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UPCOMING COURSES WITH LEAH PIPER. SACRAMENTO; MAY 10-12.


Leah and I discuss the possibilities in both the tantric and BDSM traditions.  We will be teaching a new course titled : MAKING SEX DIRTY AGAIN, that will offer the participants an exploration into both the YES as well as the NO elements in our Eros.


Friday before the weekend course, I will be doing a BDSM demo and Q&A.


Demo Page : https://omrupani.org/courses/om-rupani-talk-on-bdsm-principles-domsub-energetics-live-demo


Course Page : https://omrupani.org/dirty


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Leah’s Links:


Leah Piper


More Love Works


www.moreloveworks.com


www.sexreimagined.com


support@moreloveworks.com
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GRADUATES OF PRIESTESS TRAINING SHARING ABOUT THIER EXPERIENCE


The next run of Priestess Training starts on June 22.


Several of our graduates share here about their experience with the course.


If you are thinking of joining, please reach out with any questions.


COURSE PAGE : https://omrupani.org/practitioner-mastery


— Om Rupani




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10 BDSM SKILLS THAT CAN INFORM ALL RELATIONSHIPS : 05 - END YOUR SCENE!


Long-term couples are often struggling with recapturing the spark they felt with each other during the beginning of their connections.


Regular therapists offer their own solutions to what a couple might try to find their way out of the doldrums of an ongoing dynamic that may be prone to falling into domesticity rather than romance and passion.
BDSM has it’s own flavor of advice and wisdom:  
END YOUR SCENES!  
RITUALIZE YOUR RELATIONSHIP!
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Make your life into distinct scenes.
Close each scene.  
Make your scene interesting enough that you feel full at the end.
Know how to end on a peak.
A good scene is a full meal of relating.
When you talk to most couple, they may be spending hours each day together and yet it does not seem that they have had a full meal of relationship in a long time.
Scenes create intensity.
It’s satisfying to close scenes and cycles.
Satisfaction is experienced at the end of a cycle.  If you don’t end cycles, you may miss out on satisfaction.
We need distinct events in our relating.
We need punctuation marks in our relating.  Close sentences and paragraphs and chapters in your relating; then start new ones.  You need a change of costume.  You need a change of location.
How can long term couples end their scenes?
Create separation.  Set up a lifestyle with punctation marks instead of run-on sentences.  
Don’t try to ruin the separation.  Use life to create separation.  Create distance.  Enjoy distance.  Give each other separation.  
Stop being husband and wife for a while, and then pick it up again.  
Have a morning scene.  Have an evening scene.
Your time together should be a segment.
Make occasion of occasions.
Switch archetypes from scene to scene.
Separate scene from scene.
If you are going out to dinner, don’t have domestic conversation on the way to dinner or at dinner or after dinner.  Set up a domestic scene instead.  
Dress up for each scene.
If all this sounds extravagant, it’s your choice how deliberately you want to live your life.
More interesting is available in our living, but it does require more deliberate effort and creation.
End your scenes.  Divide your life into scenes.  In between the scenes let there be clean separation.
Let the man go do his Saturday scene.  Let the woman have her Saturday scene.  Give each other scenes separate from each other.
— Om Rupani
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UPCOMING BDSM TRAININGS:


DEMO + Q&A - SACRAMENTO; MAY 10 : https://omrupani.org/courses/om-rupani-talk-on-bdsm-principles-domsub-energetics-live-demo




MAKING SEX DIRTY AGAIN - SACRAMENTO; MAY 11, 12 : https://omrupani.org/dirty




PRIESTESS TRAINING - JERSEY CITY; JUNE 22 : https://omrupani.org/practitioner-mastery




TANTRA MEETS BDSM - AUSTRIA; AUGUST 16 : https://omrupani.org/tantra-bdsm




BDSM FUNDAMENTALS & SCENE PLAY TRAINING : https://omrupani.org/bdsm-training


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MEN SHOULD RESIST THE URGE TO SPEAK & ACT ANONYMOUSLY IN THIS WORLD




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UPCOMING COURSE FOR MEN —-


DISMANTLING THE NICE GUY IDENTITY : https://omrupani.org/#/short-online-courses/




REGAINING OUR EDGE AS MEN : https://omrupani.org/#/short-online-courses/




CREATING THE DOMINANT MAN : https://omrupani.org/creating-the-dominant-man


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THE SHADOW SIDE OF NICE GUY IDENTITY


*(This is part of the module from the upcoming course DISMANTLING THE NICE GUY IDENTITY)


Nice guys aren’t all that nice, it turns out.


Nice guys are often holding in a lot of anger.  Sometimes the quantity of this anger can easily qualify as rage.


Nice guys are often quite jealous and envious of other men and often act in underhanded way to hurt or sabotage men they are envious off.


Nice guys often are full of resentment.


Nice guys tend to be two-faced, and can thus come across as creepy.  People perceive something incoherent in their niceness.  People don’t entirely buy the nice guy’s niceness, causing them distrust the nice guy.


Nice guys are often passive aggressive and hurtful in other ways.


Nice guys are quite judgmental of others — both men and women.  They are judgmental of men who seem to be having success in life and with women in spite of not being nice.  And they are judgmental of women who don’t seem to appreciate their niceness and/or reciprocate their niceness with desire.


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UPCOMING COURSE FOR MEN —-


DISMANTLING THE NICE GUY IDENTITY : https://omrupani.org/#/short-online-courses/




REGAINING OUR EDGE AS MEN : https://omrupani.org/#/short-online-courses/




CREATING THE DOMINANT MAN : https://omrupani.org/creating-the-dominant-man






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NEW COURSE ON DARK EROS WITH LEAH PIPER!


I’m very excited to be collaborating with Leah Piper for a new course that will allow the participants to investigate the darker, more troublesome and ‘NO’ element of their Eros.


We are going to use the BDSM framework of scene play and Dom-sub dynamic to take the participants through a series of investigations into various ‘NO’ aspects, so they may discover where there might be a zone of eros hiding for them.


Within the structured container of a scene and with plenty of Containment from their parters, people may choose to go into these ‘zones of aversion’ to make their discoveries and perhaps encounter new turn-ons for themselves.


Full Course Description : https://om-rupani.squarespace.com/config/website/pages


This course will in Leah’s home in Carmichale, CA on May 11th and 12th.  Capacity is limited.


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On the evening of May 10th, I will be doing a BDSM demo and talking about the foundational principles and energetics of the Dom-sub connection.


More Details : https://omrupani.org/courses/om-rupani-talk-on-bdsm-principles-domsub-energetics-live-demo




Hope to see some of you there.


Please reach out if you have any questions.


Om Rupani
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