a relationship or even maintain one.

    Anytime I'd meet someone amazing, my perfect 10, and things would start to get a little bit serious...

    I'd pull back.

    It always felt like I was being tied down, my freedom was being curbed, and felt suffocated and started to build resentment.

    So, I went on another deep discovery journey to find out why that was happening.

    And what I found out blew my mind.

    Which was followed by deep inner work on sorting all those issues out.

    Which is the exact thing that most of the pickup and self-help community completely overlooks.

    So, if you've ever been remotely into pickup/ dating/ self-help of any kind; this episode is for you.

    Check it out.

    Love,

    Kshitij.

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    📞📞 Want to get coached? Schedule a free call here:

    https://www.ironmanlifestyle.co/breakthrough

    ===================================

    📌📌 To watch the Episodes live, tune in to the Iron Man Lifestyle YouTube Channel every Monday at 9 pm.

    https://www.youtube.com/c/ironmanlifestyle?sub_confirmation=1

    📌📌 Follow Kshitij on Instagram (@kshitijsehrawat):

    https://www.instagram.com/kshitijsehrawat/

    You can also find the Podcast on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, Google Podcasts, etc.

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