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Four Christian wives encourage other wives to enjoy God’s gift of sex in all of its awesomeness by presenting a biblical view, practical tips, and engaging discussion about godly sexual intimacy.

Sex Chat for Christian Wives Bonny Burns, Gaye Christmus, J Parker, and Chris Taylor

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Four Christian wives encourage other wives to enjoy God’s gift of sex in all of its awesomeness by presenting a biblical view, practical tips, and engaging discussion about godly sexual intimacy.

    Getting Comfortable with Your Body

    Getting Comfortable with Your Body

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    About the Episode
    We understand the struggle wives often have with their body image and how it affects their sexuality. Today we want to revisit this topic to discuss how we can finally embrace our bodies and get comfortable being naked with our husbands.
    Why is having a positive body image such a challenge for women? What can we do to combat messages that make us feel worse about ourselves? Do we have any responsibility to take care of our bodies? Despite how we feel about ourselves, most husbands find their wives beautiful. But what about the wife whose husband criticizes her appearance? What advice from your own journey would you give to help a wife embrace a positive body image? Sponsor

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    From the Bible
    For you created my inmost being;
        you knit me together in my mother’s womb.
    I praise you because I am fearfully and wonderfully made;
        your works are wonderful,
        I know that full well.
    Psalm 139:13-14
    Resources
    Body Image Got You Down? - The Forgiven Wife
    Body by God - The Forgiven Wife|
    He Can't Really Be Happy with My Body - J's guest post on The Forgiven Wife
    Enjoy a Plus-Sized Sex Life - The Forgiven Wife
    5 Ways to Feel More Attractive – Beauty and Confidence for Real Women - Calm.Healthy.Sexy.
    My Husband’s Big Belly Turns Me Off. Am I Shallow? - Bonny's OysterBed7
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    • 30 min
    Out with the Old, In with the New

    Out with the Old, In with the New

    Today we're talking about letting go of something old in our marriages and taking hold of something new in 2020.

    • 25 min
    Gift Guide

    Gift Guide

    Welcome to our Christmas episode! Listen as we share a little about ourselves. Plus, we thank you for listening by offering gift suggestions to build your lovemaking experience, your bedroom ambiance, and your connection with your sweetie.
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    From the Bible
    James 1:17, "Every good and perfect gift is from above, coming down from the Father of the heavenly lights, who does not change like shifting shadows."
    Resources
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    • 26 min
    Support from Other Women

    Support from Other Women

    In this episode, we talk about how to find support for our sexual struggles and how to use that support to help us grow. We’re joined by Ruth Buezis, founder of Awaken-Love Ministry and author of Awaken Love: The Truth About Sex that will Transform Your Marriage.

    • 33 min
    Sexless Marriages

    Sexless Marriages

    About the Episode
    Around 20% of marriages are sexless. That is, the couple has sexual activity ten or fewer times per year. About ten years ago, a New York Times study indicated that 15% of couples haven’t had sex in at least six months.
    Sexlessness in a marriage can be a source of deep pain—and if often reflects pain as well.
    Today we’re going to talk about sexless marriages and what you can do about it if you’re in one.
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    From the Bible
    What does God have to say about sexless marriages?

    "The husband should fulfill his marital duty to his wife, and likewise the wife to her husband. The wife does not have authority over her own body but yields it to her husband. In the same way, the husband does not have authority over his own body but yields it to his wife. Do not deprive each other except perhaps by mutual consent and for a time, so that you may devote yourselves to prayer. Then come together again so that Satan will not tempt you because of your lack of self-control." 1 Corinthians 7:3-5

    Song of Songs

    "Carry each other’s burdens, and in this way you will fulfill the law of Christ." Galatians 6:2

    "You, my brothers and sisters, were called to be free. But do not use your freedom to indulge the flesh; rather, serve one another humbly in love." Galatians 5:13

    "Do nothing out of selfish ambition or vain conceit. Rather, in humility value others above yourselves, not looking to your own interests but each of you to the interests of the others." Philippians 2:3-4

    "That is why a man leaves his father and mother and is united to his wife, and they become one flesh." Genesis 2:24

    "'Haven’t you read,' he replied, 'that at the beginning the Creator "made them male and female," and said, 'For this reason a man will leave his father and mother and be united to his wife, and the two will become one flesh’? So they are no longer two, but one flesh. Therefore what God has joined together, let no one separate.'" Matthew 19:4-6

    How beautiful you are and how pleasing, my love, with your delights! - Song of Songs 7:6

    Resources
    Unlock Your Libido: 52-Week Sex Drive Transformation by Bonny Logsdon Burns
    Intimacy Revealed: 52 Devotions to Enhance Sex in Marriage by J. Parker
    Why Knowing Your Low Drive Spouse's Love Language Is Important - Bonny's OysterBed7
    Move Mismatched Sex Drives Toward Better - Bonny's OysterBed7
    Ways to Align Mismatched Sex Drives - Bonny's Oysterbed7 @Messy Marriage
    Helping Mismatched Sex Drives Become More Matched - Bonny's OysterBed7
    Why Sex? - Bonny's OysterBed7
    How to Arouse Sexual Desire Through Emotional Connection - Bonny's OysterBed7
    Eliminate These to Help Grow Mismatched Sex Drives - Bonny's OysterBed7
    Dear Wife, You Deserve a Great Sex Life Too - Calm.Healthy.Sexy
    Just Because He Stopped Asking Doesn’t Mean He Stopped Wanting - Hot, Holy & Humorous
    Is Refusing Sex in Marriage a Sin? - Hot, Holy & Humorous
    Q&A with J: “What If Neither of Us Desires Sex?” - Hot, Holy & Humorous
    Q&A with J: I’m in a Sexless Marriage - Hot, Holy & Humorous
    Q&A with J: “My Sexless Marriage Is Making Me Lose My Faith in God” - Hot, Holy & Humorous
    Is the Church Failing Sexless Marriages? - Hot, Holy & Humorous
    Q&A with J: “What Can I Do About My Sexless Marriage?” Part 1 - Hot, Holy & Humorous
    Q&A with J: How Do I Write a Post that Helps Sexless Marriages?
    Q&A with J: “What Can I Do About My Sexless Marriage?” Part 2 - Hot, Holy & Humorous
    A Prayer for Sexless Marriages - Hot, Holy & Humorous
    Q&A with J: “What Can I Do About My Sexless Marriage?” Part 3 - Hot, Holy & Humorous
    Q&A with J: “What Can I Do About My Sexless Marriage?” Part 4 - Hot, Holy & Humorous
    How the Sexually Rejected Spouse Feels - Hot, Holy & Humorous
    How the Sexually Disinterested Spouse Feels - Hot, Holy & Humorous
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    • 42 min
    Shower Power

    Shower Power

    Today we’re talking about bathing and showering—not just having sex in a shower or bathtub, but the whole kit-and-caboodle. You’ll see what we mean once we get started.

    • 24 min

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